@Zombieof3
Do Dishes Daily*
*Dana K White
Listen to her pod casts/you tube as you're getting stuck in.
Do the dishes first, first time it might take a long time, but once you've done that, doing them daily doesn't take long
have a trash bag & Donate able Donate box (ie one you can give to the charity with the contents, can be an item (box/bag you want to donate) can be cardboard box. Just one you don't need back!
firstly throw away actual rubbish. Then put an 'easy' item into the charity bag (if suitable). Otherwise it's in the bin (recycling)
next put away anything that has a home somewhere else in the house (take an armful of stuff if you can, but DONT make a pile to deal with later)
if there's not a space. Take actual rubbish or a donatable item so there is space, take that back to your original space & put it in the trash/donate box
if you follow her method you'll only ever make a space better & even 10 minutes will make a big difference.
Have 5 minute pick up daily (at least once), set a timer - everyone joins in, but when the timer goes off they can stop if they want to. Dont badger about 'finishing' or 'doing another 5 minutes'. If you want them to join in without a fuss you need to stick to your side of the 'deal' 5 minutes
I could rattle on for pages about her method, but it's all there. Online, free!!
if you can afford it/have a car. I'd take all the laundry to the laundrette & do several loads at once, just get it done and start fresh.
look up her container concept to get your clothes culled. You have too many.
i can't see how your litter trays are so stinky if you're doing what you say ? Taking 💩 & wet litter out pretty much as they do it. Fully emptying the litter & washing the litter tray every couple of days. Maybe you need different litter??
you can do it.