Snafsicle - sorry, but I really disagree with a lot of your post:
I'm not pretending I know all the ins and outs of the whole messy business, but what I'm saying is that I think I know enough to cast significant doubt (in my mind certainly) that there is 'foul play' at work here...
YOU SAY: "I thought it was very well known that Dodi was simply a pleasant fling for Diana? That's what she told all her friends, wasn't it? It was no great romance and certainly no sort of threat to the future of the Royal Family."
- 'well-known' by whom though? Where did "they" (whoever "they" might be - it always makes me cringe when people quote "they" as some kind of authoritative source) get that information from? - The media?
-The web?
- or genuinely from someone, first-hand, who had been involved & talked to the Royal family?
I know it's an old adage, but you simply CANNOT believe ANYTHING you read in the paper - there is no such thing as 'real, pure' news reporting - it is all there to meet someone's objective. I worked in media and PR for 15 years and have worked with enough of the national newspapers to have seen this to be true.( Have 'created' front page news stories for my clients many times...)
YOU SAY: There was never any question of a future King of England having a Muslim stepfather. Isn't that why plenty of Diana's circle find the whole Al Fayed 'Diana and Dodi, together forever' circus distasteful because they know it's so ridiculous - if she'd not died the relationship probably would have been over by the end of the month!
How can you possibly so categorically know this?
Did YOU know them personally?
YOU SAY- But all these theories are really just a way for people to try and make sense of something that they find too shocking and upsetting to just accept. Sometimes things just happen, sometimes people just have accidents, or get shot, or whatever...
It's my belief that you have just perfectly played back, exactly, the 'spun' message which the Royal Family's PR staff (in conjunction with the government, most likely) will have worked long and hard with the National Press (the owners of which are, of course, all their friends and relatives...)
It's true, sometimes people DO just have accidents, but when it's a celebrity, people naturally find it more suspicious.
If people are interested to read more of the suggested 'alternative facts' (which, of course, could also be suspect?) then have a look here:
it's the first I found, but there are many more...
Snaf - I'm really not trying to have a go at you - honest- just saying that we all need to question what it is that has led us to our current beliefs around this?