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Social distancing around the Maypole: Fledglings fly into Flylady thread May 2020.

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Lisette1940 · 30/04/2020 15:16

Welcome to the May Flylady thread Fledglings! We are finally coming to the end of Spring and, erm, what a Spring it has been. Keep safe everyone and a special shoutout to Fledglings who are in the frontline of the response to Covid 19.
Lane has been superlative with the keep calm corner and has had a truly magnificent engagement with fledglings all through April – well done Lane!!! I have totally abandoned my routines (and my clean eating) and have been flying perilously close to the ground but am ready for take off again. But we operate a no fledgling left behind policy and indeed Flylady herself stresses that you are never behind in the system – no need to deep clean the house first, just jump right in.
All are welcome here from longtimers to newbie and those lurking – we all follow this zone-based Flylady cleaning system:
There are five zones and at the beginning and the end of the month we usually straddle Zone 1 and zone 5.
(amend rooms to suit your house – I do the living and dining room together as it’s all one room in my house)
MAY
Zone 1 Hall, entrance/dining room (Fri 1 – Sat 2)
Zone 2 Kitchen (Sun 3- Sat 9)
Zone 3 Bathroom and another room (Sun 10- Sat 16)
Zone 4 Master bedroom/closet (Sun 17 – Sat 23)
Zone 5 Living room (Sun 24 – Sun 31)

Pop onto the Flylady website to have a closer look here but be aware that lots of emails arrive if you sign up.

Flylady has an introductory scheme called Babysteps which is a light 31 day introduction to the system – dressing to shoes, shining your sink etc here.

There is a morning routine and an evening routine to keep things ticking over and a weekly home cleaning hour to change bed sheets, mop, hoover, take out rubbish etc. Flylady doesn’t want us cleaning all day so she is very keen on using a timer. Clean then stop!
In addition each day has a purpose: see the daily focus here

Monday: Weekly home cleaning hour (can be split into ten minute sections and spread over week) here
Tuesday: Plan and play (Menu planning, family event planning)
Wednesday: Anti-procrastination day
Thursday: Errand day
Friday: Clear out bags, fill car with petrol, date night
Saturday: Family fun
Sunday: Lift your spirit

Launch pad for guidance every day! launch pad

Habit of the month of May is moving – whether that’s your daily get out of the house during lockdown or in house movement. – moving is not my strongest point apart from pottering around the house…
We also have a naughty corner as a restful break out space and a Keep Calm Corner (KCC). I suspect I’ll be better at the naughty corner rather than the latter but I’ll do my best! Not sure I can muster the memes but I’ll do my best to keep spirits up.
So welcome to the new thread (I hope I haven’t left anyone out): Lane, SC, zoo, Bower, KTCluck, Willow/Megiddo, foxes, That, averytiredMom, fluffliest, ED, Strawberry, Chic, Hazel, Happiness, Cineraria, We3, stressy, and give.

And breathe!

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Fluffiest · 11/05/2020 08:10

Good morning everyone, here's to the start of another week.

hazel sorry your mothers day was a bit of a let down. Your flowers look beautiful though.

zoo I like the sound of your pamper evening, I hope your DD has a good day today.

I'm not sure what to make of the announcement. I am glad that from Wednesday we can spend unlimited time outside and sit down without breaking the rules. It would also be nice to drive further afield for our walks, so far we have stuck to places we can walk to from our door. Also DD is an only child, about to start school in September. She really could do with socializing at Nursery and doing transition visits...but of course safety is the most important thing...I feel totally unqualified to have an informed opinion so I'm just doing what were told.

Right, I need to get up of the sofa now and do something! Determined to spend less time sitting on my behind and more time moving around!

THATscurryfungeBITCH · 11/05/2020 08:20

Fluffiest even if dd doesn't get to go to nursery before september she will not be alone. Most dc will be in the same position and i imagine they will do increased settling in for reception classes.

