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Things you can’t get your head round, e.g Non ironers

230 replies

Supersares · 26/08/2023 05:33

Is it just me or does anyone else not understand how people who don’t iron manage ? Whenever someone tells me they don’t iron my brain can’t compute how they manage to have clothes looking crinkle free- without consciously buying clothes that don’t need ironing! I hang clothes on coat hangers, fold consciously to avoid creasing but still have to iron things like blouses, dh shirts and my dd school skirts, for example. Do I need to buy better quality clothing, is that the key? Can any non ironers out there share their secrets please 😀🤓

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PatsWoggle · 26/08/2023 09:59

I can't not iron, it feels wrong not to. When I read how people avoid it by folding and smoothing and hanging it sounds more kerfuffle than ironing it.
Odd socks is another wrong thing to me, I can't wear them I feel uncomfortable. I'd rather wear no socks or an unwashed pair out of the washing basket. My adult DS never wears matching socks though, I try hard not to look at his feet!

I can't get my head around people piling dishes in the sink. It seems so counter productive.

weleasewoderick23 · 26/08/2023 10:03

@isthismylifenow

I'm glad it's not just me! I have a colleague that buys loads from Vinted and doesn't see the problem!

HeidiWhole · 26/08/2023 10:06

All my clothes are line dried and with more modern fabrics there's not much that needs ironing if you hang it up to dry properly. I avoid linen.
I do iron the odd item if it looks creased and I certainly never stand doing a pile of ironing for hours on end any more.

greenacrylicpaint · 26/08/2023 10:22

when I lived in a tiny flat I ironed bedding.
to dry it.
as hadn't space to store a spare set and no tumble dryer either.

agree with pp, I buy clothes in fabrics that are ever so slightly stretchy or are supposed to be crinkly. (jersey/t-shirt fabric, rayon).

inonan · 26/08/2023 12:19

This is incorrect. We have silk duvet /pillows and linen bedsheets. We just find the creases acceptable (esp on the mattress sheet where the fabric is pulled taut anyway).

I would agree. I iron most things, but 100% cotton bedding stretched out on the washing line dries with very few creases and I don't really iron it now. I have a couple of silk pillowcases and confess I sometimes iron those.

astarsheis · 26/08/2023 12:23

I cheat...I send husband's shirts and all bedding out to be ironed.
I try and fold clothes straight from coming off the line or dryer.
I will iron the odd thing if I must.

For what it's worth...not British

TokyoSushi · 26/08/2023 12:23

I'm an ironer.

When people, often said with a slight hint of superiority say 'oh I don't have time for mundane things like ironing' I'm afraid I often think 'yep, you can tell!' Blush

Cognitivedisonance · 26/08/2023 12:29

We call our iron ‘the church bell’ because it comes out every couple of years and means we’re either off to a wedding or a funeral. DH only ever wears shirts to these events otherwise he’s in T-shirts and hoodies ( work clothes the same). DS wears a polo, and sweatpants or jersey shorts to school… doesn’t need ironing just like his play clothes and I wear a vest and dungarees or harem pants everyday because I work from home or I’m gardening so I can. All these things just hang on a hanger wet and are fine. I don’t use a drier even in winter but I have plenty of space to dry stuff properly and then I hang it. The entire family fills one double wardrobe and a chest of drawers because we’re just not interested in fashion or hoarding shit (other than books, instruments and art apparently 🤦‍♀️) but yeah the funeral suit and formal dress shit gets ironed but absolutely nothing else.

PuppyMonkey · 26/08/2023 12:34

TokyoSushi · 26/08/2023 12:23

I'm an ironer.

When people, often said with a slight hint of superiority say 'oh I don't have time for mundane things like ironing' I'm afraid I often think 'yep, you can tell!' Blush

Now who’s being superior? Grin

We know you can probably tell and we don’t give a monkey’s TBF.

Charrington · 26/08/2023 12:39

I think ironing might make a comeback. In the past it was a way to ensure things were fully dry and sanitised. But with energy costs soaring people are using tumble driers and heating less. Damp homes and clothes are a health risk.

I think the reason that the older generation ironed tea towels and underwear was because it was a health issue for older generations than them and drummed in as good practice. Before antibiotics, indoor plumbing and electricity, bring a good housekeeper was much more important. In recent years it’s been about aesthetics and people rightly deprioritise it.

HappiDaze · 26/08/2023 12:44

I hate ironing because it's boring and takes up precious time and nothing as it turns out actually even needs to be ironed.

inonan · 26/08/2023 12:46

For what it's worth...not British

Is that relevant? My grandmother isn't British and irons everything, even socks. Busy woman in the past with her career, too.

