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Grenfell Tower - what am I missing??

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TyrannasaurusJex · 06/02/2025 11:03

Just listening to the news and various survivors and victims groups from Grenfell Tower giving very strong opinions on the plans to disassemble the building.
I'm not quite following why some want it to stay up? Do they mean as a sort of memorial? Can anyone explain?

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EdithBond · 15/02/2025 08:51

The problem isn’t the decision to disassemble the tower, it’s the lack of meaningful consultation of the families and the way the supposed consultation was rushed through: four weeks when the fire happened almost 8 years ago. The fire happened in the first place because people in authority wouldn’t listen and had little respect for residents. So, it adds insult to injury and makes it apparent nothing’s changed. No lessons learned. A show made of consulting people rather than genuine, earnest involvement. When it’s a grave site. Some families have no remains. So it’s very harrowing to contemplate.

Lack of It’s also because not a single arrest has been made and the police have said there’ll be no arrests for another couple of years. When the public inquiry found all 72 deaths were preventable. It’s naturally frustrating and hurtful that a decision to remove the tower can be rushed through, yet arrests can’t be. While the tower remains, it’s a reminder to everyone that people must be held to account. There’s a risk with the tower gone, a powerful symbol of shocking injustice will be removed. It mustn’t become another Hillborough.

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 15/02/2025 08:54

SnickersAndRipples · 14/02/2025 22:25

Agreed. It seems that the victims and relatives of Grenfell have been given a huge amount of consideration already but they seem to expect to have influence over the future of the site which victims of other tragedies don’t expect or get.
No mention is ever made of the fact that a lot of the flats were illegally subletted and letted to illegal immigrants. That’s why it was so difficult to trace who was actually living there

That's just so nasty of you.

Toddlerhelpplease123 · 15/02/2025 09:10

I think you need to repeat the report by Sir Martin Moore-Bick in the Grenfell Enquiry and you would not be saying that

@MyrtlethePurpleTurtle

Thanks I have just read the summary of the second part.

Not sure if link will work after last night... www.grenfelltowerinquiry.org.uk/news/statement-publication-phase-2-report

I am not sure what it is you think I am saying, but this report summary so far isn't changing my view to anything different at first glance.

MercurialButton · 15/02/2025 10:04

It needs to come down. Safely.

Like at the Twin Towers, they should rebuild, but not on the central core, the building can be around the perimeter of the building footprint with an open green peace-garden on central core area.

There are too many families in need of housing to leave this area blank or to allow it to be a dog walk park . IMO.

QuirkyOpal · 15/02/2025 10:05

This podcast presents the injustice well https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/brand/m00201xv?partner=uk.co.bbc&origin=share-mobile

ParaParaParaphrase · 15/02/2025 10:09

Every time I drive past it I think how awful it must be for everyone that lives around it to see it every day and for all the children in the school right next to it to have it hanging over them. A lovely memorial garden seems more fitting than a dangerous structure but obviously I can’t even begin to imagine how it actually feels.

EternalSunshine19 · 15/02/2025 10:16

surreywilds · 14/02/2025 22:39

It seems that the victims and relatives of Grenfell have been given a huge amount of consideration already

Like the fact no-one has been prosecuted ..and lots of UK tower blocks still have flammable cladding and it could happen again, yes, a huge amount of consideration.

And how dare you throw around a statement some aren't identified, all 72 people were identified and some were asylum seekers, human beings. If their immigration status is something that has bearing on is, its only in the mind of sub-human scumbags.

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Well said @surreywilds

MercurialButton · 15/02/2025 10:23

ParaParaParaphrase · 15/02/2025 10:09

Every time I drive past it I think how awful it must be for everyone that lives around it to see it every day and for all the children in the school right next to it to have it hanging over them. A lovely memorial garden seems more fitting than a dangerous structure but obviously I can’t even begin to imagine how it actually feels.

I see it every day. It has literally no “meaning” - it’s a box wrapped. There’s no daily “awful” - people just walk by.
There’s no access and you can really only see it from a distance. It’s off the beaten path. There’s a green heart can be seen from a distance.

I have not experienced anyone having any emotional response to a big box with a green heart on it. Visitors ask - I explain it Grenfell Tower … “yeah, that was awful … where’s Carnival, where’s the vintage market ?” If you want anyone to visit the actual SITE - it needs to be something perfect for Insta selfie which is a bit pathetic and not respectful.

More poignant are the memorials at Thomas Jones school. The eye level installations in the area.
Make housing - it’s a need.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/02/2025 10:31

MercurialButton · 15/02/2025 10:04

It needs to come down. Safely.

Like at the Twin Towers, they should rebuild, but not on the central core, the building can be around the perimeter of the building footprint with an open green peace-garden on central core area.

There are too many families in need of housing to leave this area blank or to allow it to be a dog walk park . IMO.

