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Not selecting seats on plane... risky?

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Worriedmotheroftwo · 08/04/2025 00:13

Flying with Wizzair. 2 parents 2 children. Not selected seats. Selecting seats for all 4 of us would cost us £80 total. Their policy is to seat a parents with a child...

We will obviously try to check in and get seats sorted at first opportunity. Happy to be split up as long as each of our children is with one of us. But what if the plane is full of people who have booked seats though and there's not 2 pairs of seats available for us? Would we not get to go on the flight?

On one hand, £80 is a lot of extra money. On the other hand, I don't want us to not get on the flight at all!

We haven't travelled much with children so not sure how risky this is. Would welcome opinions. Many thanks!

OP posts:
IAmNotASheep · 10/04/2025 00:09

friendlycat · 09/04/2025 23:51

It took ages to sort out with lots of grumbling and an announcement that the plane couldn’t take off without it being sorted. We were upfront but I could see a few Dads swapping places further back and two single people and I think the families involved had to accept the split up between adults and children. We missed the takeoff slot and there was incredulity loudly voiced about the whole situation of families of that size not pre booking seats but insisting on a solution.
It took ages to sort. It’s the first time I’ve ever seen or heard about it with the numbers involved.

Thanks. What absolute madness.
I am not surprised by the entitled behaviour though and just hoping no one who paid for a seat was forced to move. Perhaps some disgruntled people volunteered just to get the plane moving
I bet they were popular with everyone being delayed

HauntedBungalow · 10/04/2025 01:12

Needspaceforlego · 09/04/2025 23:28

Good stuff - £80 to the good!

And probably lots of people kicking themselves because they panic and cough up the money when really they don't need too.
We are lucky, usually holiday twice a year never select seats and are always together, either 3 & 1 (the 1 is within sweetie passing distance) or 2 & 2 (still within sweetie passing distance)

Enjoy your holiday.

I agree, really good news. Have a fantastic holiday OP. (And spend that £80 on a fab meal.)

crumblingschools · 10/04/2025 01:19

@Worriedmotheroftwo I wouid always want to check whether the airline policy of next to literally meant next to rather than seat in front or behind as different airlines use different definition. Worked for you this time

Ineedcoffee2021 · 10/04/2025 02:20

TheTealZebra · 09/04/2025 16:48

A couple of months ago I had to take a last minute flight with my 5 year old because of a family emergency. We literally booked in the morning and flew in the afternoon, there were only single seats left and the closest were 5 rows apart. When we boarded, I spoke to cabin crew who promised they could sort it. Actually what happened was that everyone scowled at me and my son and asked why they should move. I was genuinely baffled until I came on this thread and discovered just how precious and weird some people are.

Its not weird to want certain seats
I dont want to sit near the toilet for instance or be a middle seat

Simply, your emergency is not a me emergency
Unless i get an upgrade, i aint moving or accepting a downgrade

pestowithwalnuts · 10/04/2025 03:14

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/04/2025 00:41

He is an adult now but when my son was young (he has CP) I paid whatever was required to make sure I was with him. I am genuinely shocked that you are taking that risk with your child with autism.

Exactly this..How do you think you think your child is going to react when not seated next to you..? And they are very young to be sat next to strangers
Yes £80 is a lot of money but not so much to ensure your kids are not distressed and feel safe .

mediumdicketh · 10/04/2025 03:26

Worriedmotheroftwo · 08/04/2025 00:13

Flying with Wizzair. 2 parents 2 children. Not selected seats. Selecting seats for all 4 of us would cost us £80 total. Their policy is to seat a parents with a child...

We will obviously try to check in and get seats sorted at first opportunity. Happy to be split up as long as each of our children is with one of us. But what if the plane is full of people who have booked seats though and there's not 2 pairs of seats available for us? Would we not get to go on the flight?

On one hand, £80 is a lot of extra money. On the other hand, I don't want us to not get on the flight at all!

We haven't travelled much with children so not sure how risky this is. Would welcome opinions. Many thanks!

Just pay for seats as you know you will all travel together, I booked all of ours for an extra 100 there and back. It's just the peace of mind

mediumdicketh · 10/04/2025 03:41

Worriedmotheroftwo · 08/04/2025 00:43

By all means, feel free to be 'shocked, but with respect, you don't know my son or his autistic needs...

Im on a low budget but I still paid for my seats I wouldn't want my kids to be sitting next to anyone especially with travelling into a foreign country and if your child is autistic will he not need you more to have a familiar face next to him on the flight. What about if he gets vocal next to a stranger and they get stressed out? Then you will lose temper at stranger when In hindsight that is your own fault

PoliteCat · 10/04/2025 09:07

Unsure about whizzair, but easyJet online check in opens 30 days in advance. You can skip seat selection and see what seats you have been allocated, but go back and pay if you are separate want to choose them instead.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 10/04/2025 12:33

Needspaceforlego · 09/04/2025 23:28

Good stuff - £80 to the good!

