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Paris: Best & Worst - A Cautionary Tale for Mums traveling on their own! (Hotel to avoid!)

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BookishMummyMouse · 08/03/2026 23:31

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Dear Mumsnet,
I really feel this need to share this. I've just returned from a 5 day trip to Paris with my DS, who has just turned 12. It was part a special school project, with DS as one of two pupils representing their school. We were really excited to go. DH had to work, so DS and I made the trip on our own.

Over the course of our trip we stayed at two different hotels MERCURE GARE DE LYON TGV and NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON - these two hotels could not be more different in terms of customer service and customer care for me and my child.

The staff and team of the Mercure Gare de Lyon showed an utterly lack of care for visitors. There are three points I want to warn other mums about regarding the thorough lack of grace and sensitivity of the staff at Mercure Gare de Lyon.

1.) On Friday, my son and I had been out for the day to the Eiffel Tower (which was great) and for a musical cruise on the Seine (which was amazing). As we returned to the METRO to go back to our hotel, I suddenly felt seriously unwell. I thought I was going to faint right there in the Metro station. My DS was literally holding me up, bless him. He was so strong and brave, and got us back to our hotel on the right metro lines. I had been struck by a severe case of food poisoning (I know, in Paris, of all places!). When we got back to our hotel, I was violently sick almost nonstop. I was literally lying on the bathroom floor to close to the loo! (Sorry, TMI)
My poor little chap was in need of food. The Mercure Gare de Lyon TGV doesn't have a restaurant, and I was too ill to take him for supper. So, DS went down to Reception on his own (carrying me with him me on his phone). I could hear the conversation as he spoke to the woman in the desk. He told her "My mummy is very poorly. She's not able to go out, but, would like to get some supper for me. Please can you help?" The staff member behind the desk simply said to him: "Uber Eats delivers." And that was the end of the conversation. DS said, "Okay, thank you. Mummy I'm coming back up." And we talked the whole way, until he returned to our room. I could not believe that there was no concern for him (a child seeking assistance) or for me (really unwell mum on her own).

2.) So, we were due to check out of the Mercure the following day, on the Saturday. I asked them if we could kindly be granted a late/delayed departure (1 hour max) in lieu of the fact that I was still very unwell and travelling alone with a child. Again - there was no grace or compassion on the part of the Mercure staff. They denied my request initially; then, followed up by phone later to offer us a late departure - at the cost of 50 EUROS.

I understand that ACCOR are in business to make a profit - but surely a little human compassion is worth something? Especially when it comes to encouraging customer loyalty? I was shocked by their behaviour and insensitivity.

Sadly, our experience with the MERCURE GARE DE LYON only got worse...

3.) In the rush to vacate our room at the appointed time, whilst still feeling deeply unwell, I left a bag in our room. This bag contained all of our Paris souvenirs. Also, inside this bag, was another personal, fabric bag which held the "Wool & The Gang" knitting project that I got for Christmas this year, that I have worked on for several months. Okay - these things are of little value to anyone else - they are really very precious to us.

Again, a need for grace and compassion on the part of the Mercure hotel staff. And, here, again, they failed.

It wasn't until we had moved and settled into the NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON later that Saturday evening that we noticed the bag was missing.

The kind staff at NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON contacted the staff at MERCURE GARE DE LYON as soon as we reported the bag had been left behind. The staff at MERCURE made minimal efforts to find the bag.

I was so distressed, I walked back to Mercure this morning (Sunday), in person before had to catch our Eurostar train back to London. I was told by the Receptionist at Mercure that the cleaning operative had cleared the room, and thrown our items away. That nothing could be done.

I was so upset, I offered to look through the rubbish myself to search for our items. I even offered to pay to do this. The staff took my name and email, but it was clear to me that the matter was closed for them.

I would have left absolutely hating Paris, were it not for the NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON team. By contrast, NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON was absolutely the best! They were brilliant.

Our one night stay there was the best hotel experience we have had on a trip such as this. The best. Full stop. Our accommodation was lovely, spacious and enjoyable — we didn’t want to leave! We had a terrace, and it was overlooking the Gare de Lyon was such a wonderful way of being in Paris — like actually living there, just for a moment. The food (including late night room service), the the Rainforest pool, the KIDSZONE, everything about it has been thought out beautifully, with the comfort/pleasure of the visitor in mind.

