Oh, Pushme, I remember the sickness coming back too. It will all be worth it in the end, but it's horrible when you're going through it. I tried nausea bands and ate ginger biscuits. Can't swear that they helped, but it made me feel more in control.
Chairmum - welcome back to you and your lovely chubby baby! Please can I have a virtual cuddle? . I found it practically impossible to keep up with the housework when I had my babies, but then I hadn't found Flylady then...
Linzer - I never get thirsty either, apart from for that cold yellowy liquid DH pours me at around 6pm 
. I'm always telling my DC to drink, but am not setting a very good example myself.
Nettie - sorry for the panic. Glad to hear that proper Flying had a good effect and that I'm not struggling with this in vain.
Ogre - you never forget favourite uncles. People who are nice to you when you are children are always special. Are you able to go to his funeral? If he has a partner still living, or children, could you write to them to tell them some of your happy memories? I think it really comforts people to hear memories like that.
Still - will check out the bikini story later. Does Flylady honestly tell us to wear tan tights? I shall have to search on it. (Needless to say, I shall not be doing that!).
OM - are you going to join Feet and me in our challenge then? 
Systems - don't despair! It's all small incremental changes with Flylady and you start afresh each day. I fell asleep with DS1 the night before the boys went back to school because i was so tired. Woke up at 3am 
. Nothing was prepared for school - lunchboxes lost, clothes in various wardrobes, socks hidden. I had to creep round the house trying to find everything without waking everyone up.
Swan - I'm so sorry you have been feeling so low about your house. I know the feeling. It is so frustrating to not have enough money or time to improve things. Small changes sometimes make all the difference though. And getting away from the house helps too!
Feet - You are off to a great start! I must check the babysteps too. I think I do all the things I want to do automatically, but there might be things I've forgotten. Well done on your morning routine!
My list looks like this so far:
Get dressed done
Swish and swipe done
Empty d/w done
Put washing on done
Breakfast for the boys done
Eat something good for me, take vits, drink water (often forget my own b/f so it would be good to do this for a change) done
School run done, but late 
Errands - bank, library, PO, chemist done
15-mins declutter in our bedroom (kitchen doesn't need it)
2 mins on hotspots done - longer than 2mins needed though
Tumbledrier on done
School run
Dinner: chicken casserole
D/w on
Put dry washing away done
Boys' bedtime routine
Lay out clothes
Empty lunchboxes; freeze water bottles; put some stuff (eg fruitbars) in lunchboxes
Check book bags; sign any forms
Tidy sitting room
Shine sink
Wash face, moisturise, brush teeth
Go to bed at decent hour
The above list doesn't include stuff like ongoing washing up, putting plates away, making MIL's lunch and so on. Tidying up the hotspots definitely helps the look of the place (did the kitchen and the very messy dining-room table). And I'm relieved that I've done the washing and put it away. I'm not going to attempt another load though.
It all takes time though and I can only keep up with it all because I don't have any work at the moment. Still don't see how you get it all done if you're working full time ( Ellie and others who are working out of the house - I don't know how you do it).