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Chelsea & Westminster - BABY DIED

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wombat1 · 11/03/2007 12:38

Some of you may remember me posting about my sister and her husband and their baby who died at Chelsea & Westminster. There is a full page article about them in The Observer today:

observer.guardian.co.uk/uk_news/story/0,,2031288,00.html

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lulumama · 11/03/2007 17:07

I am also a lay member , steppy, and so far the hospital seem to be interested and want to listen...i guess these things vary from place to place

sorry you had a negative experience...

lulumama · 11/03/2007 17:07

i am sorry , too, kimi, that your sister lost her baby too [sa]

kiminutter · 11/03/2007 17:18

Thanks Lulumama, my sister has two children now, but they were born very premature (26 and 25 weeks) due to the problems she had delivering her first baby. Her DD2 is 3 now, her DS is still in SCBU.
Wombat1 - if there is anything I can do to help then please let me know!

wombat1 · 11/03/2007 17:51

I'm thinking ...

what if we collected the stories from all the parents who felt significant mistakes were made during childbirth. There are so many people out there who have stories to tell. Some stories end in tragedy, some in disability and luckily most have a happy ending and a healthy baby is taken home.

However, these situations could have happened to any of us and will continue to occur until things change. Perhaps presenting a large volume of stories - 'a catalogue of errors', to someone in an important position could have an impact. It would give all those families the chance to document their experiences, express their concerns and suggest changes in the hope that these mistakes don't happen to others.

Kiminutter - so sorry to hear about your sister too. It really hurts doesn't it? My sister has not been offered a penny!

Lulumama - thanks for your suggestion. Unfortunately, the various Chelsea and Westminster committees that have gathered to discuss this case so far have been inept. There always delays, there are disagreements and there is a general inability to get anything finalised. Here's an example - my sister and her husband sent a letter to the hospital (one of many) asking questions about the birth, in September 2006. In November, I rang to see where the reply was and was told it was 'on my desk' and would be sent by December. Nothing came, nor in January, still nothing in February - but guess what - it arrived the day after the Observer journalist contacted the hospital.

Don't even get me started on the report that was sent with insufficient postage from the hospital - my sister was so stressed about the possible contents but had to go to the post office, pay the postage and an additional charge! Useless!

It's time to deal with the bigger fish!

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Tutter · 11/03/2007 17:55

so so sorry to hear this wombat - hadn't seen any other threads about your family's loss

everything i read/hear about hosps and midwives atm makes me increasingly concerned about my impending delivery

wombat1 · 11/03/2007 18:06

Tutter - the last thing I would want is to stress anyone out. I just think it is important to know that mistakes do happen, that midwives are only human and that you have the right to say you want to see a doctor or another midwife. We expect them to be the experts and they usually are - but you need to feel satisfied that everything is going well and confident enough to question them if you're worried.

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willow2 · 11/03/2007 19:37

I am so sorry for your family's loss. I had a hideous experience at C&W - that my son was born fit and healthy despite everything still amazes me. When I read of further examples of the total fuckwittage of this "flagship" hospital it just makes me so, so angry. My heart goes out to your sister and brother-in-law. x

wombat1 · 12/03/2007 09:22

Still looking for suggestions...

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ruty · 12/03/2007 13:59

i can't imagine the pain your sister had to go through and is still feeling wombat - i just find it utterly incredible the midwife has some 'retraining' and no compensation. Beyond words. I had a terrible experience in hospital too -but at least ds is alive and well. I do not understand why women in this country have to play such a lottery with their babies' lives when they go into hospital.

mum2sons · 12/03/2007 14:05

My heart goes out to you and your family... I read their story in tears this weekend. How dare the hospital take so long to say sorry. Where is humanity in all of this?

I hope you all find some peace.

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