Desecratedcoconut · 26/08/2023 12:56

I've never thought of ironing as a line of infection control. Ironing tea towels makes much more sense from this angle.

Escapingtherealityoflife · 26/08/2023 13:24

43ontherocksporfavor · 26/08/2023 08:56

Yeah I don’t get the non iron ‘movement’ I mean I hate ironing and I fold where I can but I like linen and cotton etc and they need ironing!
My other one is households that have treat cupboards. Whole drawers or cupboards of chocolate, cakes and crisps. Ok I’m thinking of the TV shows where the salad drawers on fridges are full of chocolate so maybe extreme examples but have heard from my DC that similar happens in friends’ houses. We have biscuits but just one packet a week with the shopping, I make cakes occasionally and buy chocolate occasionally and eat it. I just don’t get the need for shedloads of junk especially with kids in the house.

We have a treat cupboard!

MidnightOnceMore · 26/08/2023 13:28

Desecratedcoconut · 26/08/2023 12:56

I've never thought of ironing as a line of infection control. Ironing tea towels makes much more sense from this angle.

I wash tea towels at 90 for this reason. People used to boil their kitchen linens.

Desecratedcoconut · 26/08/2023 13:38

I've always just thrown tea towels in with the regular washing - most of which wouldn't appreciate a boil wash. I've never really thought about it before 😬 on the upside, we're all fine.

43ontherocksporfavor · 26/08/2023 13:41

All towels and tea towels at 60c here. 90 seems a bit extreme these days.

MidnightOnceMore · 26/08/2023 13:47

To me anything else smacks of slovenly in my mind - the kind of people who also don't wipe around their light switches.

I am definitely slovenly then Grin

MidnightOnceMore · 26/08/2023 13:49

43ontherocksporfavor · 26/08/2023 13:41

All towels and tea towels at 60c here. 90 seems a bit extreme these days.

Is good for the washer to have a hot wash so it feels like two birds with one stone.

I like to know the kitchen stuff is properly clean.

uncomfortablydumb53 · 26/08/2023 14:03

I don't even own an iron
I don't work so wear casual clothes but the same applies if I dress more formally for an occasion
I do buy good quality cotton tops( mostly secondhand)
I remove straight away, shake and dry on hangers with a splash of fabric conditioner.
Even when I had 3 young boys I didn't bother as the next minute they were rolling around on the floor
I think I've always looked presentable, and I've more important things to worry about

isthismylifenow · 26/08/2023 14:05

Desecratedcoconut · 26/08/2023 12:56

I've never thought of ironing as a line of infection control. Ironing tea towels makes much more sense from this angle.

My towels get ironed. Bathroom ones as well as kitchen ones. But then I do live in Africa and mango worm (Putzi fly) is a real thing.

But I may be a tad paranoid but after I found a web nest on a towel on the line, everything is ironed.

I have dogs and they are carriers.

(I don't iron the dogs... But they do get a fairly frequent wash in season) 😀

smartiesneberhadtheanswer · 26/08/2023 14:14

@MidnightOnceMore

You know soap girls germs right? No need to burn energy boiling tea towels 🤣🤣🤣🤣

3rdtimemumma · 26/08/2023 14:15

Getting socks to match, I've found is just having them matching in the first place, washing frequently (so pairs are together washing and drying), and if you have an odd one, keeping it to one side (e.g. on a radiator) as the pair should be in tye next wash. And if a sock has a beyond rescue hole, making sure the pair is thrown. Oh and I never wash socks and duvet covers in the same wash cos they get stuck. It's not foolproof, but find this makes it easier.

3rdtimemumma · 26/08/2023 14:23

Tjjd2023 · 26/08/2023 07:48

The items you mention would need ironing. We don't often iron because we don't own clothes that need ironing. The clothes that do, eg shirts, we don't wear often.

I promise you I don't iron anything day to day. I think it's important to have a 9kg/10kg washing machine drum. Non-iron shirts are fine. Duvets pulled taught are fine. I do own an iron, it comes out occasionally e.g. Black tie work dos/ weddings. I've never owned an ironing board. I'm in my 40s.

MerelyPlaying · 26/08/2023 14:35

Don’t iron (except to press seams when sewing). Don’t use fabric conditioner and have never owned a tumble dryer. I used to work in a corporate job and always looked smart.

I use bleach sparingly (about once a month in the loo) and NEVER to clean up after incontinent animals; it just makes them wee in the same place again.

Oh yeah, and I only wipe my light switches if I think they need it, which isn’t often! Clearly I’m a sloven, and I’m very happy to be one. I’d rather spend my time reading a book than cleaning.