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Grenfell Tower - what am I missing??

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TyrannasaurusJex · 06/02/2025 11:03

Just listening to the news and various survivors and victims groups from Grenfell Tower giving very strong opinions on the plans to disassemble the building.
I'm not quite following why some want it to stay up? Do they mean as a sort of memorial? Can anyone explain?

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user9876543211 · 15/02/2025 01:44

Franjipanl8r · 15/02/2025 01:35

Read the book “show me the bodies” if you want to understand the level of corruption and injustice that lead to 72 lives being lost, including children. The tower needs to stay until these victim’s families get some kind of justice.

I do understand that thinking. I think the issue is that the building is really starting to degrade, it's completely contaminated and it's on such a small footprint in a massively crowded residential area that includes two schools. I think they're estimating two years to take it down as they have to do it piece by piece and do remediation as they go. The longer it stands, the more dangerous it gets.

SnickersAndRipples · 15/02/2025 01:44

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Thanks for your concern but I’m not a sociopath as far as I know. I’ll check with my psychiatrist at my next appointment though.

thrifty24 · 15/02/2025 02:46

Would suggest ignoring @SnickersAndRipples until they are banned once mods are back. Previous form for posting same kind of response / laughing and emojis on stillborn threads. Just don't fuel it as that is what they are thriving on.

SnickersAndRipples · 15/02/2025 02:53

thrifty24 · 15/02/2025 02:46

Would suggest ignoring @SnickersAndRipples until they are banned once mods are back. Previous form for posting same kind of response / laughing and emojis on stillborn threads. Just don't fuel it as that is what they are thriving on.

Stillborn threads? That’s blatantly untrue

LunaTheCat · 15/02/2025 03:03

I understand the feelings of the families.
My sister was killed in a building that had been inadequately designed and engineered. We are in a country which is high risk earthquakes and buildings built to a high standard. The building collapsed and was subsequently demolished . Many peoples remains where not found so the building was a grave. There is now a beautiful garden on the site.
There needs to be something beautiful on the Greenfell site.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 15/02/2025 03:24

SnickersAndRipples · 14/02/2025 22:25

Agreed. It seems that the victims and relatives of Grenfell have been given a huge amount of consideration already but they seem to expect to have influence over the future of the site which victims of other tragedies don’t expect or get.
No mention is ever made of the fact that a lot of the flats were illegally subletted and letted to illegal immigrants. That’s why it was so difficult to trace who was actually living there

"No mention is ever made of the fact that a lot of the flats were illegally subletted and letted to illegal immigrants"

The right wing frothers are always banging on about that, I'm tired of this much rehashed trope - like it somehow exculpates those who built, contributed to and failed to prevent this avoidable tragedy

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 15/02/2025 03:32

dreamingbohemian · 14/02/2025 23:09

I imagine if any sort of justice had been doled out to those responsible for this tragedy, the families might be able to move on

Without justice, this is just erasure

"Without justice, this is just erasure"

This encapsulates it nicely

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 15/02/2025 03:52

Toddlerhelpplease123 · 15/02/2025 00:43

It’s not naive. I worked in the industry at the time and everyone was shocked.

Yes there was a problem with the claddings fire rating but architects and engineers didnt know this. They were given the incorrect information by the company.

That aside that wasnt what made this so disastrous. It was the stack effect which is basically fire/smoke/heat moving through air gap like a chimney which made this fire move so fast.

That cladding - air gap - insulation design is all over the country. Literally. I left architecture shortly after grenfell so I am not sure now what people use now. But that style of system design was practically industry standard. It was and still is everywhere!

I dont think people realise that.

I think you need to repeat the report by Sir Martin Moore-Bick in the Grenfell Enquiry and you would not be saying that

LambriniBobInIsleworthISeesYa · 15/02/2025 04:17

I didn't realise that some remains were unable to be retrieved. That's terrible. Why is that, the instability of the building?

Sewverit · 15/02/2025 04:46

@MercurialButton
Maxilla is more a route under the Westway than a garden. I don’t think a memorial garden at Grenfell is comparable.

If you actually knew Maxilla Gardens you would have noticed the newish community building which is in continuous use. The whole space has been replanted with a new seating area. I see the space being used
for exercise classes as well.

I walk my dog there every day and the only staffy I see has a lady owner and is scared of other dogs.

Sewverit · 15/02/2025 04:51

LambriniBobInIsleworthISeesYa · 15/02/2025 04:17

I didn't realise that some remains were unable to be retrieved. That's terrible. Why is that, the instability of the building?

No. Everything was removed, including the remains of pets. People were even given back possessions as far as possible. I assume people mean trace remains.

LambriniBobInIsleworthISeesYa · 15/02/2025 05:00

@Sewverit ah, I see. Thank you for the explanation.

Sewverit · 15/02/2025 05:09

@TyrannasaurusJex

In my opinion as a local it’s because survivors and Bereaved are still understandably upset and angry that no one has been brought to justice.

They were also under the impression that they would have the final say on the site and when the building came down and the memorial. Someone had the idea of taking the building down to a few storeys and planting it up (which is clearly impracticable and impossible to maintain), which a lot of people liked. So I think it was a shock when the government just said it’s coming down. Of course there are disagreements among those most affected.

