Ok you lot, that may be fair enough, perhaps the tone did slip. You have to be fair though and admit it slipped on both sides?
Custardo's comment above is hardly nice now is it?
I wasn't involved with the earlier part of the thread, so can't comment there. I will go back and read it carefully if you think this has contributed to the later problems?
I think it's extremely difficult for a conversation like this to carry on for all that long without descending rather. It shows the frustration both sides end up feeling having tried to explain their point many times, to be met with a lack of understanding from the opposite side doesn't it? Especially with such a sensitive subject matter.
Offence is perceived(often where none is intended) and then returned. In many ways, we may as well be speaking different languages, our views are so alien to one another, and of course not understanding the nuances of these languages causes problems(don't jump on me here, I don't mean every post)
It has been informative though, and uncomfortable as it can be, it is interesting to hear the 'other side', and probably necessary to make yourself aware of it.
I hope I haven't deeply offended anyone, I will not take any offence away from this discussion with me, as I understand it is just people trying to defend their beliefs, whatever they may be.