Shame that this thread has degenerated due to some extremist posting from posters who clearly view Israel and Israelis as some kind of satanic demon (and, thehoneybadger, sorry but you also clearly have no idea about Israeli society at all).
I'm happy to engage with posters who wish to actually hear the views from the other side and have a constructive discussion, not just shout and try to get involved in some kind of race to the bottom.
Funnily enough, my Palestinian friends - admittedly only Israeli Arabs and Palestinians from East Jerusalem, not from Gaza - are far more moderate than many of the posters here. You can have a reasonable conversation with them without constantly being accused of being 'fake' or whatever. Funny that when you actually know the other side, you start to understand them a bit more rather than posting sound bites you read on the internet.
I have good reason to hate. A very good friend of mine was blown up and murdered by Islamic terrorists in 2004. She was fast asleep when it happened. I have two friends who each lost a child to suicide bombings in Jerusalem during the worst years of the second intifada. I went to those funerals and saw the awful pain. I have seen the aftermath of a suicide bombing when there was human flesh hanging from the trees. I have another friend who was paralysed from the neck down by a Palestinian sniper. He was a talented guitarist. This is my personal experience, not what I read on a website.
But I don't hate the Palestinians. I want us to reach a solution on how we can live together. I can recognise that the Palestinians have suffered more and empathise with that since I have also seen suffering on the Israeli side. It's not a fucking competition, is it?
Which is why I can feel such frustration at BOTH Palestinians and Israelis. At Palestinians for being so bloody stupid and short-sighted. At not accepting the peace deals which were offered to them in 2000 and 2008 where they could have achieved statehood and ended the occupation because they're clinging to an unrealistic dream. Israel isn't going to just vanish because they want it to.
And also frustration at Israel for behaving so brutally to the Palestinians, even given the provocation, at destroying our own democracy at home by being so undemocratic towards others, for being influenced by a tiny group of messianic extremist settlers.
Anyone who is fair-minded and has actually put effort into trying to understand the situation in all its complexity realises that there is wrong and right on both sides.