I am in Hawke's Bay, NZ, and the situation is really bad. We have many people in Evacuation Centres, many roads closed blocked with trees or still flooded. Power is down for many people and may be out for weeks in some areas. Some towns and villages are completely cut off, with bridges down and roads blocked.
Personally we have been very lucky, just lost two small trees in the back garden. We had around 36 hours without power or communications. Cellphone service came back yesterday but we could only dial 111 (Like UK 999) for around 12 hours, but back with proper service now. It was really scary and I was worried we were going to lose the roof during the storm, but we are grateful to be safe and well.
I don't feel ignored and have not heard anyone say that they do. I think probably the major difference between the EQ in Turkey and the damage here after the Cyclone is the sheer number of people trapped buried in and under buildings in Turkey.
What I have learnt is that you need to have a plan for any disaster which may occur, an escape plan, food, basic first aid supplies and water to keep you alive until help comes and most of all do not rely on your phones or cell phones working. We had a small radio which was our way of keeping up to date with what was happening. The only thing which was a little annoying was the number of people on the radio who said for 'further information please see our Facebook page' which is impossible with no power or working cells phone.
Sorry that is a bit of a ramble!