Stilllivinginazoo · 11/05/2020 08:30

fluffy none of mine attended nursery prior to nursery of big school and we're fine.dd1 went straight into reception without any nursery.the setting was very gently introduced,even tho it was 20 years ago

I personally think it's not wise opening school.i read Spain and Germany both have rising infection rates try open things up..and plenty people round here give a yard and take a mile....I expect to see teen footie/basketball rising with mixing of households.local nature reserve beyond busyand I do believe infection rates will start to soar again as people think breaking one rule won't matter..except loads break one rule chaos ensues..I also follow food medicand some twerp has started a rally for a believe 16th may at Hyde park to have picnics and mix and tell gov we are go do as please and are also anti vaxxers.lord give us strength!!naturally food medics not impressed as she's risking her life every day,like so many others,try help those who become seriously ill.ffs people stop fighting what's trying to save you!!

Tada
Cats fed
Wash on
Bleach lav

Kitchen
Clean windows
Wipe sills
Clean oven
Clean hob
Wipe surface one
Clean all cupboard fronts
Exercise with D's
Breakfast
Wash up
Wash in drier
More in

DS room
Windows wiped
Bed sprayed lavender fabreeze
Polish surfaces
Water plants
Sweep floor

foxessocks · 11/05/2020 08:45

I'm just taking it all a day at a time, dd is in year 1 and she'd love to see her friends and teacher but until nearer the time I will try not to think too hard about it, the plan could well change before then. My ds is at nursery but since he is 4 in September he has another year before school.

Zoo I can't think too hard about our local area this bank holiday weekend or I get cross, there was a gathering outside a pub which they insisted was not a gathering 🤷

To do
Working all day today
Schoolwork with dd
Some exercise
All the usual routine stuff
Bathroom surfaces
One other room - will probably try and clear out some clothes
Hoovering if I get a time

Lisette1940 · 11/05/2020 09:16

Morning all! I have an only child too Fluffiest and he's finding the lack of social contact hard, poor love.

We are in zone 3 - the bathroom and one other room.

Daily focus today is the home bleurgh (blessing) hour which you can spread over the other days if you wish.

Baby step 11 is here - an inspiration page in the control journal.

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Lisette1940 · 11/05/2020 09:25

KCC

Your favourite summer holiday memory?

I enjoyed some time in Seville once and we went to the Palace of the Royal Alcazar with beautiful gardens.

I think the snow yesterday reminded me of Groundhog Day with Bill Murray...

Social distancing around the Maypole: Fledglings fly into Flylady thread May 2020.
Social distancing around the Maypole: Fledglings fly into Flylady thread May 2020.
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IcyWind · 11/05/2020 09:45

lisette ooh I’d love that!. We haven’t had snow in ages.

Thank you jig good luck with the new diet!

hazel the flowers are lovely and I’m glad your day improved slightly!

How’s your DD feeling today zoo?

I don’t know if nurseries will apply to me as I’m not sure how long we’ll be shielded for. But if that’s the case will we be shielded until there’s a vaccine? Will DS1 start school in September when he should? So many questions.

My favourite summer holiday memory is probably from Barmouth when I was little. We drive up a big mountain (it’s probably just a hill) to get there and we had a little camper van and got stuck. It was so funny. I loved Barmouth, we don’t go much now. But we do have annual haven holidays, hopefully ours still goes ahead a bit later in the year.

Ta Da
Made beds✅
Breakfast✅
Done 1 hour so schooling✅

JigoloHarMegiddo · 11/05/2020 10:59

Gah. Feeling very negative about everything today - like Perkin with his black cloud in The Flumps - so I'm staying out of the way IRL and on here until I can be nice. I have walked an hour with the dog. My breakfast smoothie was foul. Won't try that again!

🍒🙋‍♀️ hope to see you all later when I'm a nicer person.

Smartcasual · 11/05/2020 11:15

Me too Megiddo my no.1 washing machine has just failed. Pump blocked. Spent the morning on my hands and knees on the hard stone floor cleaning out the filter. Two and a half bucket loads of water came out. Filter's clear so it's something serious I think. Rang the shop where we bought it (it's out of guarantee) and guess what ...they haven't been sending out service engineers since the start of lockdown and ... oh joy... today is the day the lines re-open to book appts. Can I get one? Nope. Not for weeks and weeks. Bugger. Shite. Feck.

