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Mumsnet, will you tell the woman that Ched Evans raped, that We Believe Her? And call upon the FA to kick sexism out of football?

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BasilFoulEggs · 29/04/2012 23:13

Dear Mumsnet
As you are no doubt aware, there has been the most extraordinary hate campaign waged this week by some football fans, against a rape victim in the wake of the Ched Evans Guilty Verdict.

The jist of the hatespeak, has been that a drunk woman has no right to expect the basic human right of not having her body penetrated without her active participation in that sexual act, or even her passive consent. Presumably because men (or at least footballers and their friends) have the right to penetrate women who are incapable of consent. And that if a man rapes you, it is because you are a slut, a slag and all the other hate-speak words used to de-humanise women and make it easier for people not to empathise with us when we are abused.

This week has seen the really ugly spectacle, of a bunch of men asserting their right to rape women, handmaidens supporting that right and both of them sending out a clear warning to all other rape victims, to know what to expect if they dare to pursue justice if they are raped.

If there had been a similar outpouring of hatred against any other historically oppressed group, the rest of the media would have been tearing their hair out analysing why some men hated this group so much, where the hatred came from, why it existed, what could be done about it; but ironically apart from the Daily Fail, there has been very little comment in response to the Twitter hate-campaign. If Twitter had buzzed with indignation at the jailing of the man who posted hate-speak about Fabrice Muamba, I?ve no doubt that the FA would have tracked down the posters and banned them from football matches. Because they?re busy kicking racism out of football. Sexism, though, is fine. They can give a bloody award to a convicted rapist, while their supporters conduct what must be a terrifying hate campaign against his teenage victim? right now, football fans don?t look all that much better than the Taliban, do they?

Mumsnet, will you use the voice you have against this horrible hate campaign? Will you tell the woman that Ched Evans raped, that We Believe Her? Will you ask the FA to state publicly, that they too, believe her and that in future, they will work as hard to kick sexism out of football, as they do to kick racism out?

Thank You.

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SillyBeardyDaddyman · 30/04/2012 07:33

www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/2012/04/28/bid-for-public-show-of-support-for-ched-evans-at-sheffield-united-falls-flat-91466-30861200/

I'm a man and a football fan and I believe her.

I'm glad this stupid minority of idiots got drowned out at the game.

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MiseryBusiness · 30/04/2012 07:37

I believer you.

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ThatGhastlyWoman · 30/04/2012 07:40

I believe you.

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Tee2072 · 30/04/2012 07:40

I believe her.

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skrumle · 30/04/2012 07:40

i believe her

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Blatherskite · 30/04/2012 07:41

I believe her. So glad the Sheffield United support was a wash out.

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BeerTricksPott3r · 30/04/2012 07:45

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MiladyGardenia · 30/04/2012 07:46

I believe her.

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streakybacon · 30/04/2012 07:46

I believe her.

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MrsCog · 30/04/2012 07:46

I believe you, stay strong and hold your head high.

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alexpolismum · 30/04/2012 07:48

I believe you. Such despicable behaviour by the Ched supporters, don't they have mothers/ sisters/ girlfriends/ daughters?

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MooBaaWoofCheep · 30/04/2012 07:48

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maythe4thbewithyou · 30/04/2012 07:49

I believe her.

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AlistairSim · 30/04/2012 07:50

I believe her.

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Littlefish · 30/04/2012 07:52

I believe her.

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Scootergrrrl · 30/04/2012 07:52

I believe her and the court believed her.

Being a good footballer doesn't make you a good man. I'd like some of the people who are supporting convicted rapist Ched Evans to imagine that was their daughter, or sister, who had the misfortune to encounter him and his revolting friends that night.

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whomovedmychocolate · 30/04/2012 07:54

I believe her. No excuses. No defence. It's not harmless banter, it's life destroying to persecute her further online.

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QuietNinjaKnowsNotWhatToDo · 30/04/2012 07:55

I believe her. And what mrsrisotto said. People who are supporting this scumbag are just as bad.

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potoroo · 30/04/2012 07:55

I believe her.

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belgo · 30/04/2012 07:56

BasilFoulEggs good post and some very good points raised on this thread.

I believe her.

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Macdog · 30/04/2012 07:57

I believe her

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Tee2072 · 30/04/2012 07:59

His sister has set up a Facebook page?

Shall we start an I believe her campaign on the wall?

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handbagCrab · 30/04/2012 08:00

I believe her.

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Tee2072 · 30/04/2012 08:00
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catsareevil · 30/04/2012 08:02

It might be better to check with her sister first. I find the concept that anyone wouldnt believe it very odd given the circumstances and the conviction, so if that idea isnt already on the page I wouldnt introduce it, IYSWIM.

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