But chip I think what we are trying to say is that if your relative has that choice, all women should have it.
Late abortion is either wrong or it is not.
If we talk about it being immoral for non-disabled babies but understandable for disabled babies, we are immediately making a clear judgement about how we see disability.
I have always found it incredible that even some of the most passionate anti abortionists are happy to add the caveat 'unless the baby is disabled'
(I don't been you,I mean generally)
If a woman has a late abortion I think it is a tragedy if the baby is disabled or not. It's a tragedy for the woman who has had to make the decision because I cannot believe it is one that is made lightly and without turmoil.
A late abortion must be a horrible ordeal.
This is not a moral judgement, it must be physically awful.
These threads are always difficult. Women who have terminated late for medical reasons feel judged.i am not doing that. I would never do that.
I am judging our culture and the way it views disability.
I am very greatful I have never been in such a dreadful position.