Thought "ok all is not lost" have little cheapo washing machine in which we wash dog blankets, fleece harnesses, towels and dhorse numnahs/leg and tail wraps/travelling bandages etc and horse and dog cleaning cloths etc... I can do an empty wash on 90°c with bleach/then vinegar to clean it out ... and I can use that for main wash. And you guessed it, did that and it has started to flash all it's buttons too and beep. Right on cue Shock The bloody thing is just about functioning but I doubt it will be long before that let's out a final moan and dies too.

Shite. You know what this means?

I am actually going to have to do some ironing. Shock

Grin
Lisette1940 · 11/05/2020 11:35

Buy a new machine SC - then you can use the old one for the dogs's stuff when it can get repaired. Honestly you can't do without the washing machine. It's unthinkable. Just before lockdown I had the same problem with my machine - flooding, not emptying and I checked the filter etc. There was something like a button blocked inside the machine. Needed a repairman/woman

Meg - you are a lovely person, it's just monday morning. Have you tried porridge with fruit and greek yoghurt. It's like having dessert in the morning. I am eating healthily too (from today).

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LaneBoy · 11/05/2020 11:37

Gah. Lost a post earlier and then had to get on with enforcing some actual work from the caglets Hmm

Holiday memory, probably when we went to the Dali museum in Figueras (sp?) - I was just starting to find my own taste in art (never really liked all the portrait type stuff I usually got dragged round :o) and I was just totally blown away by it and inspired.

Sorry about the black cloud meg - I’ll join you in the naughty corner although I think I’m out of the worst for the moment. But woe betide DH if he doesn’t bring back some form of chocolate or cake from town after collecting his meds!

Re the announcement - I don’t feel anything particular other than sad about the lack of start date for DD’s school year, not that I was especially expecting one really. That said, I’m pleased about the face exercise outdoors is unlimited now. Admittedly we haven’t gone out every day as it is but that is partly because we’ve felt like it absolutely had to be A Walk. Which DD1 isn’t generally keen on, and everyone gets bored doing the same routes all the time as there aren’t many options round here that are toddler safe (although we are in a nice quiet close we are very near some main roads). But now that we can go out more than once we can potentially break it up and do what’s best for everyone - long walks exploring for the big two, little trips to see the ducks for Cagletini, and being able to take a football etc as a family, depending on mood/weather. So far the park has been really quiet but I guess it may not stay that way!

Lisette1940 · 11/05/2020 11:37

The joys of homeschooling here Grin

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ExpletiveDelighted · 11/05/2020 11:42

Morning all, sorry for being AWOL over the weekend, we have been redecorating the kitchen so a bit of upheaval (no space for laptop) and the thread has been moving so quickly it's hard to keep up on phone. I have been reading and nodding along though. I have missed a few KCCs, but the skill one - I would love to be able to dance really well, any style, I dabble with my ballet and tap classes but am far from proficient!

Holiday memories - my earliest memory is visiting a stick of rock factory in Great Yarmouth and watching them make the letters and roll them into the huge cylinder of soft candy. As an adult I think my favourite holiday was a few years ago, we stayed in North Yorkshire and Durham, visited various members of my extended family in the area, went to Filey, Scarborough, York, Rievaulx Abbey, Hadrian's Wall, the Angel of The North, the weather was gorgeous, it was just perfect.

That has cheered me up Smile. Feeling a bit up and down today following the Boris announcement, it was very confusing. I need a day off social media I think. I too am worried that given an inch people will take a mile, but OTOH am starting to realise what a devastating effect there will be on the economy if so many businesses stay closed. Neither of my DCs is in one of the school years mentioned for earlier return, they could really do to get back for their mental health but the risks are too high.

Back to work (that's another thing, I can see me having to mainly WFH for a long time yet and that depresses me). DH has taken the day off to make a really long weekend and is wandering around at a bit of a loose end as he had forgotten that we would all be working.

