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Sikh mum stabbed to death in her home and husband injured by stranger

65 replies

LobeliaBaggins · 17/07/2026 10:37

I think this story deserves more press. A Sikh woman- a new mum- was murdered in her home as she was asleep with her baby, by a complete stranger with a knife. This report mentions another man was injured, which in other reports turned out to be her husband. It;s alarming and needs further investigation, I believe.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cvg7r59gyzzo

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PerkingFaintly · 18/07/2026 10:09

DontyMon · 18/07/2026 10:06

Absolutely nuts that you think it's ok to speculate in this way about a widower who has lost his wife and mother to his newborn child. It's immoral.

Thanks @DontyMon , I was trying to work out how to articulate my shock at that post.

But you've got it in a nutshell.

TemperanceWest · 18/07/2026 10:10

DontyMon · 18/07/2026 10:06

Absolutely nuts that you think it's ok to speculate in this way about a widower who has lost his wife and mother to his newborn child. It's immoral.

Absolutely.

Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 10:10

PollyBell · 18/07/2026 09:57

So what is relevant information is missing and what bits are people picking out to meet whatever agenda they have?

Loads of information missing (which the police probably don’t have or could be keeping secret for perfectly good reasons)

  • what was he looking for in those particular houses?
  • why did he keep going until he broke one door down but not the previous ones? Normally random burglars try doors until one opens, not until they pick one to smash.
  • why did he attack that man in the street? Did the man try to stop him breaking into a house?
  • why did he kill the woman who was no threat to him but not her husband beside her who was potentially a greater threat?
  • If it was racist, what race was the man attacked in the street and why not stab the husband who was the same race as the victim? He was also a greater threat to the attacker than his wife
TemperanceWest · 18/07/2026 10:11

Emilesgran · 17/07/2026 13:25

The article you linked to says her husband was asleep beside her. And that the attacker had injured another man in the street outside.

There’s definitely a lot of information missing there. Why would a man break into the house of people he didn’t know and murder the woman asleep in bed beside her husband, but not attack the husband??

Or was it the husband who was outside in the street? In which case why go inside and murder the wife whom he apparently didn’t know?

ETA: here’s one that says the man injured outside was the husband: https://www.ndtv.com/world-news/kirandeep-kaur-indian-mother-24-stabbed-to-death-at-uk-home-family-calls-it-hate-crime-11777982

All very unclear. TBH (and obviously I could be completely wrong) I’m getting vibes of the South African honeymoon murder where it was the husband who paid for his wife to be killed by a randomer. But maybe easier to find in SA than in west London.

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Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 10:12

ForGreenExpert · 18/07/2026 10:02

Sounds like a lot like Marcus Monzo to me (Hainault sword attack) who was off his face from cannabis misuse

I don’t really remember that. Sounds awful too.

TemperanceWest · 18/07/2026 10:14

Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 10:10

Loads of information missing (which the police probably don’t have or could be keeping secret for perfectly good reasons)

  • what was he looking for in those particular houses?
  • why did he keep going until he broke one door down but not the previous ones? Normally random burglars try doors until one opens, not until they pick one to smash.
  • why did he attack that man in the street? Did the man try to stop him breaking into a house?
  • why did he kill the woman who was no threat to him but not her husband beside her who was potentially a greater threat?
  • If it was racist, what race was the man attacked in the street and why not stab the husband who was the same race as the victim? He was also a greater threat to the attacker than his wife

This is also horrible speculation. Stop.

ShhhYouDontKnowMe · 18/07/2026 10:16

Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 10:12

I don’t really remember that. Sounds awful too.

He murdered a 14 year old boy who was on his way to school.

Lumpycat · 18/07/2026 10:24

Absolutely nothing from what any of us know about this horrendous attack to suggest it’s anything other than a random attack - probably from someone mentally ill.
I don’t like that people try and use events to further their own agendas or pet theories. It’s massively disrespectful and stupid. Especially the speculation about her husband.

She was 24. So sad. This happened quite near to me so there has been a lot of talk about it.

Lumpycat · 18/07/2026 10:27

Ps the majority of people in that area are South Asian/Sikh so any random attack is likely to involve S Asians.

mummypigoink · 18/07/2026 10:47

We aren’t hearing more about it because these awful acts were committed, a suspect was treated in hospital, arrested and then charged, all in pretty short order.

So, there’s no real time for speculation because once he’s charged, nothing can be reported that could prejudice the trial. And if all the answers to all the questions were given now, he ain’t ever getting convicted.

Notwithstanding, I’m sure the trial and the subsequent inquest into Mrs Kaur’s tragic death is going to hear many of the same things we’ve heard before. At those points, I’m sure there will be much more coverage.

ShhhYouDontKnowMe · 18/07/2026 10:51

On the limited info available I wonder if it will turn out to be another Valdo Calocane situation where the alleged perpetrator was a known risk that wasn’t managed.

LobeliaBaggins · 18/07/2026 10:55

ShhhYouDontKnowMe · 18/07/2026 10:51

On the limited info available I wonder if it will turn out to be another Valdo Calocane situation where the alleged perpetrator was a known risk that wasn’t managed.

Does seem like it. It's alarming, the level of untreated mental illness in this country.

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hcee19 · 18/07/2026 11:00

Emilesgran · 17/07/2026 13:25

The article you linked to says her husband was asleep beside her. And that the attacker had injured another man in the street outside.

There’s definitely a lot of information missing there. Why would a man break into the house of people he didn’t know and murder the woman asleep in bed beside her husband, but not attack the husband??

Or was it the husband who was outside in the street? In which case why go inside and murder the wife whom he apparently didn’t know?

