Well done Lilka and maryz for your excellent posts on this thread and your attempts to inject some reason and rational debate into this thread. Thank you Lilka for your long post detailing the truly horrific "advice" being given by one Ian Joseph.
OK JH I know you don't like direct questions and you rarely respond but just this once maybe you can answer Lilka's very pertinent question in her post of today's date at 17.44. It's a simple enough question - do you agree with this "advice" by Ian Joseph or do you not? Maybe you agree with some of the "advice" and not all of it. Just tell us.
Thank you too Lilka or it might have been maryz for telling us about the book "Bubble Wrapped Children" that JH is pedalling as proof that "forced adoptions" don't work. Those of us who have worked in this field are only too well aware of the way in which children's experiences whilst in the care of their birth/step-parents affects them to a greater or lesser extent through the lifespan. We also know of the many adopters who are struggling against all the odds to help children overcome these early traumas, where they learn that adults are not to be trusted. We also know that post adoption support is thin on the ground and this is because of the lack of suitable experienced and qualified social workers available to carry out this important work. Cameron et al have slashed the budgets of all public services, including Social Services and at the same time are demanding improved services. It cannot be done.
Of course it is true that some of these adoptions break down and the older the child is when adopted the higher the breakdown rate. I am not going to quote exact figures as I don't have them to hand. No matter how much JH likes to believe and broadcast his view that this proves that "forced adoptions" don't work, it is because of the emotional harm that was perpetrated on them in their pre-placement experiences with birth/step-parents.
Can I just for a minute go back to the issue that occupies so much of JH's time i.e. "social workers snatch children from loving parents to get them adopted." I think there are only maybe a couple of people on the thread now who cannot see through JH's wild allegations that have no substance, so for them I would just like to make something clear.
A social worker has no right to remove (or even snatch) a child from their family FACT The police have power to remove a child from his family under the terms of the Police Protection Act for a period of 72 hours. A social worker can only remove a child once a court has granted an Emergency Protection Order (EPO which lasts for 7 days) These cases are heard in the Magistrates Court and the birth/step-parents are invited to attend the hearing. Indeed Magistrates are not at all happy about making such Orders without the birth/step-parents being present, but sometimes they simply will not attend Court. IF the EPO is granted (and the magistrates have to be satisfied that the social worker has evidence that the child is being "significantly harmed" or "is likely to suffer significant harm")the LA has 7 days to get the matter before a FPC to make application for an Interim Care Order(ICO) and again the court has to be satisfied that there is sufficient evidence to grant the ICO. Just thought I'd make that point clear.
claw2 I think you are one of the people on the thread who still believes the irrational claims made by JH. The sums that you quote that are awarded to LAs for reaching adoption targets are in respect of children already in the care system who are placed with short term foster homes or even in a residential children's home, they arenot in respect of how many children are coming into the system. Everyone involved in these matters is of the view that children who cannot be returned to the care of their parents deserve to be placed in a permanent family who will care for them throughout their childhood and young adulthood and who will remain a "family of resource" to them throughout their lifetime. Adoption is one of the best ways of securing a child's future on a permanent basis and this is why an additional grant is made to LAs who are reaching the targets.
Incidentally Claw2 the money goes into the LAs Children's Services budget, it isn't shared out between social workers who have managed to "snatch" the highest number of children and get then forcibly adopted. Incidentally this term "forced adoption" is quite ridiculous because in all my 30 years as a social worker and middle manager in Children's Services I have rarely come across birth/step-parents who have agreed that their child should be adopted, and I would imagine this is the experience of other professionals in the field. Sometimes they have "voted with their feet" in the sense that they have not attended any of the court hearings dealing with the future of their child/ren.
SO come on JH please answer the question posed in relation to the advice given to birthparents by Ian Joseph ...........are you in agreement with this advice or are you not??????