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Chelsea & Westminster - BABY DIED

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wombat1 · 11/03/2007 12:38

Some of you may remember me posting about my sister and her husband and their baby who died at Chelsea & Westminster. There is a full page article about them in The Observer today:

observer.guardian.co.uk/uk_news/story/0,,2031288,00.html

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wombat1 · 11/03/2007 12:40

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Moomin · 11/03/2007 12:41

Here you go wombat:
article

MarsLady · 11/03/2007 12:42

I'm so so sorry

wombat1 · 11/03/2007 12:42

Thanks Moomin,

Never done that before - think I get it now!

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lulumama · 11/03/2007 12:42

very very sorry for the loss of you nephew

SherlockLGJ · 11/03/2007 12:46

That is disgraceful.

NotanOtter · 11/03/2007 12:46

how tragic

kiskidee · 11/03/2007 12:47

such a sad story wombat. and how infuriating.

Biglips · 11/03/2007 12:49
Sad
stressteddy · 11/03/2007 12:51

So sorry Wombat1. Love to all x

muppethasakitten · 11/03/2007 13:01

Have just cried and cried at this tragic story... keep thinking what an amazingly strong woman she must be to have the fortitude to pick herself up enough to take on these people.

Imagine having to wait 20 months for a simple apology?

Mhamai · 11/03/2007 13:03

So sad

dionnelorraine · 11/03/2007 13:13

How awful. Such a sad and infuriating story. My thoughts are with you all x

hunkermunker · 11/03/2007 13:14

Oh, Wombat I'm so very sorry for your family

WideWebWitch · 11/03/2007 13:15

I'm so sorry, how tragic.

donnie · 11/03/2007 13:33

how very sad, I am truly sorry for all of oyu

xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

wombat1 · 11/03/2007 15:19

Thank you for all your kind words - am trying to get as many people to read this so that things begin to change in the way the NHS treat people and fob them off. Also, so that mothers going into hospital to have their babies are aware that midwives can make mistakes!

When the midwife involved finally realised something was wrong - after only detecting intermittent heart beats for at least 40 minutes, she didn't use the emergency button or call button to summon a doctor. She left the room (!!!) and just got another midwife. My sister has been told by senior staff that if a doctor had been called, the baby could have been delivered within 3 minutes! The midwife involved is still working at Chelsea and received NO disciplinary action - just some retraining.

If you have ANY reason to doubt your midwife during labour - DEMAND A DOCTOR.

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kiskidee · 11/03/2007 15:23

wombat, i also had an induced labour effed up by mw's not doing routines procedure on me. i was lucky that my results was not so tragic.

does you know of a campaign we could start that could help your sister's and bil's fight be heard loudly and clearly? I am sure lots of MN would do something to have their voice heard.

kiskidee · 11/03/2007 15:24

routine procedures

AitchYouBerk · 11/03/2007 15:30

retraining, really? dear oh dear... it's a terrible, terrible tragedy. i hope your family finds some peace.

wombat1 · 11/03/2007 15:33

I'm sorry to hear that Kiskidee. I don't know of a campaign - perhaps someone has some suggestions. Sometimes things CAN change if enough people voice their disapproval - we're talking about the needless and senseless death of such a cherished and healthy child.

Any ideas anyone???

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lulumama · 11/03/2007 16:04

one way to get involved is to join the Maternity Services Liasion Committe at the hospital...

write to your MP

Steppy1 · 11/03/2007 16:40

such a sad story wombat

I am so sorry for the loss of your nephew and your sisters little baby boy....

How are they doing now ??

Steppy1 · 11/03/2007 16:43

...Luluamama, I sat on the committee of the local MSLC (have since moved)

Unfortunately the professionals (I was the lay member representative) spent more time in the meetings (around 80% of the time over a 2 year period) talking about the development of the courtyard garden within the maternity unit than real maternity issues - I resigned through frustration and disgust ........ it was a joke

kiminutter · 11/03/2007 17:02

Oh wombat1, your story has me in tears. The same thing happened to my sister in 2002. Her first baby died shortly after birth in similar circumstances, she knew things were'nt going right and her midwife told her to 'be quiet and get back on the bed'!! She then left her for 45 minutes, meanwhile my niece was being starved of oxygen. It took over 18 months for the hospital to issue a 'full apology' along with a substantial amount of compensation. My sister told them where to shove their money.
I am so, so sorry that your family are going through this too.

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