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If your house is calling May Day, do not fear: May's Fledgling Flyers are here

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LinzerTorte · 30/04/2011 07:23

Welcome to the May edition of the Fledgling Flyers' thread. Thank you to Nettie for her splendid leadership of last month's thread.

If you're living in CHAOS (Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome), this is the thread for you! We follow the tips on the FlyLady website in an attempt to restore order to our homes, but advise against signing up for the e-mails; all the information you need is on this thread.

Each day, I'll be posting the links that will enable you to do any of the following:

  • start or repeat baby steps


  • repeat babysteps and do 15 mins a day decluttering in the current zone


or

  • reinforce babysteps and do daily missions if you have finished decluttering.


More information about the babysteps is here.

So please join us - there's always plenty of chat, tea, cake, encouragement and the occasional Wine to help us on our way!
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LinzerTorte · 02/05/2011 05:00

Your poor DS Toffee - and poor you; I hope you managed to get some sleep in the end.

Makingchanges Love the way your DH softens you up with pizza; mine just says, "Oh by the way, I'll be going to ... next week".

Lady Glad you've found us - I did link to this thread towards the end of last month's.

swan Glad to hear you enjoyed your trip; I love York. And any holiday on which you can manage to read books has to be good. Grin

Nettie When are you off to Blackpool? I always wanted to go and see the lights when I was little, but have never been.

DWM Well done on finishing Day 1; I hope you got your sink shone in the end too.

Hope everyone enjoys the bank holiday today. The May bank holiday was yesterday here, which was absolutely pointless as all the shops are closed on a Sunday anyway (which is why we have to go to Slovakia if we want to go shopping). Will be back with a list after the school run.

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CheerfulYank · 02/05/2011 05:23

Shone sink
Did roast dinner and made stock with the remains
Washed and replaced sheets and pillowcases
Tidied, wiped, and swept kitchen
In the middle of lots of laundry :)

Night!

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LinzerTorte · 02/05/2011 07:10

Right, list for this morning:

Morning routine
Change sheets in WM
Empty bins
Mission
15 min decluttering
Plan English lesson
Finish letter
Write and send belated birthday card
Make chicken balti

Must make a start on it before I get sucked into MN.

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NettieSpaghetti · 02/05/2011 07:45

good morning everyone.

swan glad you had a fab time. reading two novels sound divinely relaxing. Lol at ds leaving the flood for the boat,i had not seen the irony there.
toffee so sorry ds is having a hard time of it chicken pox. i used calamine cream which helped quite a bit and piriton was good for relieving the itch.
linzer thanks for round up Grin im off to blackpool with 8 other (use the term loosly) girls on Thursday. Im so excited Grin

Humungous waves to everyone ive missed.

My list

Get dressed to shoes (ver bad habit and i wish i never)
Tidy up toys (5 day on list)
Dw
WM
S/s
Bed changing
pack my stuff for scotland
remove place mats from table cloth Blush stuck fast.
Go shopping and buy some new make up for going away. Any make up experts out there no any miracle easy to put on stuff, advise would be gratefully accepted. As long as its not tattoo make up. I'm not good with painGrin
Mop kitchen floor if time.
ds to swim lesson(pack swim bag)
pack day bags for tomorrow.

Hope you alk have a fab day.Grin

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NettieSpaghetti · 02/05/2011 08:50

Oh dear my typing gets worse and worse. It was dh who went down the boat. As for all the other typos sorry Blush

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swanriver · 02/05/2011 09:01

I woke up thinking I was by the seaside, the wind was howling so much.
Dh is making a cooked breakfast.

Toffee only I more day of hell to go, the first days are the worst. So sorry about your Bank Holiday Sad

MC I must admit I went around wondering if anyone was someone I had chanced upon on Flylady (not of course having many photographic clues) There was once a Flylady Meetup in Railway Museum (I think that was before you joined) which went awry because no-one in those days had i-phones, though I think Grouchy met successfully up with Wolfcub and Wendy.

Osama Bin Laden News this morning.

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swanriver · 02/05/2011 09:03

oh don't know why bold, sorry Blush

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droitwichmummy · 02/05/2011 09:37

Good morning all - lovely sunny morning again but really windy too!

Day 1 completed including shining my sink - I had forgotten how satisfying that wasGrin
Won't be dressing to lace up shoes but might put some slip on ones on later to get the dustbin in - does that count?
Not going to do the flylady mission today as I have one of my own and we don't have a porch anyway. I have a new light to put up in the hall that DH won't do as it involves fiddling with the electrics and that scares him. and I have been prevaricating about because I will have to drill 3 holes! He is at work so I will do it today.

