Xenia, re the long working hours - your job, like the hedge funders etc, is your choice. IT is not a matter of survival that you do that job and work those long hours, it is a matter of lifestyle choice. Like my job. However my neighbour, a widow from nigeria with 3 children, works as a cleaner, she is out of the door at 4am to go and clean offices in the city, she cleans all day, back home for 3pm to get the youngest kid from school then back out again for night cleaning at a hospital once her teenagers come home from school as they can look after the youngest. She isn't paying a mortgage, she is paying someone else's mortgage with her rent. She has absolutely no choice but to work those long hours or she won't be able to pay the rent, buy the food, or pay the bills. She could come on here and point out her long hours. You can too. But it does tend to make people feel a little queasy when you do it.