And probably lots of people kicking themselves because they panic and cough up the money when really they don't need too.
We are lucky, usually holiday twice a year never select seats and are always together, either 3 & 1 (the 1 is within sweetie passing distance) or 2 & 2 (still within sweetie passing distance)

Enjoy your holiday.

If every family was as lucky as you have been, @Needspaceforlego, then there wouldn't be any stories about families trying to make other people swap seats so they can be together. These stories demonstrate that some people take the risk and aren't as lucky as you have been.

Of course it's everyone's choice whether to book specific seats or not - that's not the issue - the problem comes when someone doesn't book specific seats, finds they aren't lucky and are further from their kids/the rest of their party than they want to be, and then start insisting other people, who may have paid, to have specific seats, swap with them, so they don't have to suffer the effects of taking the risk.

When the dc were younger, if we flew, we factored the cost of booking seats together into the overall cost of the holiday, because we thought that was better than taking the risk. If we flew with them now (they are all adults) we wouldn't bother. But if I have paid to have a specific seat (an aisle seat, so I can get up to go to the loo easily, because I have mobility issues), I'm not going to give it up for someone who hasn't paid the extra, but feels entitled to my seat.

K90 · 10/04/2025 13:50

I would never move out of my chosen paid for seat to accommodate a family. They would have to airlift me out of it. Sorry but you have to pay like the rest of us.

NCTDN · 10/04/2025 14:38

Now we know op is sorted, who remembers when easyJet first started and simply didn’t allocate seats? My mum used to charge forwards, leaving my dad to follow with the bags!

Kipperandarthur · 10/04/2025 14:59

Of course it's everyone's choice whether to book specific seats or not - that's not the issue - the problem comes when someone doesn't book specific seats, finds they aren't lucky and are further from their kids/the rest of their party than they want to be, and then start insisting other people, who may have paid, to have specific seats, swap with them, so they don't have to suffer the effects of taking the risk.

This is the crux of the issue always. Absolutely no problem in not paying for specific seats and taking the chance. The problem is not liking the seats that are then allocated and kicking up a fuss that others have to move to accommodate the wishes of the person/family who have not paid to pre book seats.

It's not necessarily such a problem if swaps are being made between others who have not paid for a specific seat either, but certainly does become a problem when swaps are being asked of those who have paid for seat selection.

As I mentioned up thread, fortunately being at the front and paying £32 plus per seat each, cabin crew don't bother asking these seats to swap as it would just be a nonsense. The only time when it would be fair enough is if an injured passenger (broken leg etc) needs those seats and then it's understandable.

Juicymango1 · 10/04/2025 17:11

I've never paid for seats with easyJet, I fly twice a year with my two Dd's, we've always been seated together.

Suchasonganddance · 10/04/2025 18:40

HauntedBungalow · 09/04/2025 22:29

Well you don't have to because if you read the ops update wizzair have put the kids next to their parents as per their policy, first referenced 20 pages of frothing fury ago.

I think you have too much time on your hands Haunted Bungalow!

IAmNotASheep · 10/04/2025 18:58

Kipperandarthur · 10/04/2025 14:59

Of course it's everyone's choice whether to book specific seats or not - that's not the issue - the problem comes when someone doesn't book specific seats, finds they aren't lucky and are further from their kids/the rest of their party than they want to be, and then start insisting other people, who may have paid, to have specific seats, swap with them, so they don't have to suffer the effects of taking the risk.

This is the crux of the issue always. Absolutely no problem in not paying for specific seats and taking the chance. The problem is not liking the seats that are then allocated and kicking up a fuss that others have to move to accommodate the wishes of the person/family who have not paid to pre book seats.

It's not necessarily such a problem if swaps are being made between others who have not paid for a specific seat either, but certainly does become a problem when swaps are being asked of those who have paid for seat selection.

As I mentioned up thread, fortunately being at the front and paying £32 plus per seat each, cabin crew don't bother asking these seats to swap as it would just be a nonsense. The only time when it would be fair enough is if an injured passenger (broken leg etc) needs those seats and then it's understandable.

As long as you get your money back before you give someone your paid for seat. See upthread with a poster still waiting 7months later for a refund they also had to waste time applying for. So refund first. Better or just as good as seat Ok to move. IMO.

daleylama · 10/04/2025 21:19

IAmNotASheep · 09/04/2025 23:33

They can’t be forced to move though

Edited

no, they can'; -but asking creates an unnecessary atmosphere and refusing , even more so

IAmNotASheep · 10/04/2025 22:18

daleylama · 10/04/2025 21:19

no, they can'; -but asking creates an unnecessary atmosphere and refusing , even more so

They can ask, of course, but the circumstances they have to insist you move are a different matter.
Upthread it notes, security and a threat for example.