IcyWind · 11/05/2020 13:20

Sorry you’re feeling crap meg Flowers

Can you buy a new one sc?

lane has anything else been mentioned about high schools? I do think more needs to be said tbh. There was very little about when we will be able to see family again, which I think is the worst thing for a lot of people.

ED is your kitchen finished now? A social media was great for me

I’ve given up on homeschooling today. The boys are at each other’s necks and it’s just not working. I could really do with a break, I love them but my god they’re getting on my last nerve. Roll on bed time!

Smartcasual · 11/05/2020 15:08

Thanks all. Dh understandably not too keen on forking out for another wm right now .. but we'll see if it can be mended ...and if so, in what sort of time period ... . Not sure if a pump being blocked is a fatal injury or something fixable tbh. It's only about 7 or 8 years old but I know they have built-in obsolescence nowadays.

Just taking a breaking from the fecking home bleugh ... it's taking ages today ... the three of us being at home all the time including the dogs shedding everywhere ... is making the house a lot dirtier. Just cleaned all kitchen surfaces (girding my loins for floor) and it's taken much longer than usual owing to dh's bread making activities which seem to involve chucking rock salt over everything ... sticking flour and water over all kitchen appliances ...and producing huge amounts of crumbs that are somehow ground in to the floor. Yeugh.

Sorry, don't know what has happened to my language, it's deteriorated a lot since menopause... it's just a fecking bollocking sort of day today Grin

That's good about more variety on the walks Lane! And good work on the Kallax (sp?)!

Megiddo meant to say that I am totally with you in spirit with the weight loss even though I haven't quite managed to get a grip on it in real life Blush. And sorry your breakfast was so disappointing! These things really matter at a time like this!

Wish I could decorate the kitchen Expletive, I hope it is going well/has gone well! Star Star Bravo to you and your dh for taking the plunge!

I wish we were doing the same but dh seems to be constantly in the kitchen, cooking or eating or just generally making a mess now his office is just a few steps away. I think he would actually die if I told him he had to miss one meal just once. Sounds awful but I actually had to tell him that the kitchen was closed between 8.30 (end of breakfast) and 12.30 (lunch time) today so that I could get in to tidy it all up in order to start to clean!

Added to which we didn't have our usual roast yesterday so no easy cold cuts with veg for dinner tonight (which usually makes things easier on home bleugh day). The only thing we seem to have in are sweet potatoes. So I need to start making a curry. Gah!

Hazel your garden plants are absolutely beautiful and the photos are very cheering! You obviously have a green finger!

Ta for links Lisette! Favourite holidays a difficult one because I suffered from awful travel sickness (still do to an extent) and our family holidays involved enormously long drives to Scotland, Northumberland, Ireland, and sometimes a ferry crossing too. ( I have puked beside most of the glens and lochs and munros of Scotland tbh!) So most memories are blighted by a blanket of nausea Envy and my mother being quite cross (probably fed up of my constant puking in the car).

I cannot be more delighted that dd takes after dh and is a travelling trooper! Smile

Anyway, I do remember some lovely times doing quite serious hill-walking, deer-tracking, horse-riding (on beautiful highland and fell ponies). I particularly enjoyed making very complicated sand castles (more of an encampment really) on deserted Northumbrian beaches .. really elaborate ones with sea shell decorated turrets .. connected with mini canals ... and waiting for the sea to come in and fill the moats ... . Loved that!

Also remember a glorious summer on Holkham beach in Norfolk where there are pine trees. Remember running around the trees with db pretending to be mini dehydrated horses that could fit in to a suitcase... and then when we ran in to the sea we "reconstituted" ourselves in to life-size animals ... .Grin One of those long, magical summer days as a child when you have complete freedom ... .

Missed Boris's statement yesterday but I think all the confusion and different strategies in various countries across Europe are testament to the fact that this virus is so new that no-one (not even the pointy heads) have enough info yet so govs are winging it really. And A-type personalities who tend to run countries (many of whom are white middle-aged men) aren't too good at standing in front of a camera and saying "We don't know what's for the best really".

