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ludaloo · 28/04/2007 07:04

Morning Ladies

shouldbe Happy Birthday to your DD, hope you all have a brilliant day (and well done you for all your hard work yesterday)

It is looking like it is going to be a beautiful day today Can get washing out and maybe mow the lawn.

Have a good weekend all

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Jelley · 29/04/2007 06:44

You all chat too much.

I've read it and there was loads I wanted to say, but I'll probably forget and keep coming back

rollon I got there first with the dodgy mouse - search Jasnem and mouse some time and you will see how long this has been going on. I bought a new one last year and had exactly the same problem! It isn't just me though, it does it for other people too.

londonmamma Hamsters- dd1 never touches it, dd2 does occasionally. I have to clean and feed it. Worth it if someone is giving away a cage, otherwise can be expensive. Also depends on age of children. DD1 squashed and killed a pet mose at 4

I'd love to have cats, but dp is allergic to them

Grouchy - good luck with the job

Sorry. Mind has gone blank. On to FLYing...

I shined my sink yesterday, and cleaned under the bathroom sink while ds was in the bath.

No idea what to do today

Jelley · 29/04/2007 06:44

You all chat too much.

I've read it and there was loads I wanted to say, but I'll probably forget and keep coming back

rollon I got there first with the dodgy mouse - search Jasnem and mouse some time and you will see how long this has been going on. I bought a new one last year and had exactly the same problem! It isn't just me though, it does it for other people too.

londonmamma Hamsters- dd1 never touches it, dd2 does occasionally. I have to clean and feed it. Worth it if someone is giving away a cage, otherwise can be expensive. Also depends on age of children. DD1 squashed and killed a pet mose at 4

I'd love to have cats, but dp is allergic to them

Grouchy - good luck with the job

Sorry. Mind has gone blank. On to FLYing...

I shined my sink yesterday, and cleaned under the bathroom sink while ds was in the bath.

No idea what to do today

ludaloo · 29/04/2007 07:38

Morning

I have three very tired children....
I decided to go to the Body Shop Party last night....I was out for 2 hours (approx)...went out at 7.30ish to get there for 8. Left all 3 kids crying DD1 started welling up as I told her I was going out, then DS cotton'd on and started wailing...then as I went out the door DD2 screamed her lungs out. I had tried in vain to get them all asleep before I went but no luck...
DH momentarily occupied them with some chocolate!! I legged it!!!
Arrived home at 10 ish....DH was wired! DD1 and DS were asleep (just) and DD2 had cried on and off for the whole time I was gone, and not slept!
.... It is probably only the second time I have left DD2 at bed time (last time I did it I had to stay in hospital with DS...DH resorted to putting my pyjamas on and cuddling her!! )
They will all have to start getting used to it though... I am tired of being the ONLY one who is able to get them all to sleep!

Anyhoo.....no list yet, I have to get DH up for work, and get a drink, so I'll see you in a bit xx

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Jelley · 29/04/2007 07:43

ludaloo. It makes a night out really hard.
I used to have to double lock the front door behind me with dd2 wailing on the other side, as she would open it and run down the road after me in her pjs. It is nice to be needed, but...

They are alot better now, and I've relaxed a bit more about the fact that dp totally disregards any routine I have established once I am out of the house. I usually come back to find them all in our bed/on the sofa, but it is a price I am willing to pay for a night out occasionally.

glitterfairy · 29/04/2007 08:24

Oh ludaloo how upsetting. jelley you too. When I first went back to work after being a SAHM for six years ds used to cling to my leg wailing as I walked down the path. None of mine like it when I go away still and moan if I have a night off but at least they are older and can be reasoned with!

SimplySparkling · 29/04/2007 08:26

Sorry to hear that your children got so upset last night luda. I hope they are back to their normal selves today and especially in time for school tomorrow. I smiled at the thought of your dh cross-dressing for part of an evening out of necessity.

Hi Jelley and everyone else!

