I have to say - to those posters who think I am better of in Income support - I'm NOT. Last time I was working, despite being on NMW, due to Tax Credits and Housing Benefit - I WAS better off working. I would LOVE to be able to work. There are just a few problems with that though. 1) Where is this mythical job? There ARE no jobs here, and the very few that come up have 600+ applicants for EACH JOB. 2) If YOU were an employer - would YOU hire someone who is almost guaranteed to need AT LEAST one day either off sick, or on unpaid parental leave EVERY WEEK. If you had the choice of 559 fit and healthy people, and one person in that situation?
. 3) If you can kindly find me a Special Needs Childminder willing to look after a 13yo with Autism, at the same price as a normal childminder.
I am NOT making excuses. I was working 70 hrs a week before my epilepsy diagnosis. I have had 4 jobs SINCE my diagnosis 8 years ago - I left one part-time one for a Full-time one.
I got 'retired on medical grounds' from the second one due to having had too much time off sick. (You don't know in advance when you are going to have a seizure, and I often had them mid-shift, and had to either go home or to hospital mid-shift, leaving them short-staffed). The last resort in that job was me having a seizure on the shop floor, losing control of my bladder and ruining a customers shoes, which the shop had to reimburse her for. I was then out of work for two years, while trying to find another job.
I found a job with someone who was SE, HE had epilepsy too, hence he was happy to employ me. Until his business folded.
I THEN, just 3 months after my Ex-P walked out on me, found a job in September. I had my baby in Nursery, my two older DS's at after-school club, and my DD with an SN childminder. Who gave me notice ON THE FIRST DAY because she hadn't realised how much harder it is to look after a 13yo with Autism than it is a 3yo with Autism. There IS no other SN childminder in my town. I had to leave the job after just 3 weeks.
I WANT to work.I have TRIED to work. But if you could just make this a utopian world, maybe my epilepsy and my DD's Autism would vanish, and then I could! I hardly think that I fit your model of a workshy scrounger. And neither do most of the other people I know that claim either Income Support or Jobseekers Allowance or Tax Credits.