I think this article about a 9 year old boy with symptoms who didn't transmit the virus despite attending three different ski schools is quite cheering.
Although, again, the fact that so much attention is being given to this one particular case makes me think that they know not a lot really ... .
Not until much more tracking and tracing info is collated anyway.

So that was a very rambling way of saying Fox's strategy of taking it a day at a time is a good one I think.

It's all a bit of a bummer isn't it really, to put it mildly ... .

Did you all see the Beeb programme fronted by a doctor who said that the NHS is still seeing the impact health-wise of the 2008 recession in patients today? So the question isn't really economy v health, it's health v health. Because if the economy fails, the impact on patient health and the health system will be devastating anyway, even without the virus adding to the death-rate.

Heigh ho. Sorry. That wasn't very cheery.

Had better go and sweet and mop kitchen floor and finish cleaning downstairs cloakroom. Don't think I am going to get upstairs bathroom done today either.

Then need to cook.

Tally-hooooo!

Be kind to yourselves everyone! [tea] Cake And take small steps ... small steps... in my case ... small, rather crumped shuffles ... .

Flowers Flowers Flowers Flowers Flowers Flowers Flowers

Lisette1940 · 11/05/2020 15:35

How keen is he on hand washing SC? 😏

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Lisette1940 · 11/05/2020 15:44

I'd say it probably can be repaired. Did it have an error code?

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Stilllivinginazoo · 11/05/2020 15:46

SC buy a new one.seriously.its essential purchase,so allowed esp in current status quo!

Meg I loved the Flumps..it's perfectly ok to be in a grump,at least you have good grace to keep out everyone's way rather snap at all and sundry!

Forgot what else planned to say and to whom

Tada
Girls room
Windows wiped
Surfaces polished
Swept floor

Bathroom
Tiling wiped
Bath and sink cleaned
Windows wiped
Radiator and bath skirt cleaned

Trip to heron foods for frozen veg.no queue at Waitrose next door so would ve been rude not to hop in and grab few bits

Wipe and put away
Littertray sorted
Bins out
Ab challenge done
Colour with D's

Take senco call from D's roll school
(She's stressed there's no clarity at all for secondary)
Lunch(pasta,veg,veggie sausage casserole)
Wash up
4loads wash done,3dry fold and put away,fourth in drier

More due go in shortly

ExpletiveDelighted · 11/05/2020 16:43

Stopping work for the day now. I'm going to pop up to the allotment but don't think I will be staying long, there's a cold wind.

SC - we panic bought a new WM at the start of lockdown, our old one might have been fixable but no chance of getting an engineer out, it was the bearings, not something we could do ourselves. Definitely worth googling any error codes though. I reckon the money I've saved on petrol since lockdown will have paid for ours soon.

Kitchen redecoration - it is a small kitchen diner, we just repainted the diner part so no major work, just filling in a few chips and screw holes and then painting. The kitchen was done just before we moved in 20 years ago and we have never repainted it, it had a lot of scuffs, marks and was generally grubby looking, also the skirting boards never had been painted. So now it is pristine white. I had hoped to do the whole kitchen this year but that seems unlikely now. The kitchen part still looks great as you walk in, but once you are up close you can see that the worktops and some of the doors are knackered, the lights need updating and the ceiling skimming where lights have been replaced previously.

I agree with one day at a time too, I had been managing that quite successfully till yesterday, but obviously the latest changes map out the next few months to some extent.

LaneBoy · 11/05/2020 17:01

Afternoon all. Much more productive day thankfully.

Need to dust off some board games (the Caglets brought them up for me but were only meant to put them on the floor. DS enjoyed arranging them on the shelves :o but I wanted to clean them first so I humoured him and will now remove, clean and replace!

Then I need to rescue the iPad from DD1 really, I am long overdue for rewriting my workout with the new stuff I added.

DD1 took a ridiculously long time over art due to getting distracted but at least we did some maths first thing which helped get the day off to a better start. She is painfully aware that she still needs to do English and isn’t getting out of it!