My list
play hide and seek with DS and his bears
get dressed
empty DW
change beds
WM on
empty WM and hang out x 2 (or 3)
30 mins ironing
put the hall light up
quick tidy of pantry ready for Tesco mega delivery this afternoon
put away mega tesco delivery
15 mins declutter in hall - do shoes breed?
remember DS has football at 6
shine sink
bed on time! - I've got really bad at this but am back in the office tomorrow for first time in 2 weeks so have to get up at a decent hour

See you later everyobe

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droitwichmummy · 02/05/2011 09:38

should have been everyone!

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LadyInPink · 02/05/2011 09:57

Toffee i found the aqueous and calamine cream worked best for us as it washes off real easy - I found the normal calamine cream dried on hard (DD has eczema) Really hope he is over the worst soon.

Linzer sorry, i probably missed your link as was so crap last month - oops!

Washing on and on last spin so will hang out in a mo
Ironing folded and put away

Everything else needs doing including taking DD to a park so she can have a good run around and get tired so an early night can take place in prep for school tomorrow. Need to do her reading book too.

Hope you all enjoy your last day off Smile (those who have it off of course)

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Toffeefudgecake · 02/05/2011 12:14

DH decided not to go to work today, so he let me sleep in till 10.30 Smile, so I'm feeling OK now. I didn't get to bed till 3.30am (shortly before you got up, Linzer!).

Have just given DS another soothing bicarb' bath. He has a temperature, so I've given him Calpol as well. A friend is bringing over some Calomine lotion (thanks for the tip, Nettie) and Piriton this afternoon (do I mix the lotion with aqueous cream, Lady?).

Thanks, Swan - we just have to get through these first few days, don't we? Then it will just be unsightly spots for a while.

Not much flying going on here today. Maybe a quick tidy up before friend comes round Hmm.

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NettieSpaghetti · 02/05/2011 12:23

Ooo a flylady meet up in railway museum sounds fab (geek train spotter alert)

toffee hope ds feels better soon, glad you got a bit of rest
dwm oo you go with your drill ! I'm always a bit wary of drills! Good luck.

At a cafe in sainsburys dd had a meltdown at the checkout shouting that she didn't want to do the checkout! I had a meltdown cos she was having a meltdown.

We are ok now we are eating. Home to pack in a mo.

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PositiveAttitude · 02/05/2011 12:49

Sorry to hear about the chickenpox Toffee, hope DS improves with the Piriton.
Nettie - Oh dear about the meltdowns. Hope it did you good, have a Brew (bit early for a Wine )

CheerfulYank - Hi, I do believe we are on another thread together. Wink
MakingChanges I "recognise" you, too. Smile

Waves to everyone.

Well, today, if I posted a list you would all be thinking you had Deja vu, apart from going to church Wink, so I will skip that and try and pop back later to let you know what I have actually achieved (if I dont return it could be a big fat zero! Blush )

Back to routine tomorrow, so maybe will be a bit better organised then....... always tomorrow........

DH has just organised a trip to the cinema for him and all the DC (DD2 is working), I cant stand the cinema, so I think I might go for a nice long walk by myself.

HAve a great May day everyone. Smile

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Makingchanges · 02/05/2011 13:24

Afternoon all, I came on here to post over an hour ago but go way-laid. FIL has just bought a new phone and came over here to get me to help him use it (apparently I'm a phone geek, despite never using a phone of this make before) he is in his 60s and bought a touch screen. Over an hour later I'm glad to say it ran out ofbattery before I ran out of patience with him. I am annoyed as he had DD yesterday cos he knew I have so much work to do. Hmm

So far today I have been to staples for filing essentials Wink (My name is MC and I am a stationery-holic) and emptied and sorted and refilled the large cupboard at the bottom of stairs for the man to get to my broken boiler - now all fixed and lots of junk thrown out.

Now FIL has gone I am back to my planning. Rest of list.

  • Lesson planning for one week
  • Shop for cleaning products and ant powder
  • parcel up 3 parcels for post office tomorrow
  • another 15 minutes in bathroom
  • another 15 minutes in bedroom
  • Sort school placement file out for Wednesday meeting


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WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 02/05/2011 14:24

Just popping in to say hello, we have had a fab, if windy, weekend camping down near Southampton, have mostly unpacked but still got a bit to do, also need to get ready for a busy week of school and work, I am having a day off work tomorrow in lieu of the bank holidays but have agreed to accompany DD's class on a school trip, so won't get much done at home.