ETA: here’s one that says the man injured outside was the husband: https://www.ndtv.com/world-news/kirandeep-kaur-indian-mother-24-stabbed-to-death-at-uk-home-family-calls-it-hate-crime-11777982

All very unclear. TBH (and obviously I could be completely wrong) I’m getting vibes of the South African honeymoon murder where it was the husband who paid for his wife to be killed by a randomer. But maybe easier to find in SA than in west London.

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Sometimes the police hold back divulging certain information which could jeopardise the investigation.

Netcurtainnelly · 18/07/2026 19:31

He broke both his ankles trying to escape through the window. Trial later in in the year. Where I guess it will all come out.

What a horrible world we are living in.

Netcurtainnelly · 18/07/2026 19:32

Lumpycat · 18/07/2026 10:24

Absolutely nothing from what any of us know about this horrendous attack to suggest it’s anything other than a random attack - probably from someone mentally ill.
I don’t like that people try and use events to further their own agendas or pet theories. It’s massively disrespectful and stupid. Especially the speculation about her husband.

She was 24. So sad. This happened quite near to me so there has been a lot of talk about it.

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The Sikh community saying their woman are being targeted. Just saw a group on the news. It's all women suffering and they don't have any evidence she was targeted for being a Sikh

Netcurtainnelly · 18/07/2026 19:34

Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 10:10

Loads of information missing (which the police probably don’t have or could be keeping secret for perfectly good reasons)

  • what was he looking for in those particular houses?
  • why did he keep going until he broke one door down but not the previous ones? Normally random burglars try doors until one opens, not until they pick one to smash.
  • why did he attack that man in the street? Did the man try to stop him breaking into a house?
  • why did he kill the woman who was no threat to him but not her husband beside her who was potentially a greater threat?
  • If it was racist, what race was the man attacked in the street and why not stab the husband who was the same race as the victim? He was also a greater threat to the attacker than his wife

Some men hate women don't they. Or maybe if it was a mental health scenario it was random.

ShhhYouDontKnowMe · 18/07/2026 20:25

Netcurtainnelly · 18/07/2026 19:32

The Sikh community saying their woman are being targeted. Just saw a group on the news. It's all women suffering and they don't have any evidence she was targeted for being a Sikh

It’s not long since a Sikh woman was violently raped in a targeted racist attack, so I can see why they would be alert to this also being targeted.

DaysIllRememberAllMyLife · 18/07/2026 20:42

DontyMon · 18/07/2026 10:06

Absolutely nuts that you think it's ok to speculate in this way about a widower who has lost his wife and mother to his newborn child. It's immoral.

Plus didn't the man in that case have the case thrown out?

DeterminedRat · 18/07/2026 20:42

ShhhYouDontKnowMe · 18/07/2026 20:25

It’s not long since a Sikh woman was violently raped in a targeted racist attack, so I can see why they would be alert to this also being targeted.

Two sikh women were raped within a few weeks of each in a 10mile radius. The second rape was also said to have a racially aggravated element. During the same time period a woman was attacked with an electrical stun device in another racially aggravated attack.

It isn't difficult to see why the community is on alert and perhaps are questioning why this man decided to attack in an area with a large Sikh and South Asian population.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3exg3zgk5vo

Sukhvinder Kaur is wearing a dark Sikh head covering or turban. He has a black jacket, with brown top and a striking necklace of white flowers.

Communities asked 'where are we safe?' after rape of Sikh woman

Rapist John Ashby's attack "struck fear" through communities in the West Midlands.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c3exg3zgk5vo

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/07/2026 21:16

It is absolutely shocking @LobeliaBaggins. I too am surprised at the lack of response. Her poor family.😢

46yo Daniel Sean James has been arrested and remanded.

Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 23:37

Netcurtainnelly · 18/07/2026 19:34

Some men hate women don't they. Or maybe if it was a mental health scenario it was random.

Yes this. And even if it was a mental health event, he still murdered the poor woman and left the man untouched.

I know he stabbed another man outside but he doesn’t seem to have injured him badly and it could easily be because the man tried to stop him. Because it seems he killed a woman and didn’t leave a scratch on the man lying in bed beside her.

If he really didn’t know either of them, that has to be because she’s a woman.

TooBigForMyBoots · 19/07/2026 01:03

I am so sick of misogyny, male violence against women and children, and the femicide epidemic we're suffering.😡

WTF has happened to British men?🤯🤯🤯
Why do they hate us so much?

IlovedLadybirdbooks · 19/07/2026 01:12

WTF has happened to British men?

It's not just British men who hate women.

Every rape is a hate crime. Just not in the eyes of the law.

CypressGrove · 19/07/2026 01:16

Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 10:10

Loads of information missing (which the police probably don’t have or could be keeping secret for perfectly good reasons)

  • what was he looking for in those particular houses?
  • why did he keep going until he broke one door down but not the previous ones? Normally random burglars try doors until one opens, not until they pick one to smash.
  • why did he attack that man in the street? Did the man try to stop him breaking into a house?
  • why did he kill the woman who was no threat to him but not her husband beside her who was potentially a greater threat?
  • If it was racist, what race was the man attacked in the street and why not stab the husband who was the same race as the victim? He was also a greater threat to the attacker than his wife

Likely a drug fuelled episode.

CypressGrove · 19/07/2026 01:18

Emilesgran · 18/07/2026 23:37

Yes this. And even if it was a mental health event, he still murdered the poor woman and left the man untouched.

I know he stabbed another man outside but he doesn’t seem to have injured him badly and it could easily be because the man tried to stop him. Because it seems he killed a woman and didn’t leave a scratch on the man lying in bed beside her.

If he really didn’t know either of them, that has to be because she’s a woman.

Or because the woman was on the side of the bed closest to the door he came in.