We have an authoritarian problem. Which is coming from both the left and right.
The efforts to silence debate mean sensible but controversial and sometimes very sensitive conversations we need to have are not being had because 'it causes offence'.
The reality is, can't stop people feeling uncomfortable in some reality important conversations because there are inconvenient truths we do not want to admit to because they conflict with our other views.
It's this rigid thinking and tribalism that is the problem. It's the unwillingness to listen to anyone but the sound of our own voices.
Liberalism is founded on the principle of listening to each other not shouting at each other. You can not be 'progressive' if you stop listening.
There's this fucked up idea that liberalism is a bunch of set ideas and morals. It's not. It's a recognition that the world isn't perfect and you have to not compromise - that's the wrong word - understand what other people's values, priorities and concerns are and more importantly than that understand WHY they are saying it.
I don't believe people are fundamentally racist at heart. I do believe that they turn to racism if they feel social injustice though and they feel like concerns aren't being listened to.
Ardey probably covers this fault in the culture war neatly because of that. He has suffered racism but he's suffered racism because he was given special treatment and there was a lack of accountability that applies to others. That's different to giving opportunities to disadvantaged groups. It's a failure to understand that some people will take the piss out of in-built opportunity in the system and to protect yourself adequately against that by ensuring that those you give the opportunity to do have the talent and are merely disadvantaged by circumstance rather than being given an unfair advantage and a lack of ability. It's about identity being more important than substance and a total lack of monitoring of your gatekeeping.
The level of nuances in this conversation is huge. But really important.
We seem to be stuck in the trap of having 256 character, over simplified and totally immature shouting matches rather than having in-depth, honest and hard adult conversations about anything.
Ultimately our depth of understanding 'the other side' and it's motivations is dreadful. It's easier to sling insults about.
The centre right is currently doing a better job than the centre left of adequately recognising the importance of the role of free speech (aka accountability) in this. This largely due to the left being so much more concerned about having the right PR and are terrified of doing the essential job of being self critical of parts of their own tent.
Meanwhile the majority electorate and the sane headed who live in the real world rather than these self bloating bubbles of echoes, can see everyone has something of a point to offer and has a valuable contribution in some way and they are tired of the arrogant nosy bloatiavators.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ckg4kn44l8lo
The BBC have run this article today. It's important.
"Giving your opponent a way out" is one of his golden rules of campaigning - his full list can be found in his new book Institutionalised Deceit: Taking the Lid off Westminster Governance.
Another is to avoid party tribalism. Despite voting Green, Bailey has rarely been picky about who he works with.
In the 1980s, he teamed up with the Association for the Conservation of Energy, a body governed by directors and CEOs.
In a goodbye speech at the end of his time with them, Bailey said: "Perhaps we have both learnt something.
"I have learnt that not all capitalist bastards are capitalist bastards and you have learnt that not all anarchist nutters are anarchist nutters."
Another mantra is to always appear "ultra reasonable". In his book he writes: "Make it as difficult as possible for people to oppose you."
This is where the modern likes of climate protesters fail miserably when they glue themselves to the road and make even sympathetic environmentally motivated voters decide they'd quite like to go and buy an SUV so they can drive around the nutters. Or when Amnesty decides that rape crisis charities are far right and it's obvious to everyone with a brain cell how meaningless and fucking ridiculous this claim is.
Engaging braincells and ears would do everyone the world of bloody good.
People turn to the right, when the left goes deaf or starts to naval gaze at its own sanctimonious meaningless ineffective drivel.
It's the difference between being told something is bad and blindly accepting this or going out into the street, using your eyes and ears and working out for yourself using your critical thinking skills whether what you are being told matches reality.