MT quote away. Sorry life got in the way and have only just logged back on.
I spoke to my little sister today, and she told me about an incident at work.
Her and a work colleague (who wear the face veil), went shopping at lunch time (in Hackney so it's not like my sister and friend are the only Muslim women in the area), as my sister and friend were waiting to pay she heard the stall holder say 'don't serve that girl in the veil until she removes it...' My sister completely lost it and totally tore a strip into him. He was being racist, my sisters friend is tiny, and very shy, and would have probably left without saying anything, but my sister has been taught to stand up for her rights, and she did.
She got an apology from the stall holder and perhaps he'll think twice before trying to force a woman to remove her clothing before serving her.
Sister reckoned the stall holder thought they were both unable to speak english or too scared or both.
Wearing the hijaab, or the niqaab is nothing like a motorcycle helmet (I'm waiting now for an eye witness to post that she saw a woman dressed in the Muslim veil hold up a bank with a machine gun).
I don't think the point is ever going to get across, no one male or female outside of my immediate family (and ok very close female non-muslim friends), has ever seen me without my headscarf (ever sicne I was about 18 I think). It is not like removing a sweater, or a coat or whatever, it goes deeper than that.
I dunno perhaps consider what it would be like to ask a nun to remove her wimple. I know nothing about nuns or their wimples, but I'm thinking that perhaps a woman of God would know exactly how it feels to be forced to remove a piece of clothing she feels she wears for God and God alone.