Hello again.
Lucysmam _ I have three Weenotions nappies for ds (2.6)which arre great. They are popper, so you could pull them up, all in one, so easy to put on if not used to re usables, and the outer bits dry really quickly so I can wash and reuse every day.
They are expensive, but I use microfibre (dries very quickly) or old terries (left over from dd1) to stuff them so I reckon I'm getting my moneys worth.
They are also very funky patterns
Fleece liners are also worth getting, as you could just replace as rowingboat said and put the nappy back on.
Flamesparrow could give lots of advice if you want to email her and tell her what you are looking for... I can do you a link if you want.
FLY wise, I've not done much (again)
LML - I send dp with a shoppuing list. As the alternative is looking after all three children while I go, I think he has the easy option