[The fiascos are all mine btw 
!!]
And just for Just, February is the new January that was the new January before 
If you are struggling with C.H.A.O.S. (can't have anyone over syndrome) and S.T.U.F.F. (something that undermines family fun) then this is the thread where we (loosely) follow the step-by-step Flylady housekeeping system (in our own, unique, relaxed style) with lots of chat, support and wine and cake along the way.
This little-and-often system is designed so that you can follow a series of steps and routines each day (which gradually become second nature) in zones of the house which are designated weekly; defining and minimising housework, which in theory should leave you with loads more time to do something more interesting instead!
At the same time it is intended to reduce that panicky "rabbit in headlights" feeling when you are overwhelmed and everything needs doing all at once. No problem if you miss a day or two; just jump right back in and it will all come around next month again!
It’s up to you, but we advise not signing up to receive the Flylady e-mails as you will be inundated! All the information you need will be linked here on a daily basis.
From the first of the month, we will be following Flylady's steps and routines using a three-pronged approach (dependent on the stage everyone is at):
- start or repeat baby steps
- repeat baby steps + do 15 mins a day decluttering in the current zone
- reinforce babysteps and do daily missions if you have finished decluttering.
[And if you are really enthusiastic and have finished decluttering - you can go on to detailed deep cleaning in each zone.]
More info here on getting started and Flying lessons. Here's the launch pad for more experienced fledglings. Don't be put off by the barf-tastic language of the site - the underlying system is sound!
Points to keep in mind:
(1)No perfectionism allowed - this is harder than you would imagine
(2)You are never behind just start where you are and anything you do is progress.
(3) It didn't get into a mess overnight, it won't get tidy over night - accept it will take time to get on top of things and you will be happier.
Humungous thanks to Bitchy
for steering us through the hectic January thread and for the wise three-line mantra above.All regulars, lurkers and newcomers welcome!!
. What a dreadful time you and DH are having. I hope the hospital are giving you morphine for the pain - DH said it was the best stuff ever and the only thing that helped him when he had appendicitis.
that's cleaner envy. 
Glad the tablets are working.
- must be awful - but you "sound" a bit better than last night ifyswim - which is good. Think it always comes as a bit of a shock when one's body lets one down but hope docs can sort everything out soon. Take it steady though xxxx [Wise words from Bitchy there]
(I didn't know such lovely freebies existed), with dd as she had hurt her back 
