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Paris: Best & Worst - A Cautionary Tale for Mums traveling on their own! (Hotel to avoid!)

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BookishMummyMouse · 08/03/2026 23:31

<<<AFL>>> (Apologies For Length)
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Dear Mumsnet,
I really feel this need to share this. I've just returned from a 5 day trip to Paris with my DS, who has just turned 12. It was part a special school project, with DS as one of two pupils representing their school. We were really excited to go. DH had to work, so DS and I made the trip on our own.

Over the course of our trip we stayed at two different hotels MERCURE GARE DE LYON TGV and NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON - these two hotels could not be more different in terms of customer service and customer care for me and my child.

The staff and team of the Mercure Gare de Lyon showed an utterly lack of care for visitors. There are three points I want to warn other mums about regarding the thorough lack of grace and sensitivity of the staff at Mercure Gare de Lyon.

1.) On Friday, my son and I had been out for the day to the Eiffel Tower (which was great) and for a musical cruise on the Seine (which was amazing). As we returned to the METRO to go back to our hotel, I suddenly felt seriously unwell. I thought I was going to faint right there in the Metro station. My DS was literally holding me up, bless him. He was so strong and brave, and got us back to our hotel on the right metro lines. I had been struck by a severe case of food poisoning (I know, in Paris, of all places!). When we got back to our hotel, I was violently sick almost nonstop. I was literally lying on the bathroom floor to close to the loo! (Sorry, TMI)
My poor little chap was in need of food. The Mercure Gare de Lyon TGV doesn't have a restaurant, and I was too ill to take him for supper. So, DS went down to Reception on his own (carrying me with him me on his phone). I could hear the conversation as he spoke to the woman in the desk. He told her "My mummy is very poorly. She's not able to go out, but, would like to get some supper for me. Please can you help?" The staff member behind the desk simply said to him: "Uber Eats delivers." And that was the end of the conversation. DS said, "Okay, thank you. Mummy I'm coming back up." And we talked the whole way, until he returned to our room. I could not believe that there was no concern for him (a child seeking assistance) or for me (really unwell mum on her own).

2.) So, we were due to check out of the Mercure the following day, on the Saturday. I asked them if we could kindly be granted a late/delayed departure (1 hour max) in lieu of the fact that I was still very unwell and travelling alone with a child. Again - there was no grace or compassion on the part of the Mercure staff. They denied my request initially; then, followed up by phone later to offer us a late departure - at the cost of 50 EUROS.

I understand that ACCOR are in business to make a profit - but surely a little human compassion is worth something? Especially when it comes to encouraging customer loyalty? I was shocked by their behaviour and insensitivity.

Sadly, our experience with the MERCURE GARE DE LYON only got worse...

3.) In the rush to vacate our room at the appointed time, whilst still feeling deeply unwell, I left a bag in our room. This bag contained all of our Paris souvenirs. Also, inside this bag, was another personal, fabric bag which held the "Wool & The Gang" knitting project that I got for Christmas this year, that I have worked on for several months. Okay - these things are of little value to anyone else - they are really very precious to us.

Again, a need for grace and compassion on the part of the Mercure hotel staff. And, here, again, they failed.

It wasn't until we had moved and settled into the NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON later that Saturday evening that we noticed the bag was missing.

The kind staff at NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON contacted the staff at MERCURE GARE DE LYON as soon as we reported the bag had been left behind. The staff at MERCURE made minimal efforts to find the bag.

I was so distressed, I walked back to Mercure this morning (Sunday), in person before had to catch our Eurostar train back to London. I was told by the Receptionist at Mercure that the cleaning operative had cleared the room, and thrown our items away. That nothing could be done.

I was so upset, I offered to look through the rubbish myself to search for our items. I even offered to pay to do this. The staff took my name and email, but it was clear to me that the matter was closed for them.

I would have left absolutely hating Paris, were it not for the NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON team. By contrast, NOVOTEL GARE DE LYON was absolutely the best! They were brilliant.

Our one night stay there was the best hotel experience we have had on a trip such as this. The best. Full stop. Our accommodation was lovely, spacious and enjoyable — we didn’t want to leave! We had a terrace, and it was overlooking the Gare de Lyon was such a wonderful way of being in Paris — like actually living there, just for a moment. The food (including late night room service), the the Rainforest pool, the KIDSZONE, everything about it has been thought out beautifully, with the comfort/pleasure of the visitor in mind.