I need to do lots today so I'd best get breakfasted and get cracking. It is only dd and I, plus pets, at home until this evening. My list:-
Still need to:-
~ sort out a few items to return tomorrow
~ ironing
~ more tidying up
~ put away ironed clothes
~ tick off some receipts
~ have a concert to go to in the evening. Apparently it is going out live so will be kept to time. Oops, just checked the time on the S4C tv pages. It finishes at 9.45pm. We could leave when the judges leave to consider their choice and get home in time to see the decision on tv, though! Still a very late night for dd. Hmmmm.

shouldbe · 29/04/2007 08:34

Good morning Very sorry not to have read yesterdays thread and caught up properly - thanks for all the Happy Birthdays to my dd Hope everyone had a good day

So, it's the morning after the day before! Dds party was brilliant she and all her little friends had a great time (as did us grown-ups) It was a lovely day - the weather was perfect and...I could start gushing..it was just a really good day

Dd went to bed very happy but also tearful cos the day had been so much fun. We're going to have another family day today to help extend the celebrations and prepare for my birthday this week We're thinking about a pub lunch

Luda at finding it so hard to go out - it's really difficult when the lo's are like that. My two are a little bit that way still but it has improved a lot in the past 9mths or so (not that we go out much anyway!) I hope you managed to have a fun time anyway Luda

ludaloo · 29/04/2007 08:45

jelley It is tough isn't it I then spend the entire time I'm away, fretting about what they are all doing, and making my excuses to leave early!
simply, they seem ok this morning...they are all madly drawing me pictures!! I suspect DD2 will have a long nap today.
GF I am looking forward to them all getting older!! I think DD1 and DS would have been fine, but because DD2 was so upset, and DH had to spend most of the time trying to occupy her, they got more upset.

It was nice though, I enjoyed just chatting, and having a glass of wine without a child climbing on me...or interrupting! I really can't see myself having any more...I am very ready to get on with things, and enjoy myself a bit more. There was one lady who had bought her baby, and as she was breast feeding, and I remember it so well! I had to take all mine pretty much everywhere I went, and it is difficult really, she kept having to feed him, settle him, take him away to calm him, rock him in his car seat, and by the time he had settled and gone to sleep she had missed the demonstration and talk the Lady had given.
Don't get me wrong I love them all to death, and couldn't imagine my life any other way, but I am looking forward to being able to do more things for myself

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ludaloo · 29/04/2007 08:48

ooooh shouldbe really pleased the day went well!!! Have a good day today too. We will have to have a virtual party to celebrate the FLY birthdays this comming week...mine is this week too! (and my DH's...but he doesn't FLY..at all!...so he can't come )

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shouldbe · 29/04/2007 08:52

Just been sent this and it made me It would be me if it wasn't for making a list on here every morning!

"Recently, I was diagnosed with A. A. A. D. D. - Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder.

This is how it manifests itself:
I decide to water my garden. As I turn on the hose in the driveway, I look
over at my car and decide it needs washing.
As I start toward the garage, I notice mail on the porch table that I brought up from the mail box earlier.
I decide to bring the mail inside and go through it before I wash the car.
I lay my car keys on the table, put the
junk mail in the garbage can and notice that the can is full.
So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the garbage first.
But then I think, since I'm going to be near the mailbox when I take out the
garbage anyway, I may as well pay the bills first.
I take my cheque book off the table and see that there is only one cheque left.
My extra cheques are in my desk in the study, so I go to my desk where I
find the can of Coke I'd been drinking.
I'm going to look for my cheques but first I need to push the Coke aside so
that I don't accidentally knock it over.
The Coke is getting warm and I decide to put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold.
As I head toward the kitchen with the Coke, a vase of flowers on the counter catches my eye-they need water.
I put the Coke on the counter and discover my reading glasses that I've been searching for all morning.
I decide I better put them back on my desk but first I'm going to water the flowers.
I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water and suddenly spot the TV remote.
Someone left it on the kitchen table. I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I'll be looking for the remote but I won't remember that it's on the kitchen table, so I decide to put it back in the den where it belongs but first I'll water the
flowers.
I pour some water in the flowers but quite a bit of it spills on the floor.
So, I set the remote back on the table, get some towels and wipe up the spill.
Then, I head down the hall trying to remember what I was planning to do.

