If it was my child in that position I would be contacting anyone who could provide the means to give them the best possible chance of recovery even if that meant going private or overseas, which if it meant calling one of the top 'no win, no fee' solicitors, I absolutely would. To call that poor taste when you haven't a clue what is going on is rather rude and ignorant.
I'm on this thread as AT is a special place to me and I care that people are hurt, the speculation and bollocks that some people are coming out with is shameful.