More importantly, the staff there are to be highly commended for their care and attention. We were treated like people and not merely customers.

The best example of this is this:

This morning, as we left the NOVOTEL hotel to return to England, DS was so upset about the missing bag, that he left our water bottles on at the hotel - the lobby or breakfast area. Once we were seated on Eurostar, I phoned NOVOTEL Front Desk immediately. A member of the NOVOTEL staff had already secured the items and had them to hand.

He emailed me — even before I could email him! — to arrange returning the items directly to us in Britain. In his email he had even thoughtfully included clear photographs of the items, so that we could verify that they were indeed the ones we were missing! The items are being dispatched today, and will be with us in 5 days. With such care and attention, all of this happened swiftly. Resolved, even before we had left French soil. This is customer care. This is customer service.

Our things may never ever be retrieved, the sentimental value of them lost. This is heartbreaking for us. These things were not trash. Yes, it was our mistake for leaving them in our room, but, just a little thought, care and attention would have made a world of difference in this situation. Sadly, it has left a very sour taste in our mouths for MERCURE hotels.

But, the positive that has come out of this is discovering how brilliant, kind and mum-friendly NOVOTEL is! A real shining star and the saving grace of our Paris adventure.

OP posts:
user233675892 · 09/03/2026 09:50

Don't waste your time guys.

This can't have been written by a real human. Surely it's AI generated by someone with a connection to the NOVOTEL GARDE DE LYON?

I was so distressed, I walked back to Mercure this morning (Sunday), in person before had to catch our Eurostar train back to London.

Details like this, in person. What other way is there to walk? And our Eurostar train back to London. Humans say either, the Eurostar or the train.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/03/2026 09:50

Also - "grace and compassion" 😆

Dude it is a mid price chain hotel by a Paris rail terminal, not the Ritz.

Last time I stayed at a Mercure hotel in a big city it had posters in the lifts asking guests to report any suspicions of modern slavery and sex traffiking.

DogsandFlowers · 09/03/2026 09:55

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 09/03/2026 09:49

Member of the "Royal Family", or an AI failure.

I’ve just got visions of the poor overly attached boy holding this woman up at the metro station 🤣🤣

user233675892 · 09/03/2026 09:58

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/03/2026 09:50

Also - "grace and compassion" 😆

Dude it is a mid price chain hotel by a Paris rail terminal, not the Ritz.

Last time I stayed at a Mercure hotel in a big city it had posters in the lifts asking guests to report any suspicions of modern slavery and sex traffiking.

Edited

We once got stuck when our Eurostar was cancelled at the last minute and were going to need to be at the Gare du Nord first thing in the morning, so went across the street to the Hotel Terminus Nord (or the HOTEL TERMINUS NORD) where they put the 5 of us in a 'family room' which consisted of a double bed and one folding bed, apparently still hanging around from the occupation of Paris. There was a mouse in the room and a giant dried bogey on one of the towels.

To be fair, I think the hotel has had a refresh since then

SilverPink · 09/03/2026 10:05

This is hilarious 😆

Friendlygingercat · 09/03/2026 10:06

I think some of you are being rather unfair on OP. Being ill abroad is not pleasant - experienced solo traveller here and its happened several times to me. You just have to suck it up. Cheaper hotels in Paris do tend to be a bit basic and a good command of French does help when advocating for oneself.

One of the problems of being a single independent traveller is that you have no travel rep to lean on and all the responsibility falls upon you. The OP sounds like an inexperienced traveller and would be wise to book a package where everything is taken care of in the future. Organization is key for solo travellers and checking the room for personal items is a must before you leave.

OriginalUsername2 · 09/03/2026 10:13

The CAPITALISATION of the hotel names is very strange. Maybe this is the manager of one trying to slate the other with an AI story?

He was so upset about the bag you left behind that he left the water bottles behind? Odd.

JassyRadlett · 09/03/2026 10:17

user233675892 · 09/03/2026 09:50

Don't waste your time guys.

This can't have been written by a real human. Surely it's AI generated by someone with a connection to the NOVOTEL GARDE DE LYON?