Bearing in mind the way that the people living there were viewed and treated by the local authority - which was the fundamental cause of their awful, terrifying and drawn out deaths in the first place - what do you think are the realistic odds of any housing built there being anything but a combination of social engineering, a bit of social cleansing in getting poor people out of the area and a fucking massive profit making exercise for some developers and companies actually culpable for the failings that led to the deaths (with only a tiny coincidence that they happen to have mates and family members in senior positions in the council)?

The families quite rightly fear any new housing will be hugely expensive investor properties that exclude the types of people that died and would reward those responsible with new opportunities for profit.

Oh, and maybe a couple of 'affordable' (in other words, not in the slightest) flats where the tenants aren't permitted access to the main development and a bench with a plaque round the back by the bins.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 15/02/2025 10:37

@NeverDropYourMooncup Oh, and maybe a couple of 'affordable' (in other words, not in the slightest) flats where the tenants aren't permitted access to the main development and a bench with a plaque round the back by the bins.

Hate to say it but there's quite a few people who pop up on threads about Grenfell who'd think this was a good idea. And probably that the families should consider themselves lucky to have it.

NigelHarmansNewWife · 15/02/2025 10:39

Littletreefrog · 14/02/2025 22:12

Unless your family members died in the Grenfell disaster you won't get it and you also don't need to. There feelings are legitimate wether you understand them or not

My understanding is that there is no consensus from the families which makes it even more difficult.

Cattery · 15/02/2025 10:46

SnickersAndRipples · 14/02/2025 22:54

I thought that some council tenants were illegally subletting their flats though and that is obviously not allowed

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And where would these people have been living whilst they “sub let” their flats?

KatherineParr · 15/02/2025 10:47

I thought that the government had committed to a memorial and no new housing? Is this not the case?

litup · 15/02/2025 11:26

@AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta I hear you, my parents have passed away (naturally and in old age) and in some ways clearing up and selling the family home was harder than the moment of their death.
Saying goodbye to many of their things (what I couldn't fit into my own home) but I still got to got through everything carefully and photograph things even if I wasn't keeping them. I kept some jumpers of theirs so I still get to hold and smell them to reminisce. Grief is so hard, you get so scared to let go of their things because it really does mean the end.

I really can't imagine the pain those families have to contend with, the horror of the deaths, the publicity, inquires with no justice, no funerals, none of the rituals around death which we need to help us process, no mementos, no jumpers to smell and hold so just for a moment you can go back and remember them when they were alive.

I get the practicalities of dealing with the structure that is left of Grenfell tower and it obviously has to be dealt with sooner or later.
But the lack of empathy, understanding or compassion on here for the victims and their families is sad and depressing.

MercurialButton · 15/02/2025 12:10

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/02/2025 10:31

Bearing in mind the way that the people living there were viewed and treated by the local authority - which was the fundamental cause of their awful, terrifying and drawn out deaths in the first place - what do you think are the realistic odds of any housing built there being anything but a combination of social engineering, a bit of social cleansing in getting poor people out of the area and a fucking massive profit making exercise for some developers and companies actually culpable for the failings that led to the deaths (with only a tiny coincidence that they happen to have mates and family members in senior positions in the council)?

The families quite rightly fear any new housing will be hugely expensive investor properties that exclude the types of people that died and would reward those responsible with new opportunities for profit.

Oh, and maybe a couple of 'affordable' (in other words, not in the slightest) flats where the tenants aren't permitted access to the main development and a bench with a plaque round the back by the bins.

Clearly it would be council housing …. As the land is already in a council estate ….

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/02/2025 12:23

MercurialButton · 15/02/2025 12:10

Clearly it would be council housing …. As the land is already in a council estate ….

Why would it clearly be council housing?

MrsSlocombesCat · 15/02/2025 12:42

SnickersAndRipples · 14/02/2025 23:21

That’s nonsense. The council tenants who were illegally subletting their flats were not providing a social service to the vulnerable in society!
They were defrauding the government and profiteering from the people they subletted to.

Oh FFS. Does it matter in a horrific tale of a substandard building that cost the lives of so many? I mean, really does it? I despair of a country inhabited by so many people who want to blame the powerless for everything, instead of the powerful who cause the problems in their pursuit of greed.

MercurialButton · 15/02/2025 12:52

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/02/2025 12:23

Why would it clearly be council housing?

The Grenfell site is part of, and in the middle of a 17 Acre Housing Estate owned by The Council …

hardly prime location for luxury private flats.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 15/02/2025 12:56

@litup beautiful post and the last paragraph is also depressingly accurate.

Vitriolinsanity · 15/02/2025 13:42

I think the horror of watching that building burn is imprinted on so many people's memories, and no right-minded person could suggest the residents and their families deserve nothing less than compassion and justice.

Surely the most fitting memorial would be that RBCK are forced to rebuild on the site state of the art social housing so that families can live in a beautiful place, with a public garden centrally that is a living memorial to the lost.

Theunamedcat · 15/02/2025 15:05

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 15/02/2025 08:54

That's just so nasty of you.

Which part is nasty?

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