More importantly, the staff there are to be highly commended for their care and attention. We were treated like people and not merely customers.

The best example of this is this:

This morning, as we left the NOVOTEL hotel to return to England, DS was so upset about the missing bag, that he left our water bottles on at the hotel - the lobby or breakfast area. Once we were seated on Eurostar, I phoned NOVOTEL Front Desk immediately. A member of the NOVOTEL staff had already secured the items and had them to hand.

He emailed me — even before I could email him! — to arrange returning the items directly to us in Britain. In his email he had even thoughtfully included clear photographs of the items, so that we could verify that they were indeed the ones we were missing! The items are being dispatched today, and will be with us in 5 days. With such care and attention, all of this happened swiftly. Resolved, even before we had left French soil. This is customer care. This is customer service.

Our things may never ever be retrieved, the sentimental value of them lost. This is heartbreaking for us. These things were not trash. Yes, it was our mistake for leaving them in our room, but, just a little thought, care and attention would have made a world of difference in this situation. Sadly, it has left a very sour taste in our mouths for MERCURE hotels.

But, the positive that has come out of this is discovering how brilliant, kind and mum-friendly NOVOTEL is! A real shining star and the saving grace of our Paris adventure.

OP posts:
Thecomedyclub · 08/03/2026 23:35

Honestly you’d be better off posting these reviews (separately) on trip advisor

Negroany · 08/03/2026 23:40

For goodness sake!

This all sounds pretty normal and expected from large hotel chain staff - some are good, some aren't. Welcome to the world.

benten54 · 08/03/2026 23:51

Not sure what you expected hotel staff to do re the food situation. They have roles in the hotel that means they can’t disappear ad hoc and leave things unmanned. Potentially they would be severely disciplined if they did. And even if they did you can’t expect them to go walking the streets of Paris with a child! Totally inappropriate. They were right to direct you to Uber eats. Im surprised asking hotel staff was your first port of call and not a delivery service.
Late checkouts are always for a ‘reason’ and they are always charged. Staff probably have no discretion here.
The missing items are a misstep by the hotel though. They certainly can’t have a member of the public riffling through bins though!

rookiemere · 09/03/2026 07:19

Oh dear, is this the first time you have left the country ?

So your main complaints about the first hotel is that they didn’t give you a free late check out and tidied out the room as they are meant to do. On the food front I am not sure what you expected them to do, letting your DS know that uber eats delivered seems like a perfectly reasonable solution.

I hope you feel better now.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 09/03/2026 07:37

I know it’s hard when you’re ill on holiday but did you ever actually tell the staff in the first hotel that you were sick and ask to see a Dr? Sending a 12 year old to reception asking for food was an odd thing to do especially as the hotel doesn’t provide food. What were you expecting to happen? I’m sorry you had a bad experience but you can’t blame the hotel for anything that happened. You were ill. Didn’t tell them. You left a bag in the room. The staff will assume it’s rubbish. You wanted a late check out. The staff have to prepare the room for the next guest. A late check out fee will always apply. Your son is 12. To be honest I’d expect less forgetting of bags and water bottles at that age. Hope you recover soon.

TeamGeriatric · 09/03/2026 08:18

I have sympathies for you being ill, but you are being far too harsh on the hotel here. This is really not the hotels problem. Also the Mercure is literally above the Gare de Lyon. Lots of food options literally outside the doors of the hotel. I think at age 12, in this situation, he could have walked the 50m from hotel reception to the cafes or mini market to buy food for himself.

Lemonfrost · 09/03/2026 08:20

This seems like an AI generated story. It’s very dramatic.

Shittyyear2025 · 09/03/2026 08:25

Couldn't the other child's family support you and D's in finding some food for him?

Unfenced · 09/03/2026 08:27

Honestly, OP, have you never stayed in hotels before? It’s not a restaurantless hotel receptionist’s job to get food for a child. DS is 13 and would have been capable of walking into the Gare de Lyon and buying himself food. And while it’s sad you lost a bag of sentimental items, we’ve all done it — plus, you left things behind in two hotels on the same trip. I get that you were ill, but being forgetful with your belongings is ultimately on you.

shellyleppard · 09/03/2026 08:27

Why was he calling you mummy at 12 years old??

Oriunda · 09/03/2026 08:39

Ridiculous, hyperbolic post, and yes, probably AI.

You weren’t travelling on your own; you were with a 12 yr old. What does being a mother have to do with any of this?

