I'm still agog that someone thinks just over £400 per week is a ridiculous amount to live off of and to be quite honest it is insulting.
Funny that this argument is being seen as jealously over amounts rather than annoyance that people are expecting to be given something without an expectation that they are using it to gain employment.
We need to separate the whole disability issue, I think Lisad123 that you've been treated shockingly but from my experience it is what happens when you aren't clued up on how to work the system. That they wouldn't help you because your DH was working is appalling.
Another thing is lone parents. When people say that they think of the young teen, having babies without belonging to a family unit. However lone parent also means people like me - when the family unit breaks up, unfortunate but it happens all too often. We are no longer going to have the recourse of CSA, though for many of us this failed to provide what was needed.
Being a lone parent does limit the amount of work you can do. Unless you have a willing and able family member to help with childcare then being flexible with hours and working weekends is simply not viable. Benefits in this case should be the bridge until you can find that job.
However no one seems to complain or mind about the young men, and not so young men and women, without childcare issues, usually second or third generation on benefits who take their money and have no intention of doing any work ever.