We were on the footpath at the time. If the bus comes onto the footpath then it is the bus driver's fault. If it runs into the bus stop then it is the bus driver's fault. If it clips someone on the kerb with the mirror, then it is the bus driver's fault. The bus driver in our case didn't come onto the footpath because he was moving so slowy he slid into another car instead of mounting the kerb. Bus drivers are not actually trying to mow down pedestrians.
If you step in front of a moving vehicle, especially a big red loud one then it is your fault, roads are dangerous places you need to check carefully before stepping on to one.
It doesn't matter if you are a nice 16 year old girl, if you step in front of a bus the laws of physics are not going to take that into account. They are large, they have momentum, it is hard to stop in time, you will not win. So before you step into the road, look and then look again. Don't they teach that jingle to kids in the UK? The Look to the Left, Then Look to the Right, Then Look to the Left Again?
London has millions of people, and lots and lots of buses. The astonishing thing isn't that sometimes people are killed by them, the astonishing thing is that mostly they are not.
Agree that electric cars need to make some sort of sound, it doesn't have to be a loud sound but it needs to be a clear and distinctive one so blind people know they are there.