There is too much here for me to reply to. I have never said I live in a one bed flat. I did say on this or another thread that as a family if I did not work we would be entitled to £18k housing benefit alone and that I had assumed instead we would if we were on state benefits, be crammed in a tiny place but instead the state is very generous. What else was I being asked?
The comments above about people having decisions to take about tax are true. Obviously some women are so very poor they have no issues over choosing whether to take out a pension, who will work within a couple or both to obtain and what they will pay into a pension or ISA and obtain tax relief on it. Many other are not and consider these issues every week as part of planning of family finances. Others are self employed and have the additional issues to consider mentioned above.
Where have I said I don't appreciate the efforts of others. I've always paid those who work with or for me very well. I go round thanking people all the time. it's one reason people keep coming for me with work because I am pretty nice to people.
Also it is totally wrong that I picked a career for money. I adore the intellectual challenge of my work day in day out. It changes all the time. It is absoulteyl fascinating. I picked it for both reasons - absolutely wonderful work, high paid, high status, ability to work for yourself as long as you want etc etc.
I am not quite sure where we are on the thread. 1% of us pay 30% of the tax recovered and levels of tax are getting so high tax revenues are dropping which damgaes the poor. In any event the coffers are bare. Most people paying tax are the squeezed middle. There are not enough very tich to obtain much more tax from them much as the poor would adore that that be so so it is the middle income earners and those on the £30k - £70k from whom any extra tax will be needed just to service our massive debt timebomb - just to pay interest on the debt never mind invest in public service. They have run the country (Labour) like the worst coping benefits scrounger, spending without any consideration for what we can afford - they have been the worst kind of housewife and now the poor suffer for it. Thanks Labour.