I agree with some of the sentimenst expressed here. My wife felt pretty rotten when she had problems with breastfeeding and had to stop cos of the problems it was causing. She was in real pain and crying through the emotions of it all - feeling like she was letting down the baby.
The 'breast is best' brigade really hade her feel like she had to keep trying and she had failed if she stopped. I hated it because of everything else that had gone on - this was making the whole experience even more stressful and upsetting.
We found out that it was because she was doing it completely wrong, was out of the hospital before she had practised enough, and recieved very little time or instruction. The second time was a lot different because of this issue and we made sure we hassled the midwives loads to make sure she was doing it right.
It seemed strange to me that there was this image driven home to women that breastfeeding is the best way, but the support shown was lacking. I think she just assumed that the baby just knew how to do it from birth - but that just isn't the case.
I don't think baby milk should be banned or we should even be suggesting it - this is just going to make situations like ours worse. The answer lies in more money and resources at the midwife stage. If they had time to spedn with us at this crucial point - then we wouldn't have gone through the trauma.
When working for a major supermarket there were very strict rules as to the management of these products. They had to be date checked regularly, rotated and were never to be reduced in price or put on promotion in any form.
There is also an internationl agreement set out by the World Health Organisation that states that formula milk should not be promoted in countries where there is an unsafe water supply. Many babies die each year because of this.
This is why Nestle have had boycotts called upon them in the past because they have blatantly ignored this agreement and have been proved to be an un-ethical company.