WIll try and pop back later. Big thanks to Nettie for last month and to Linzer for taking over, and good to see PA and DWM* back again (DWM I was Mrs Dinky)

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droitwichmummy · 02/05/2011 14:46

Thanks whoknows! All I need to work out now is whether DEM is still around and if so who she is nowGrin

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LadyInPink · 02/05/2011 15:16

Toffee no it comes already mixed in a small tub from the chemist but if you have some aqeuous cream in your cupboard anyway and have a friend bringing you calomine lotion then i would try mixing it to save the scrubbing off afterwards in the bath - got to keep those spots intact to prevent scarring. Good luck and hope he's comfier soon x

Hung my washing out on the line despite it being a cloudy day and the wind has completely dried it and i have ironed it and hung it on the airers to...well air Smile
Sinks shined
Oven and hob cleaned (it's a range so a bit of a monster to clean so hate doing it)
Reading book with DD done
Dh has taken DD to park while i mn work

Got to take DD to drama at 4.15pm and pick her up 5.30pm
Prepare dinner (decide what to cook first)
Get school stuff ready for tomorrow and that's all i've set myself to do today.

See you all later Smile

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WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 02/05/2011 15:18

DWM - she is here, but incognito, you'll have to try and work it out, she hasn't posted yet this thread I don't think.

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swanriver · 02/05/2011 16:06

oh dear, nothing done today (like PA although I don't ever believe her when she says that Wink bet she's done 15 rounds of sandwiches without even noticing)
feeling a bit ill, tottering around.

done
moved some garden pots
felt very depressed about clothes everywhere and other general post and pre holiday muddle, but can't face tackling it without serious opiates, and then I think I might trip over someone Grin
sat in wind and sunshine absorbing vitamin D
took dd to friend's house, talked to my friend and escaped from house (twice)
avoided boys/men, although did chance upon friend's husband making a chicken coop Envy
Dh has mown lawn [yay Grin bonus points to him

supervised dd's homework report on York's Vikings
escaped so that dh would supervise ds2's
took one look at ds1's homework (a piece of persuasive writing about why SATs should be banned) and felt like giving up & going to bed...

so I have...

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swanriver · 02/05/2011 16:10

oh good, ds1 is actually doing some violin practice now, in his football kit Grin

WhoKnows any suggestions for a campsite gratefully received.

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myhouseWILLbecleanthisyear · 02/05/2011 16:27

Hello everyone.

Todays list has nearly all been completed. Didnt meet my friend Sad but there wasnt a fully fledged plan so its not a big deal.

  1. kids bedding - done
  2. ironing todays load - done
  3. possibly meeting friend

    I have also

  4. loaded washing machine for tomorrow - done
  5. Got the school uniforms ready for tomorrow. - done

    swan Im glad you like York, we do aim to please you tourists Wink
    toffee hope your DS gets better soon.
    nettie I am slightly Envy at your blackpool trip. A girly trip away, sounds great. Have fun

    Right now Im about to put some clothes into a charity bag that came through our door this morning. A month ago I decided that I was going to use them when I got them and have nothing since. Been waiting a month. Just dont know whose old clothes to fill it with as all our wardrobes, drawers and cupboards are just bursting with clothes.

    I'll be back later.
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bobbinogs · 02/05/2011 18:30

Ok sink done again and I did get dressed this morning (don't often get congratulated for that!) Can't be doing with the shoes thing but am aiming for a babystep and 15 mins decluttering a day for now, might have decluttered by the end of the month if I keep it up and manage a few trips to the tip.....

didn't knpw anything about flylady until yesterday, just stumbled upon this thread whilst browsing but had a blinding flash of realisation,,,,yes that's what I need.....a slightly patronising, slightly loopy lady who knows exactly how incompetent and overwhelmed I am to boss me around a bit and tell me what to do....simples....have you ladies all been following for a while ? has it helped you or do you all just have very shiny sinks ?

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BlueEyeshadow · 02/05/2011 19:19

Well, DS1 is back, had a whale of a time but seemed pleased to see us again! :) DS2 seems pleased to have him back as well. That makes it sound as if we aren't... Wink

Had to tidy the dining room to give them lunch so did some flying after all. Also washed the car windscreen as it was driving me nuts.

