^I am very sorry for your loss.
But the cuts aren't supposed to affect you as you are working. If you lost your job you would have six months to find a new one before the cap sets in. If you couldn't find a new job in that area you would have to look elsewhere and move. Thats just the same as if you weren't on benefits.
Also I'm not sure why moving would mean you would have to stop working? You would have to use childcare instead of family perhaps, but that is the reality for most people.
I think I need to go off and have a think. This is all making me into someone I dont' like. I dont' WANT to be snippy about people. But it all seems so unfair and stupid.^
Hi Spike It affects me because I am in temp housing - the council want half as I'm in a council block and the Housing Assc want half as they manage the flat so my rent is £500pw. If I was in a perm flat I would pay about £150 pw which I could manage. I'm in temp housing because after my partner died I had a difficult pregnancy and had a lot of time off work through grief and illness and was eventually made redundant. I was also evicted from my flat because my LL wanted to sell up. (Not a good year) so I had to turn to the council. So I went from a lovely 2 bed flat and garden earning £40k to single mum on benefits in B and B in a space of 6 months.
If I had to move to a cheaper area away from family and friends I would have to earn shed loads of money to afford cc for 2 children. My job in London pays 12k what would it pay o/s London? I couldn't afford rent and childcare on a salary of 10k. I can't afford cc now which is why when my dds is ill my mum or friend can look after them - if I need to work longer hours I can do that all I have to do is phone a friend last minute to arrange - I couldn't do that if they were not close by.
Please everyone knocking benefit claimants - I was living the perfect life - lovely man 2 gorgeous girls, a good job, car, holidays we had everything....until a drunk killed my beautiful partner and my life changed from that moment. it could happen to anyone of you a split second that will turn your lives upside down and then you too will be needing all te help and support you can find. I never thought I would be here and I can't stop crying I'm so scared, and damn it yes I feel bloody sorry for myself and my beautiful girls who soon may be torn away from loved ones like their father was torn away from them......Please stop and spare a thought for the real people here - not the figures.
Tea break over again - back to work so dry me tears and soldier on....