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Jennylee has verbal consent to Home Ed and written consent is in the post!

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Jennylee · 16/01/2007 18:44

With help from the Scottish Home education organisation SchoolHouse. Their help got me consent within 2 weeks.

www.schoolhouse.org.uk/about_he.html

thank you to schoolhouse and thank you to mumsnet and the Home Edders on Mumsnet without whom I would not have heard of home Education or that it is legal. My son is happy and learning.

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Saturn74 · 16/01/2007 18:47

Fantastic news Jennylee!
So pleased that your son is happy.
Enjoy HE!

Fillyjonk · 16/01/2007 18:52

congratulations jenny

pob lwc i chi

redshoes · 16/01/2007 21:01

Jennylee, that's great. Fillyjonk, you wha'???

redshoes · 16/01/2007 21:01

Oh is it welsh

KateF · 16/01/2007 21:12

Great news Jenny! Hope things continue to go well for you and your ds.

sorkycake · 16/01/2007 21:57

Wonderful news!

Fillyjonk · 18/01/2007 07:56

lol jenny

its secret HE'rspeak

you'll be fluent in a week or two...

yellowrose · 18/01/2007 08:51

hi sorry to hijack jennylee - but is there an equivalnet website for england ? i would be very interesting in finding out more. i live in cambridge.

Fillyjonk · 18/01/2007 10:40

would it not be the EO site, yr?

google education otherwise

can't link-bf-apologies

or-what else were you after?

yellowrose · 18/01/2007 13:24

sorry to seem thick - what is EO ? i am just beginning to look into home ed. (for a friend and myself) - if i google home ed will all the necessary stuff come up for england ? i just thought i might miss the official sites if i google ?

Fillyjonk · 18/01/2007 13:53

you want eo

google "education otherwise"

you cannot go wrong

ore can someone please link?

Jennylee · 18/01/2007 14:36

It is in the post lol but not here yet, but has been done but last night he still had not signed i,t he of the council. have verbal consent in any case

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juuule · 18/01/2007 14:37

Here you go - Education Otherwise

yellowrose · 18/01/2007 14:40

thanks very much - i better get myself educated about this first !

Jennylee · 18/01/2007 18:43

yellowrose will be easier for you if you are in england, you do not have to ask for consent you just need to tell them you are doing it and give them an outline of provision

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yellowrose · 18/01/2007 18:54

thanks jenny - so why is it harder in scotland ? different legislation ?

Jennylee · 18/01/2007 23:50

Yes, it is okay if your child has never been at school or if you move to a new region where the child has not been enrolled at school, or between primary and secondary school, but if as my ds had you have been going to school, you have to have written consent to withdraw, and submit a provision of education , and then they ask for evidence of the education in the form of work or a report from you once a year. thats the difference , in england you are not asking for consent you are telling them what you are doing, here under certain circumstances consent could be refused, although they are not allowed to withhold consent 'unreasonably'.

this does not stop local councils lying and saying things that are not true to discourage people from home educating, or from making up their own guidlines and trying to pass these off as law, luckily we have Schoolhouse, who will help anyone throught the process and give accurate advice to those who need it. for example my council at first claimed I had to let 2 welfare officers inspect the accomodation where the education would take place who would then do a report, and then the main person would make a decision based on that report, that is not true they have no legal right to visit your home unless you invite them, it also said I would have to submit to inspections every 6months, also not legally true, a report/examples of work once a year is all that is needed, also it said I should follow the curriculum and submit timetables - all untrue, and I waited 22 days the first time I asked for consent and that was only to receive their reply to my 'enquiry'.not even actual consent. so if anyone in Scotland needs information I cannot recommend Schoolhouse more, I got real verbal consent in under 2 weeks, an dif the council guy was nto lying or stalling anymore, there should be written consent arriveing tomorrow or saturday. Yes different legislation lol

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Jennylee · 18/01/2007 23:51

Yellowrose how old are your kids? I was terrified but now we are doing it it is good, I am so much closer to my child and his troubles have eased and he is learning actively now instead of hating it.