At the end of the day:

  • The car isn't washed
  • The bills aren't paid
  • The garbage hasn't been taken out
  • There is a warm can of Coke sitting on the counter
  • The flowers don't have enough water
  • There is still only one cheque in my cheque book
  • I can't find the remote
  • I can't find my glasses
  • And I don't remember what I did with the car keys

Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I'm really baffled because I know I was busy all damn day and I'm really tired.
I realize this is a serious problem and I'll try to get some help for it but first I'll check my e-mail.
Do me a favour. Forward this message to everyone you know, because I
don't remember who the hell I've sent it to.

Don't laugh- if this isn't you yet, your day is coming!"

ludaloo · 29/04/2007 08:55

OMG!!!! That is SOOOOOO Me!!! LOL!!
I am forever doing something, then getting side tracked!!! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!

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shouldbe · 29/04/2007 08:57

Me too - rather worrying....

Lol!

ludaloo · 29/04/2007 09:30

Right, I am off to do something now! I burned my finger last night on the steam off a bowl of beans! It has all bubbled up! (Nice!)It is driving me potty.

I will make a brief list so I can stay focussed!

~Do D/W
~Put a load on
~Do Beds (didn't do it on friday)
~Make chocolate cake (didn't do it yesterday)
~Mow the front lawn (only did back lawn yesterday....as I'm a wimp!)
~Go to shop to buy some coke (you see...I'm just like the person in your email shouldbe ), and stickers for the kids sticker books (and some chocolate for me )

See you all in a bit xxxxx

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ludaloo · 29/04/2007 09:39

ooohh.....living room next week...thats good as I want to tackle the dust in here...and move some furniture about...

I really am going now!...

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BabiesEverywhere · 29/04/2007 10:31

It worked !!!

DD went to bed in her own room for the first time last night at 7pm. I fed her again at 10pm and then she slept thought until 7:30am

Plus she chatted to her book and piggie for 30 minutes before she shouted to get out of her cot...so she got up at 8am

I really hope this is a regular occurance but it was a welcome break either way

ludaloo · 29/04/2007 10:56

Oh BE lets hope she carries on so well!!!
I'm not having as much luck with my DD2...she moved into her sisters room and her own bed a couple of weeks ago...she wakes at least twice a night.

Anyway...

~Do D/W done
~Put a load on done
~Do Beds (didn't do it on friday)
~Make chocolate cake (didn't do it yesterday) its on the rack cooling
~Mow the front lawn (only did back lawn yesterday....as I'm a wimp!)
~Go to shop to buy some coke (you see...I'm just like the person in your email shouldbe ), and stickers for the kids sticker books (and some chocolate for me )done

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BabiesEverywhere · 29/04/2007 11:37

Thanks ludaloo, I am not convinced that we'll have another easy night but I'm happy to have had a good nights sleep last night.

Hope your DD2 starts sleeping better soon too.

ludaloo · 29/04/2007 12:02

I hope so too

Do you find yourself waking up and wondering why they haven't woken up yet?? I do it! It takes me ages to get back into sleeping a whole night when they do!

OK...

~Do D/W done
~Put a load on done
~Do Beds (didn't do it on friday) done
~Make chocolate cake (didn't do it yesterday) done
~Mow the front lawn (only did back lawn yesterday....as I'm a wimp!)
~Go to shop to buy some coke (you see...I'm just like the person in your email shouldbe ), and stickers for the kids sticker books (and some chocolate for me )done

Right, just the lawn left to do... DD2 is fast asleep (I knew she would crash out today! She has been asleep for nearly an hour now)Will do it as soon as she wakes up.

The other two are looking a bit tired too, but I think they are just bored. They can come and help me in a mo!

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grouchyoscar · 29/04/2007 12:47

Hello ALL

Can I seek your opinion please?

My bf has booked a pre wedding hair and make-up test, it was planned at least 6 weeks ago and I booked MIL to cover childcare for DS

MIL called today to say as FIL has bowling matches all week she will have to collect my neice from school so I have to collect DS by 2pm so she can go. Shbe says she can't take DS with her.

I'm really annoyed as I sorted the childcare out weeks ago and I can't start calling the shots on a pre planned day. I have offered to pay for a cab to and from the school. I don't feel the onus should be on me change plans at 48 hrs notice and I have offerred a solution if I am unable to collect DS early. What do you think, am I justified in my feelings?

