Bobba I agree if there was suitable housing
My aprents don't want the extra space particualrly (actually they do becuase it emans theyc an provide us with a week repsite in the summer / help with sister's shifts but YKWIM- it's not formally used in any way that could register on a form). What tehy don't want is to be mvoed to an out of town estate where dad would ahve to elave work (he does graveyard shift; buses and rural counties do not mix with shifts and he enver drrove, eyes are too shot), leave the neighbours that pop in on each other, where they can walk into town to buy fresh food.
There needs to be a mix of housing in areas for this to work; all their estate is 3 bed housing.
ANd there needs to be warning- on the beleif that they had a home for life my aprents just blew £2k on recarpeting the entire house.
As for Custy's carers- it ain't that easy! it's not soemthing I will ever have to do, beinga carer already, but if you ahve a one bed flat 200 miles away and your Mum needs care in a larger house you move there. Doubly so if your one bed is a private tenancy as you woudln't be able to move them in anyway.
I'm not anti this, in proinciple; I just think people need fair warning so they don't spend £££££ on thie r home thinking it is for life, and an effort amde to provide housing within the same communities. Otherwise the whole Biog Society thing eats itself as well doen't it? Give back to your community- well, if you still have one. Moving mass loads of elderly people (and it really would be like that- I would say when I was a girl 50% of the homes on our estate were occupied by elderly couples or widowed people whose famillies were long flown) and just causes mass problems to shift entire swathes of people like that, as history shows.
A question as well: a few reports have said 'when peoples children grow up'- we will have one, posibly two of our children with us for life sue to SN. We're not in HA housing ATM but could end up in it, if we did would they count the boys as good reason to still need a larger house if we are provising their care? I am presuming so andthat the 'children' thing is just an easy way of putting it?