Please explain to me why you think you are 'not allowed' to celebrate your own culture? The shops are chokker with halloween stuff, Christamas has the longest runway of any festival, MN always has really lovely lively answers when someone starts a thread asking people to 'define' Britishness, and it always has things that wepople feel proud of, little quirks, etc.
I honestly wonder whether this whole 'THEY' stop us enjoying our culture, 'THEY' won't alow this that or the other is simply a huge smokescreen for resentment. How on earth does it stop anyone excercising thier own culture if a woman wears a bit of cloth on her head of over her mouth and nose?
I am NOT an advocate of veiling, and I completely agree that I find it creates a barrier to communication (not an insurmountable one, but a barrier nevertheless) - how could it not? It's express purpose is to kee a sense of distance or separation. But if a woman chooses to adopt this, I don't feel that it affects my own identity or relationship with myself as a british person at all!
I am mindful of our colonial past, ashmamed of some of our history, agree with Dino that we kid ourselves if we live in a liberal, free world, especially as women. The 'rape' thread and the obsession with women's bodies, thin-ness etc all prove that. But I love so much else and have (I hope) adopted a perspective on more dubious aspects of western / european / british / english history that enables me to fulfill all the fantastic things about brisish history and character.
The biggest form of repression or censorship can be that which comes from inside your own head. Don't blame nameless oficals in Whitehall or jobsworths from the council - or more likely the apocraphyl stories of PC GONEMAD!!! by the daily mail - just get on and do your thing! As some of you kep saying - no-one from any other background is gping to complain - so what or who is stopping you - if you KNOW that???