WetAugust. While the figures may SEEM astonishing - I DEFY you to find an NHS dentist even for CHILDREN in my PCT. I have to pay for a private dental check once a year for each of my dc. Or they don't get one. Free prescriptions are only of use if your local PCT is willing (or has the money) to prescribe you the medication and equipment you need. Mine isn't - I need to find £300 for a Nebuliser for my DS2, I have to pay for my own IBS medication, I have to pay for DS3's excema cream.
YES I get FSM's - but not for DS1 because he is coeliac, and my LEA refuse to fund GF food, OR ensure that there is no risk of cross-contamination in the school kitchen, therefore I have to send him in with a packed lunch. DS2 has Autism and has sensory issues wrt food, and doesn't EAT the meals provided. So I have to provide him with a packed lunch too. DD copes with what is available on FSM's, but only since she has been in Secondary school.
Then our water bills are HUGE. I actively research as many ways to save water as I can. For starters, no-one in the house except DS3 (due to his excema) has a bath more than once a week. We strip-wash the rest of the time. In this way, by water-saving, I have managed to get my water bill DOWN to £30-£40 a month. Most people with 2/3+ dc here pay double that.
And I'm glad I'm NOT in the South-West. The rent may be cheaper, but that is all eaten up by JUST HOW DEAR their water bills are.
I MOST DEFINATELY do not have the sort of disposable income you are talking about. If I did, then I wouldn't be worrying about the fact that my DS1 has ALREADY grown out of the school uniform that I bought him in September. I know SOME areas have uniform grants - but my county doesn't, and hasn't for at LEAST the last 7 years. He has grown an inch and a half since September. And I can't even pass the trousers down, as he has gone through the knees playing footy in the playground on all but one pair. That are swinging around his ankles.
Maybe I am budgetting wrongly? Because I can't cut anything from my budget that I can see. And I've spent WEEKS going over it. Short of not paying the bus fares to get my dc to school, or not paying my gas or electric (which is on a key meter, so no money=no gas/electric), or not EATING one/two days a week, or not CLOTHING the dc or myself, I have no idea!
I've only got waterproof winter boots because a kind MN'er donated them to me. I'd rather spend the money making sure that the dc have warm, dry clothing. And nutricious food. And heat and light. And books. Books are essential IMO.