The reason why some people were reluctant to pay enough attention to the Cologne attacks was because they feared that the attacks would be seized upon by the far right as justification for hate speech and violent reprisals against immigrants and muslims. This was inexcusable, and amounted to throwing women under the bus for another cause but, tbf, the far right (who never give a shiny shit about women normally) did use it as expected. Problems like this should never be covered up, however and like I said both examples of hypocrisy make me angry.
I still think we should take in refugees, and other migrants too. That is not the same as calling for unlimited migration. I also think that we should look at ALL the lessons of events like Cologne - and they are not just about immigration. They also highlighted that the German laws on rape and what constitutes sexual assault were pretty shit. It shouldn't matter if it is a white European or a Muslim immigrant, we need laws in place to protect women, we need to enforce those laws properly, and they need to apply to, and protect, everyone equally. We also need to protect the trafficked, illegal immigrant sex slave who is too scared to report herself to the authorities in case she is treated as the criminal. White men rape immigrants too, and in many cases it is very, very difficult for those women to get help.
I agree with Quentin when she says that "if you are forcing people to have specific values and norms, and dress in particular ways, then they aren't free are they?"
I am sure we all agree that everyone should follow the host country's laws - but that is not the same as forcing people to dress a certain way. If those laws are inadequate, then they need changing FOR EVERYONE.
Values are a funny one too, because they are not nearly so homogenous in this country (even among the British born) as some would like to think. While we are addressing the mysogenistic attitudes that some immigrants may have, we also need to address the mysogenistic attitudes within our own culture. Because they do exist! I know that "we're not as bad as x place etc", and I don't want to get into UK vs Saudi mysogeny top-trumps or anything, because it is pointless.
But there is no point in teaching immigrants that "in the UK men who feel up women without their consent will be punished" if its not true, is there?