Thecat, I agree - MN is one of the few bastions of rational and reasoned debate and I have genuinely learned so much reading, contributing, being challenged and hearing other viewpoints.
I think the range and depth of discussion here is admirable.
I don't see the same willingness to dissect and disagree when it comes to debating the ideology of Islam. In my experience, many non-Muslims fight shy of direct criticism, fearing, understandably, the knee-jerk cries of 'racist' and 'islamophobe' and seeing those labels as far, far worse than 'coward' or 'offender.'
There's a compelling argument to hold up mirrors and challenge an ideology whose tenets are both sexist and homophobic. Yet the feminist voices around, say, Cologne, are deafeningly silent when it comes to publicly challenging this ideology.
Why? We are intelligent, thoughtful women who are fast to highlight and pillory ignorance and prejudice in pretty much every other sphere.
Were you here for the Cologne 'discussions?' They were derailed, posters banned, guest speakers uninvited and a steady campaign to close the debate drove many informed and open-minded poster to private fora. It was a disgrace.