Firstly I can’t imagine the parents pain and I understand they are deeply grieving and are desperate. They’ve been led on by the Christian charity lawyers and are very vulnerable. I also understand the want to fight to the death for your child even if I disagree with it personally.
As a HCP I am very concerned if the next court case rules in favour of the family and to continue to keep the poor child ventilated/continuing intervention. My perspective as well as anyone I know in healthcare understands he is brain dead and deteriorating. Caring for a patient like that would be traumatic for the staff although of course that’s not the point.
If we allow families to ‘choose’ whether people continue to be ventilated against medical advice this sets a dangerous precedent. We need to able to trust health care professionals and, in my opinion, the focus should have been supporting the family emotionally rather than starting a ‘fight’ and ‘purple wave’. It costs hundreds and thousands of NHS money to keep this poor child ‘breathing’ and more in lawyers fees. You can’t keep brain dead people alive like a living shrine because you’ll be sad if they die. I so hope the court agrees with the original ruling and the family get the counselling and support they need.