Anyhoo. I got my form written rather neatly yesterday afternoon so I'll post it tomorrow. I did my FLYing too. This morning I have

Stripped DS's bed
Emptied WM
Pegged out wet washing
Lload and run WM
Arranged for some bulky rubbish to be sent to the tip.
Tidied front garden with DS (we'll with a stiff brush and some secateurs actually)
Swept and mopped behing the sofa
Vacced under sofa cushions
Up for a lie down

To do

Put dry laundry away
Make bed and tidy bedroom
Do ironing
Make DS's bed and tidy his bedroom

Had a rough night. DS's bedtime blanket went AWOL last night, we managed to get him down without it but I was worried about blanket and was searching the gardens at 3am with a torch! DS woke at 8 and asked for blanket and I had to soothe him and retrace yesterday evening's activities. DH then pops out of the house having found blanket in the onion basket

I'm very tired now.

Rest then afternoon FLYing

Have sunny days ladies

mummy2ashton · 29/04/2007 12:49

hi i am illllllll!!!!!!
i have a cold (or deadly tropical flu, depending on what gender you are) and i feel really lousy. [deathbed emoticon here]

house has become untidy and shambolic like over the past couple of days.

i am working myself up to setting my timer for 15 minutes and quickly blitzing the livingroom.

will post all pleased with myself when i finally manage it. would like to wait for the ibruprofen to kick in first

SimplySparkling · 29/04/2007 13:42

Hi go. Just a quick post so excuse me if I get this wrong. If your MIL has gone back on her word to have your ds for the times she previously agreed and won't agree to your solution that that's a shame but you'll have to accept it, I'm afraid. You could ask dh to speak to her and she might take more notice of him. If she has a real concern i.e. she doesn't feel that she is capable of looking after ds whilst fetching your niece from school then she might be right in that perhaps it is too much for her. It still leaves you stuck, though and at very short notice. Could a friend collect your ds from MIL's house and keep him for you? I do understand your annoyance and frustration. I very rarely asked anyone to look after either of mine but on a couple of occasions when I did, things went on that I wasn't happy with, so I can understand the difficulty of combining family and childcare. Sorry if that's no use at all. Good luck with the rearrangements and I hope your friend enjoys the hair and make up session.

Jelley · 29/04/2007 14:13

Have to admit I thought bf was boyfriend, and it was your wedding grouchy. Now realise it is your friend's wedding. Yes youare totally justified to feel the way you do. I hope you manage to sort out something that works and doesn't affect your make up day.

shouldbe I love the email. It pretty much sums up my life when I'm not FLYing and writing lists.

I've cleaned the fish tank today
Now planning on starting work on the dds room again.

Sitting room next week...? I think it is only one day, then dining room the rest of the week.

Jelley · 29/04/2007 14:13

Have to admit I thought bf was boyfriend, and it was your wedding grouchy. Now realise it is your friend's wedding. Yes youare totally justified to feel the way you do. I hope you manage to sort out something that works and doesn't affect your make up day.

shouldbe I love the email. It pretty much sums up my life when I'm not FLYing and writing lists.

I've cleaned the fish tank today
Now planning on starting work on the dds room again.

Sitting room next week...? I think it is only one day, then dining room the rest of the week.

Aufish · 29/04/2007 14:16

Good afternoon girls, been a busy day for me today, here is my done list:

Hoovered up
Packed DD's suitcase for tomorrow
washed up and dried up
W/M loaded and unloaded
Towels in the tumble dryer
Been to town and the park with the kids, needed to pick up some more suncream and extra bits and pieces for DD's trip.

Now having a well deserved rest and cuppa.

My still to do list is this:

shower and feed the kids
polish school shoes
iron the school clothes
get dp up later.

Oh thinking about dp, thanks to the person with the info about the car battery, it is now fully charged, he just needs to get it back into the car and off my dining room chair!

Londonmamma · 29/04/2007 15:58

Hello Everyone - first visit to MN today. Had a really nice, very late night, then had to help at a school event this morning feeling hungover! Went back to bed this aftrnoon! Luckily DH has taken the kids out so can now do a bit of Flying.

Shouldbe - delighted to hear the party was a success. Petlovers - you haven't convinced me! Cats and dogs are a no no due to DH's allergy... I'm sure we'll do the hamster thing one day...!

My jobs now:

  1. kitchen 2)hang laundry 3)put dry laundry away 4) general tidy up