How come that in any organisation there is one man (or two or three or women too if you have bad luck) who is well-known for a "wandering eye" trying it on with everyone around fairly indiscriminately? Perhaps this story of DB, KQ, SH, Tom, Dick and Harry, is quite mundane really, because it just takes one to know one. Ordinary people soon send a back-off signal to those types, and get left out of it, but very young vulnerable types (eg Lewinsky interns/ secretarial temps/ trainees) sometimes get caught up in it, and ones who are playing the same game themselves. What normal person newly wed would tell someone at first meeting that you had never slept with someone like him (KQ to DB), and what normal person would be giving someone they had just met in a work capacity their private direct telephone number knowing she was newly wed (DB to KQ)?