Sorry, that's a bit of a long thread:
By hunkermunker on Wed 08-Aug-07 02:04:38
I'm passionate about helping other women to breastfeed for many reasons.
First of all, I strongly believe that, all other things being equal, it's best for babies and for their mothers to have and give breastmilk.
But I also strongly believe that there's not enough information out there for women to make an informed choice without doing their own research. Healthcare professionals are busy, often have limited knowledge themselves and without knowing where to look, or what to expect, it's hard to know what you should be researching.
I believe that the UK society isn't geared up for breastfeeding, certainly not past the first few weeks, and I think that it's criminal that 90% of women who stop breastfeeding in the first six weeks of their baby's life do so against their wishes. The fact that only 1 in 4 babies is having any breastmilk at all at six months and more than 90% of babies have formula at one stage or another also demonstrates how ingrained giving formula is.
Formula manufacturers spend almost £20 per newborn baby marketing their product. The Government spends about 80p per baby marketing breastfeeding. So I'm not sure that anyone can complain that breastfeeding is "pushed" on them. And this brings me to what often irritates me about this whole debate - yes, I breastfeed, yes, I support other women to breastfeed where I can, but I don't do it for any reason other than that I feel that women often get a raw deal with breastfeeding support in this country and if I can help stop that, in some small way, then I will feel quite happy about that, because breastfeeding, when it's going well, is a really nice thing to do.
But the implication is so often that for some reason I and other supporters of breastfeeding are trying to make women who feed formula feel bad, or wrong in some way.
I have nothing against formula or women who feed their babies with formula. I do wish that the breastfeeding campaign had the spending power of the formula companies, definitely.
I object to formula being advertised for many reasons, not least because the adverts don't actually tell you anything useful and I don't think that's helpful to a woman trying to choose the best nutrition for her baby.
What I would like to see is a total ban on formula advertising (including in professional journals - in fact, especially in professional journals), follow-on and growing up milk banned (they are unnecessary products) and, in my ideal world, all midwives, health visitors, paediatricians, GPs and any other healthcare professional who has contact with babies to have full training on all things breastfeeding.
I would also like to see more information for mothers about the normal course of breastfeeding and give them the confidence to diagnose their own breastfeeding "hiccups" without telling them they ought to top up with formula at the slightest sign of a dodgy weigh-in one week, or stop breastfeeding if they need to take antibiotics of antidepressants, as well as the knowledge of when a problem needs extra help from a professional (such as with a severe case of mastitis or thrush).
Also, if workplaces provided better facilities for women to express and store their expressed milk and there was more information about how to manage working and breastfeeding, more women would have the confidence to start breastfeeding - so often I hear women say there's not much point doing it, since they'll have to give formula when they go back to work - I do realise it's not always possible to keep breastfeeding once you return to work, given the nature of some employment, but more women than currently do would be capable of it, given the right support and knowledge.
What I really object to is this spurious argument that somehow by allowing formula advertising to continue, you're helping women have a choice, when, in fact, all you're doing is making very sure the formula manufacturers can use their rather large budget and their very sneaky tactics to undermine women at their most vulnerable time.
But mostly, what I really want, is for women to be able to make decisions they're comfortable with, based on up-to-date information. I do get very sad reading the wistful "I wish I'd known then what I know now" posts on here. I don't want women to regret anything about the early days with their babies - and that 90% figure bothers me greatly, because that's a lot of regret.