They think if the building comes down everyone will forget about it. Which to a large extent, unless you are local, everyone has.

I am old enough to remember the Tower being built!

North Kensington has a lot of social housing and unfortunately those that live in it are lowest priority of RBKC council and have been treated like the scum of the earth for decades.

Thankyouforthrdayz · 15/02/2025 06:32

@Needmorelego @CanOfMangoTango www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2017/jul/12/grenfell-tower-investigator-vows-to-provide-answers-for-victims-families All flats was completely emptied, all contents sifted and human remains taken out. There are, devastatingly for the bereaved, some remains removed which cannot be identified. Not sure whether the site is a grave or a memorial?

Thankyouforthrdayz · 15/02/2025 06:37

If flats were let or sublet - that didn't cause or exacerbate the fire. That didn't cause the massive loss of life. Why is that even relevant? They were all people living there.

Needmorelego · 15/02/2025 06:38

@Thankyouforthrdayz I didn't realise that all the bodies had been removed.
I apologise for being wrong about that.

LovelySunnyDayToday · 15/02/2025 06:44

CactusForever · 14/02/2025 22:35

The tragedy happened in part because these people were ignored. Resident Ed Daffarn wrote a blog post predicting the loss of life. I can imagine that in addition to the reasons PP have given, that they don’t want to be made invisible for political convenience.

Agreed. But surely a structurally safe memorial would be better then?

LovelySunnyDayToday · 15/02/2025 06:47

💯 @surreywilds

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daisychain01 · 15/02/2025 07:18

The comparator for this is the 9/11 Memorial, where the US have built a beautiful calm and contemplative memorial to the almost 3000 people who died from the terrorist attacks on the Twin Towers.

it is on the very site where those people perished, and is a permanent reminder of what happened. The money from guided tours of the area is used to fund the upkeep of the memorial and the museum.

The 9/11 Memorial includes pools that represent "absence made visible". Water flows into the voids, but they can never be filled. The sound of the cascading water creates a tranquil and contemplative space

I can't imagine how I would feel if my loved one had died in Grenfell and the thought that their body wasn't recovered but I believe I'd feel a great deal of comfort knowing there's a beautiful park or a place to sit and be, in their memory. Better than the burnt out shell there now. There are photos and public records so the greed of those who failed to act in the best interests of the families left behind is never forgotten or 'kicked into the long grass'.

dottiehens · 15/02/2025 07:34

Ghosttofu99 · 14/02/2025 23:39

There is a 7th of July memorial among others. It’s not really a competition is it! Numerous cities have Titanic memorials as they should. You can’t ‘over consider’ anyone who has been through a tragedy.

Grenfell had a wide impact on west London communities and farther afield. It was a televised minute by minute tragedy in a similar way to 9/11 that many will never forget.

A memorial is not the same than leaving a potentially dangerous building standing. Also, the tragedy is horrendous but sadly one that has been politicised and used to vilified nearby neighbourhoods that were very active in raising money and to help with donations in the aftermath. I have sympathy for the genuine victims and families but for the rest and how is being treated not at all.

QuirkyOpal · 15/02/2025 07:57

LambriniBobInIsleworthISeesYa · 15/02/2025 04:17

I didn't realise that some remains were unable to be retrieved. That's terrible. Why is that, the instability of the building?

The fire was hotter than a crematorium in some parts of the building.
May they rest in peace.

Fizbosshoes · 15/02/2025 08:24

I think there are 2 separate issues - whilst against the wishes of some survivors or bereaved families, the building should be dismantled due to the further risk of collapse and damage to surrounding buildings. However the victims families should be consulted about a suitable and fitting memorial.

But also it is disgraceful that a) the tragedy happened at all knowing that many years of complaints flagging unsafe issues within the building, b) in the intervening years no one at all has shouldered any responsibility or been held accountable. There are many many people who would have known, and signed off or approved the cladding, and other dangerous aspects within the building and it's outrageous that they have not been charged.

Whether the flats were illegally sublet I think is pretty irrelevant to the 2 issues, and stinks of victim blaming imo.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 15/02/2025 08:42

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 15/02/2025 03:24

"No mention is ever made of the fact that a lot of the flats were illegally subletted and letted to illegal immigrants"

The right wing frothers are always banging on about that, I'm tired of this much rehashed trope - like it somehow exculpates those who built, contributed to and failed to prevent this avoidable tragedy

It truly astounds me that there are people out there who think that unless you had the "right" to be in those flats your life has less worth placed on it.
It doesn't matter if every single flat in the tower was being sublet ten times over, the people in it were not robots or aliens. They were human beings, the same as the rest of us and the terror that 72 of them must have felt at knowing their certain fate is truly horrifying to imagine.

How anyone can be aware of 72 people burning to death, shrug, bang on about subletting and then manage to take any pride in themselves I will never know.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 15/02/2025 08:46

@dottiehens Also, the tragedy is horrendous but sadly one that has been politicised and used to vilified nearby neighbourhoods that were very active in raising money and to help with donations in the aftermath.

Genuine question, how so?