piscesmoon said,
"This is what I think! I don't think it happens very often."
True autonomous education is probably quite rare. Two of my children have tried school, one for a term and one for half a term and I would have been happy for them to try it again at any point if they had wanted too.
piscesmoon said,
"I was a 4yr old who couldn't wait to go to school, but I get the distinct impression (actually stated on these threads several times) that at least 8 out of 10 posters would override this, in that they know what is best for their DC, and a 5 yr old doesn't."
Well that attitude is 'normal' isn't it? Most people who send their children take this approach to parenting. This attitude isn't really a reason for denying parents the choice to home educate their children if they feel it is the only way they can ensure they receive a suitable education (as the law requires of parents). It just happens that the autonomous approach is the most at risk from this review.
piscesmoon said,
"I wonder how many years some DCs have to state it before the parent lets them go? -even if it is only a couple, they have missed years that they can't get back."
The same applies to school children, just look at the number of truants who feel that they are missing years of their life because of school, but we don't give them the choice to be home educated. A friend of my daughter's didn't learn to read until he was 12 and he learnt from computer games, quite a common occurrence for home educators. However, this was a school child who feels that school had taken 12 years of his life. During this 12 years he was set work that he couldn't read and sat frequent tests and SATS that, of course, he failed (even when he could read he lacked knowledge from previous years so never caught up). He also truanted and lived under the constant threat of being taken back to school and/or his mother being sent to prison. Looking at the number of children who leave school functionally illiterate this situation isn't that uncommon. Whilst neither situation is 'right', I know which I would have preferred (assuming that neither home was what is commonly considered abusive or neglectful).