As others have said, you could have easily ordered Uber Eats to the hotel, and send your son down to collect it.

There's also a large difference between Mercure and Novotel chains, despite both being Accor. Mercure tend to be smaller properties that have been brought into the existing Accor structure; Novotel are fancier, purpose built properties more suitable for families.

ladyamy · 09/03/2026 08:41

TL;DR required.

rookiemere · 09/03/2026 08:42

I don’t think it’s AI. To me it reads more like OP fancies herself as one of those twee mummy bloggers, but unfortunately without much natural talent.

DollopOfFun · 09/03/2026 08:45

Stop leaving your shit behind.

RoachFish · 09/03/2026 08:45

Your kid is nearly a teenager but you write about him as if he's 7. I don't know what you expected the hotel who don't have a restaurant to do about your son's hunger either. They don't serve food, not to 12 year olds, not to anyone, so they can't just magic some up because you have food poisoning.

Unfenced · 09/03/2026 08:48

ladyamy · 09/03/2026 08:41

TL;DR required.

The OP got food poisoning in Paris, the restaurantless hotel receptionist didn’t magic up food for her 12 year old, and she left a bag of souvenirs AND water bottles behind in two different hotels. One hotel is terrible, one is brilliant.

It’s fairly clear the OP doesn’t leave home a lot.

Livpool · 09/03/2026 08:56

I don’t understand why you didn’t think to get an Uber Eats delivery yourself for your son. What do you expect the hotel to do regarding feeding your son?!

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/03/2026 09:01

Well that was all very dramamtic and strange. You know there are literally tons of fast food places and sandwich shops around the Gare de Lyon. I am sure a teen could have found something to eat instead of going to reception like an extra from Oliver.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/03/2026 09:04

Also ... did the staff at the Novotel Gare de Lyon write this post? 😆

JassyRadlett · 09/03/2026 09:19

Do you not travel much? Is your 12 year old unusually sheltered?

Some rules for travel: if you leave stuff behind it's a total bonus if you get it back. Otherwise you just mark it up as a Disorganisation Tax. It's gutting when it happens, especially where there is stuff of sentimental value, but expecting poorly-paid staff with insanely tight room turnaround times to go through your stuff and try to decide whether it's precious or you've left it behind on purpose is unreasonable. Stuff left behind probably gets thrown away without a second glance, that's just the reality. First rules of travel: count your bags, and always get more than one person to do a sweep of the room when you're leaving.

Second, your 12 year old seems to be very lacking in independence? Still being so upset about souvenirs a day later that he leaves the water bottles behind, unable to go and have a conversation with desk staff by himself, unable to nip down the road to GdL or one of the supermarkets nearby to sort out his food strikes me as very young for 12.

Recent stay with DS aged 10 at Ibis Styles Bastille not far from GdL, nice hotel with great staff. He managed to get up and down to reception to get board games or head down early for breakfast or whatever without "carrying me with him on his phone". We lost a good water bottle at Disneyland and he was more upset than I was about it, but got over it and on my phone looked up where to go to check lost and found and encouraged me to do it, I thought it would just be too much hassle. Staff lovely, water bottle there, total win for DS. Building independence, problem solving and resilience is one of the real benefits of travelling with kids, especially at this age.

Being sick on holiday absolutely sucks, don't get me wrong, and I'm sorry your trip was affected by it. But I do think as well that you probably had very high expectations of how much the world would bend around you, and probably needed to figure out how to help
yourselves better.

benten54 · 09/03/2026 09:30

Also the hotel entrance is literally looking at a cafe. Next door is the entrance to the station (with many cafes and shops) and there’s a mini supermarket next door to that. It’s 12 year old with all the food options one could want in looking distance not a 6 year old in the Serengeti.

DogsandFlowers · 09/03/2026 09:33

Why is he calling you mummy 🤢

benten54 · 09/03/2026 09:40

So obviously AI.
‘cleaning operative’
’comfort/pleasure of the visitor in mimd’
The reeling off of the hotel attractions despite being there for one night.
The names of things in CAPITALS

crackofdoom · 09/03/2026 09:42

You're bothering to get water bottles sent back to you in the UK?!?! How much is that costing you?

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 09/03/2026 09:49

DogsandFlowers · 09/03/2026 09:33

Why is he calling you mummy 🤢

Member of the "Royal Family", or an AI failure.

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