Exactly niceguy2, it might not be fair but then nothing is. The hard fact is that it's NOT just claimants who are suffering and indeed there are many claimants who are actually better off than the working people who are paying taxes to help those better off than them! That's just the way the system works.
I'm sorry but it's hard to have sympathy when you've been there, done that but without the benefits. Yes we've moved house too and we don't live in the kind of area I'd like to. Both my kids attended a failing primary school because it was the nearest to us. Both of them have changed schools and left friends behind. Yes it's shit but there you go, it doesn't just affect those on benefits and I wish people would see that.
We struggle to make ends meet, but we still pay our taxes and national insurance contributions. We get no help towards school trips or uniforms and my dd is kitted out completely in a second hand uniform that I bought from the school's lost property office whilst the children whose parents are on benefits have brand new uniforms paid for out of my taxes.
Yet I don't think that's unfair. Some of these people do have hard lives, they do try to work like HuntyCat but the system is against them. I'd rather give my taxes to those who are struggling than the governmental coffers or towards propping up banks. However my sympathy is strangled by the situation that I find myself in and the knowledge that there are a lot more working families in the very same situation that nobody seems to give a damn about. Where are the Mumsnet threads frothing about us? Where are our spokespeople ranting about unfairness? Where are our demonstrations?
Niceguy2, I get allergies all year round the only way to keep on top of it during spring is with a tablet a day, nasal spray twice a day and eyedrops three times a day from May to Sept. The rest of the time if I get symptoms I just take an ordinary hayfever tablet.
My dh has psoriasis and has to get Dovanex, tar shampoo and aqueous cream. We spend a fortune on prescriptions but that's not something either of us can cut back on sadly.