Tonight I need to:
Shake mat and wipe front door
Check book bag
Get charity shop stuff together and under the buggy
Fill snack box
Wash nappies
Pack up parcel and under buggy

Tomorrow:
Hang nappies out before nursery run
Post office
Market for spices and suchlike
Toddlers
Work
Dinner
Back up PC

Nettie - Sainsbury's café seems the place for meltdowns! We had one of those a couple of weeks back!
Glad you had a good time Swan and whoKnows- DH has family in York, we really must get up there this summer.
Sorry to hear about the chicken pox toffee - Get well soon to your DS and hugs to you.
Grr to FIL MakingChanges!
Where are you in Greece Imnobody? Just nosy - we'd love another Greek holiday but won't be for a while yet I don't suppose.

Waves to PA, Lady, DWM, cheerful, Linzer, myhouse and anyone I've missed.
Hi to LiveLong, bobbinogs and twinsufficient.
My sink is brown too, cinders and I hate it!

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scattyspice · 02/05/2011 19:57

Hi all. Had a busy couple of days catching up after holiday. DD had a friend to play today, I heard her whisper to DD that she is in love with Ds Shock. DD looked bemused!

Hi grouchy

swan, grouchy did you see Sat Guardian? Was that teamonster (aka muminthemadhouse)? She was writing about feeding her family for £50 pw Shock. Mind if anyone can she can I reckon.

Very Sad about going back to work tomorrow. Still only 4 wks til 1/2 term Shock.

Huge sympathy for whoever works in Greece 7days/week (sorry can't remember who) that sounds gruelling!!

BB tomorrow.

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LinzerTorte · 02/05/2011 20:23

Had a lovely afternoon at the playground, but we weren't back home until tea time - and the DDs still had homework to do (I'd hoped they would get it done at their piano lesson, as they each have time to do homework while the other has her lesson, but no) and I still had three beds to make. In the end, their bedtime was about an hour later than I'd have liked (and DH, who is rarely back particularly early, was helpfully home two hours later than normal). Am feeling rather frustrated by how little is left of the evening when the DC go to bed late; I've tidied up, had something to eat and now feel ready for bed!

So what have the other fledglings been up to today?

CheerfulYank took a break from the laundry to go to bed (I know how she feels).

Nettie was packing for Scotland and looking for make-up for her trip to Blackpool. As I?m also on the lookout for miracle make-up, I can only suggest a Kiss Me Quick hat worn at a jaunty angle will distract from a multitude of flaws and wrinkles (in my case, I hasten to add; I?m sure you have no flaws, Nettie Smile).

swan regaled up with a tale of a MN meet-up that went wrong thanks to a lack of iPhones. This, I feel, is a further reason why I need an iPhone ? I?m sure iPhones are indispensable for MN meet-ups in any city. She also avoided men and absorbed some Vitamin D before taking to her bed.

DWM found shining her sink to be a highly satisfying experience and rebelliously decided to do her own mission.

Lady was planning a trip to the park in the hope that it would tire out her DD.

Toffee had a well-deserved lie-in before resuming her care of a poorly DS. (When the DC had chickenpox, the chemist gave us calamine lotion combined with something else that is supposed to be more effective than calamine lotion on its own ? sorry, I know that?s not much help! It may be the same as the lotion that Lady mentioned.)

PA avoided posting a list and was also avoiding the cinema, and promised to return after a long walk.

Makingchanges kindly helped her FIL with his new phone before indulging in her passion for stationery. (My ILs also seem to regard me as some kind of phone guru, despite the fact that they have two teenage grandchildren living in the same house who are bound to be more technically minded than me ? but no, they always wait for us to visit if anything needs doing to their phone.)

WhoKnows is back from her camping weekend and getting ready for a busy week.

myhouse was celebrating the arrival of a charity bag that she had been avidly awaiting for a month.

bobbinogs has been wondering about her fellow FlyLady followers in terms of their devotion to the fat fairy. Well, I?ve been on this thread for just over a year now; I?d had two previous attempts at Flying but neither had lasted longer than a couple of months as I just wasn?t motivated enough to do it on my own. This thread has been great, though; everyone is very friendly, encouraging and supportive and I?m sure I would have given up on Flying yet again if it hadn?t been for the thread. As for the state of the house ? well, Flying has definitely made a difference (to my attitude as much as anything, as I no longer feel as overwhelmed as I used to) and I feel like I?m finally starting to get somewhere.

Blue has had a happy reunion with her DS and can once again see clearly through her car windscreen. (My parents were so Shock at the state of my car when they came to visit that my dad gave it a thorough wash, declaring that it wasn?t safe to drive if you couldn?t see through the windscreen properly!)

scatty has been witness to the innocent joys of young love and is not looking forward to going back to work (I'm glad that Easter was late this year, as it's straight through until the summer holidays for us now).

And Linzer has been wishing she could write concise and witty round-ups and has decided she needs more practice. Grin

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