What are you talking about, ryoko???
I have never assumed, or hinted at an assumption, that women are or can be 'brain washed' by advertising.
You have terrible form in doing this - reading things wrongly and telling posters what they have said/think/believe. At least, I assume you are reading things wrongly. The other possibility is you deliberately make things up!
Advertising works on a cultural, social level as well as an individual one.
Some advertising works on a 'use this brand, not that one' - not all of it. Surely you know this and even if you don't, it's common sense. The ads that do the 'please switch brand' would include washing powder brands, as virtually all the population already uses washing powder.
Other ads have to create a need that does not exist - if you have a brand new product, you have to convince consumers they have a need or a wish for it even if they didn't even notice the gap in their lives before!
There are other types of ad (luxury products which work on giving the consumer permission to use them; specifically targeted ads that work solely on the niche of the population that would use them to tell them the product is there)....anyway, there are many ways of advertising.
Formula advertising works to increase formula feeding in total, as well as increasing brand awareness and targeting brand selection. The biggest competition to any formula is breastfeeding - so they have to work to undermine it, by using some of the 'plus' points of breastfeeding and giving the impresh formula can emulate them - hence the health claims made by all brands.
Now go and take your false 'People are being insulted!' outrage somewhere else, do a bit of reading and thinking, and calm down.
Thank you!