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yellowrose · 19/01/2007 09:22

thanks for that jenny - ds is only 2.7 yo but alraedy having to think of which primary school to send him to ! luckily we live next door to one of the best state primary schools in town, but i get concerned about what i hear about bad experiences of other posters who have children in state schools

ds is a very bright, confident, independent child, but i really do not wish to push him to have lots of formal ed. in order to do exams at too early a stage - i was educated in interntional schools abroad - most countries don't start formal ed until the child is 6 - 7, so i don't see why we start at 4 here in the UK ?

my other option is my local Steiner kindergarden and school - but they have quite high fees so not sure if i can afford this right now

i have a friend who is very interested in home ed. and we have been discussing it as a possibilty - our sons are the same age - i don't intend to have any more children so ds will be an only child which concerns me slightly about home ed. i.e will he become too isolated ? i know others with only children home ed. and say their children are not isolated, so perhaps i am getting too anxious without enough knowledge !

Fillyjonk · 20/01/2007 08:42

yr-

there is a thread somewhere on steiner education. it got a bit heated and I'm afraid some of us took the piss rather BUT...

it should give you an idea of what it all entails.

It is possible, pos even (IMO) more desirable, to HE along Steiner lines. Oh and the Steiner kindergarten should be able to offer you are reduced fees place if money is a problem.

Have you gotten in touch with your local group? The EO page might direct you to a yahoo list, or google, or post here and someone might be able to direct you?

yellowrose · 20/01/2007 09:47

thanks filly - do people not take steiner seriously then ? i will look up the thread !

Jennylee · 20/01/2007 10:41

My son is not isolated lol but people always think that will be the case with home ed, now he sees his friends still, not anyone who bullied him and put him down like at school, he sees friends and plays outside when possible and we go out all the time anyway, i think he feels less isolated as he is not at school where he got bullied and was isolated anyway. this is because we changed school, he has also had 2 years of school which went fine so he knows how to behave as part of a group etc.

also now we have new friends in home ed groups so more nice people to visit!

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Jennylee · 23/01/2007 10:06

the man at the council went back on it as he had it turned out in 3 weeks not completely done all his checks and I had the school caling me and the head teacher trying to intimidate me, and she told the council guy she thought me incapable of home ed and that I was lying that Lewis was ill with Glue ear to keep him off! the swine

He now claims he will call her and tell her to leave us alone and that we will get a letter of consent today or tomorrow...this is why some home educators become 'militant' against local authorities it the obstruction false information and delaying giving permission.

bit of a damp squib really

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Saturn74 · 24/01/2007 09:11

Jennylee, how annoying!
What did the headteacher say that was intimidating?
Is it worth writing a letter of complaint to the LEA and school about the headteacher's behaviour - or do you just want to leave it now that you've got your verbal consent?
I hope the written consent arrives soon; then you can draw a line under things, and get on with enjoying HE.

Jennylee · 25/01/2007 00:51

It has been a nightmare, I spoke to soon etc, and mistakely took the work of a LEA worker! lol the head teacher was trying to block us but she cannot do anything she told the 'council man' that I was 'incapable' of home educating my son and that I was lying about him being ill and she kept saying ds should be in school and cutting me off with 'in my opinion ds should be in school ' and ds needs to be in school over and over again, and then cut the conversation with talk to your husband and let me know what you decide, she 'said I do not know anything about any provision of education ' when I explained that the 'council guy' had made a mistake and that we would be complaining aobut him being obstructive adn that Lew was being educated at home, and she asked me to really think about what I will do if consent was to be refused, when I found out what she has told the council guy who stupidly told the rep from school house that he had spoken to the head about us and what she said , it all made sense, so we are being lied to we do not have any consent it seems, and stil nothing comes in the post as he has again alledged there would be, this is me and andother lady from the same council, our complaints and around 6 others are on hold for this guy, to the scot executive and all sorts so he is messing with the wrong family, am considering what to do about the head teacher if anything the council guy said he will tell her to take no further action against us andthat must have worked as she has notphoned again, but will definately ask to see ds's school records once we are calm and have consent as goodness knows what she thinks , i did a really good provision of education for my son and they were failing him so I was fuming after speaking to her, unfortunately I am overly polite and then when i got off the phone was a gibbering wreck, will consent to on my doormat tomorrow? I hope so for my sake and for the sake of the lea's career, even his secretary despairs of him it seems

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