I was so distressed, I walked back to Mercure this morning (Sunday), in person before had to catch our Eurostar train back to London.

Details like this, in person. What other way is there to walk? And our Eurostar train back to London. Humans say either, the Eurostar or the train.

I love the idea of internecine strife between Accor hotels around Gare de Lyon.

No one has asked why OP changed hotels halfway through her stay, have they?

Unfenced · 09/03/2026 10:19

JassyRadlett · 09/03/2026 10:17

I love the idea of internecine strife between Accor hotels around Gare de Lyon.

No one has asked why OP changed hotels halfway through her stay, have they?

Maybe she walked out in a huff because the first place didn't invent a restaurant that could have provided room service for the 12 year old and send their in-house doctor running straight to the OP's room.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/03/2026 10:21

@JassyRadlett Yeah that is a bit of an odd one - just 5 days in Paris and the OP apparently stayed at two different hotels, in the same hotel group, in the same area of Paris. 🤔

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 09/03/2026 10:22

Unfenced · 09/03/2026 10:19

Maybe she walked out in a huff because the first place didn't invent a restaurant that could have provided room service for the 12 year old and send their in-house doctor running straight to the OP's room.

Not a Doctor, a computer engineer perhaps ?

user233675892 · 09/03/2026 10:23

Friendlygingercat · 09/03/2026 10:06

I think some of you are being rather unfair on OP. Being ill abroad is not pleasant - experienced solo traveller here and its happened several times to me. You just have to suck it up. Cheaper hotels in Paris do tend to be a bit basic and a good command of French does help when advocating for oneself.

One of the problems of being a single independent traveller is that you have no travel rep to lean on and all the responsibility falls upon you. The OP sounds like an inexperienced traveller and would be wise to book a package where everything is taken care of in the future. Organization is key for solo travellers and checking the room for personal items is a must before you leave.

Edited

I've also travelled solo quite a lot for work and have stayed in everything from 5 star hotels to places where sleeping in all your clothes was advisable. I've never had a rep, I've also been ill once or twice in these situations, and I agree it's not pleasant, but this is ridiculous. She was in Paris with a 12 year old, not up a remote mountain in Argentina with an infant. If this really happened, sure, go on trip advisor and leave a one star review, but a screed at this length and this level of detail makes it not seem real. Plus, the Gare de Lyon is pretty much nothing but food kiosks. Surely even the most sheltered 12 year old could buy a sandwich with his mum on the phone?

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/03/2026 10:24

Talking of the Accor group - we once stayed at an Ibis in France that was so very basic it has forever been known to us as "the prison hotel".

Although TBF the young lad could have got something to eat as there was a vending machine in the reception.

TheLurpackYears · 09/03/2026 10:27

You weren’t travelling alone, you had a 12 year old with you.
The least unbelievable part of all of this is that you would want your water bottles sending back to the uk- what mum if a 12 year old doesn’t have 20,000 other water bottles cluttering up the kitchen at home?

ladyamy · 09/03/2026 10:28

Unfenced · 09/03/2026 08:48

The OP got food poisoning in Paris, the restaurantless hotel receptionist didn’t magic up food for her 12 year old, and she left a bag of souvenirs AND water bottles behind in two different hotels. One hotel is terrible, one is brilliant.

It’s fairly clear the OP doesn’t leave home a lot.

Thanks!

Unfenced · 09/03/2026 10:35

Friendlygingercat · 09/03/2026 10:06

I think some of you are being rather unfair on OP. Being ill abroad is not pleasant - experienced solo traveller here and its happened several times to me. You just have to suck it up. Cheaper hotels in Paris do tend to be a bit basic and a good command of French does help when advocating for oneself.

One of the problems of being a single independent traveller is that you have no travel rep to lean on and all the responsibility falls upon you. The OP sounds like an inexperienced traveller and would be wise to book a package where everything is taken care of in the future. Organization is key for solo travellers and checking the room for personal items is a must before you leave.

Edited

For heaven's sake, the OP wasn't trekking up the Amazon solo looking for uncontacted tribes and dodging illegal loggers, she was staying in hotels in central Paris for five days. No solo travel experience or reps required.

rookiemere · 09/03/2026 10:40

Maybe it is AI, I only use copilot which thankfully is not as mellifluous as this.

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