IcyWind · 11/05/2020 17:47

I’ve had a rubbish day today. I’m really struggling with the uncertainty of everything. So not much flying from me, we have gone out in the garden today for our ‘home ed’. The weather picked up a bit so we did some playing in the water (well DS1 did, DS2 didn’t want to) I’ve twisted my neck too which bloody hurts.

SC do you have a nearby laundrette? Or capacity to hand wash?. It might be cheaper for you to buy the WM rather than go to a laundrette in the long run though.

That sounds lovely ED, my kitchen is tiny, so I can’t do too much with it.

How is DD doing with her maths lane? Wasn’t she struggling earlier on in lockdown?.

If any one has any ideas on how to unpull a neck it would be very helpful I’m in agony.

Social distancing around the Maypole: Fledglings fly into Flylady thread May 2020.
Social distancing around the Maypole: Fledglings fly into Flylady thread May 2020.
Smartcasual · 11/05/2020 17:56

Thanks for the wm-buying encouragement everyone! It will give me a boost to present my case to dh with a bit more gusto than I otherwise would!

I've found a You Tube video addressing the specific problem though so I am going to give that a go tomorrow morning before making a decision. Gosh Expletive it certainly seems a long time since your wm went wrong at the beginning of lockdown! It seems ages ago now!

Btw I am sure visitors to your kitchen will be so distracted by pristine white paint, and delicious soda bread aromas, they won't notice any scruffiness! Smile

Glad the day going better Lane! Bravo to your DS for getting stuck in! (Even if you have to sort it out afterwards!)

Which reminds me, DD spontaneously tidied, hoovered and mopped her room last week and the one alongside. My ghasted was flabbered! Smile

Wow Zoo that's another great list! You certainly haven't relaxed your cleaning standards under lockdown! I don't know how you do it! StarStar

I haven't even managed to complete home bleugh today! Can't face doing any more except for bins and recycling - the collections are back to normal again from today - so will have to finish it tomorrow. Going to do some admin work now.

I don't know the Flumps but I was doing some ironing yesterday in front of the telly and discovered the Twirly Woos! Thought they were terrific! Grin

Catch you all in the morning!

Smartcasual · 11/05/2020 18:03

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Ouch Icy sorry to hear about your neck. Do you have a wheat bag or something similar you could heat up in the microwave and apply? There might be some suggestions on You Tube?

What fab photos! Your boys certainly look as though they enjoyed their day! Sorry to hear yours wasn't great though. Hope tomorrow is better for you!

Hope you and all the Fledglings can take a bit of time out for yourselves this evening; even if it's just 30 mins.

Tally-hoooo!

LaneBoy · 11/05/2020 18:19

Thanks icy yes maths is her nemesis. It’s going ok at the moment though, by doing a little bit at a time. Sorry you’ve had a bad day 💐

Sorry I’ve not caught up yet. About to have dinner then I’m hoping to continue sorting Cagletini’s books and organising my workout notes into two proper routines that I can alternate (with rest days after doing the two)

foxessocks · 11/05/2020 18:28

Evening all!

So the sum total of my to do list is work, bit of home schooling (dd did spellings, wrote a comic strip, spoke to her teacher on the phone and wrote a letter to her nanny), one load of washing, dishwasher put on and a very very quick tidy of the living room...I think Mondays definitely mean not a lot of flying, I was probably over ambitious this morning. Never mind.

Hope your washing machine gets sorted sc what rubbish timing. Agree with what you said re nobody knowing best way to proceed including those in charge and the health implications of economic crisis...my hope is that the more the scientists learn the more we will know how to proceed and we will feel more confident, this state of worry, confusion, not knowing will gradually get better. I already feel much more relaxed compared to the first days of lockdown. It's just that the big announcements like this stir it all up again don't they? So sorry to anyone feeling particularly anxious today I totally get it Flowers

Right I must tidy the dinner things and get the kids to bed. I can't answer any more or their questions today (not deep meaningful questions I might add just the usual kid stuff...mum where's and mum where can I put my bogey? You know the stuff!

Byee for now!

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