RavenofEngland · 10/04/2025 22:44

I flew easyJet to Majorca last year. I didn’t pay for my seats but as soon as seating opened I went online and found that myself and two kids were allocated three seats together on both out and inbound flights. I think if you can get on there as soon as humanly possible you should be ok.
i think if we hadn’t been put together then I would have paid for us to sit together.

dementedmummy · 10/04/2025 23:05

TheTealZebra · 09/04/2025 19:04

Literally every single airline website says your seat isn't guaranteed. For example BA: "Sometimes we may need to change your seat, even after you have boarded the aircraft. Whilst we try to prevent this, it might be unavoidable for a number of reasons including a change of aircraft due to operational, safety or security reasons, so we cannot guarantee seating."

Moving seat for safety is one thing. Forcibly moving one passenger who has paid extra for that seat to accommodate another passenger who didn't want pay the money to get sat beside their child is another. It is quite frankly CF behaviour to expect that just because you have a child that everyone else should be inconvenienced because your time/money is more important than everyone else's. An airlines policy to sit a parent and child together is a you and an airline problem. It should not be everyone else's problem. If you truly believe you have a right to sit beside your child and not pay the seat charge either for that privilege or for the person you have usurped out of their paid for seat (and I am only talking about seats where people had paid extra to sit in a particular seat) then that smacks of everything that is currently wrong in this world with people have zero consideration for their fellow humans.

Shwish · 10/04/2025 23:18

"An airlines policy to sit a parent and child together is a you and an airline problem."

Well maybe. But for my family it would ONLY be an airline problem. My kids are aged 10 and 11 and would literally not care whether they were sat with me or not. they'll be headphones on, watching a film the whole time anyway. And I don't care. It's not like they can get lost / get out at the wrong stop!
So if the AIRLINE wants to stick us together to accommodate the guidelines then that's fine. They can do that, or sort it out at the time of the flight. Not my problem HOW they sort it.
But I'm not being forced to pay extra just because of rules they have to follow when they could just allow it for free for parents (and we're not bothered) that's discrimination frankly.
If the airline made you pay for the privilege of sitting where you want to and then takes that back to accommodate seating us - then take it up with them. We're not asking for it!

Needspaceforlego · 11/04/2025 08:08

Kipperandarthur · 10/04/2025 14:59

Of course it's everyone's choice whether to book specific seats or not - that's not the issue - the problem comes when someone doesn't book specific seats, finds they aren't lucky and are further from their kids/the rest of their party than they want to be, and then start insisting other people, who may have paid, to have specific seats, swap with them, so they don't have to suffer the effects of taking the risk.

This is the crux of the issue always. Absolutely no problem in not paying for specific seats and taking the chance. The problem is not liking the seats that are then allocated and kicking up a fuss that others have to move to accommodate the wishes of the person/family who have not paid to pre book seats.

It's not necessarily such a problem if swaps are being made between others who have not paid for a specific seat either, but certainly does become a problem when swaps are being asked of those who have paid for seat selection.

As I mentioned up thread, fortunately being at the front and paying £32 plus per seat each, cabin crew don't bother asking these seats to swap as it would just be a nonsense. The only time when it would be fair enough is if an injured passenger (broken leg etc) needs those seats and then it's understandable.

Quite often extra leg room seats are at the emergency exits.
They need fit adults in those seats so they can operate the emergency exits, if necessary.
Children aren't allowed in them, and I can't imagine disabled (temporarily or permanently) people are allowed in them either.

kiwiblue · 11/04/2025 12:08

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 08/04/2025 19:34

I need to check in with Easyjet this week. (I paid for my seat out but not back) Just wondering if it is 30 days from the flight time or 30 days from midnight that day? Thank you

30 days to the time of your flight. The app should tell you exactly when if you go into your booking.

Whammyyammy · 11/04/2025 14:50

cakeandteaandcake · 08/04/2025 00:16

Other people would have to be moved. You’d look crappy and disorganised. Just pay to book seats - it’s part of the cost of going away. Don’t be those people!

Other people would be asked. But not forced.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 11/04/2025 15:19

kiwiblue · 11/04/2025 12:08

30 days to the time of your flight. The app should tell you exactly when if you go into your booking.

The app and the website said an hour apart but the website was correct. I had already provided API info so just had to check in, did it bang on the time it opened and got assigned a rubbish seat. I assumed I might get nearer the front if I did it early. But I didn't pay coming back and that's what I risked. I won't be complaining about it and demanding people swap with me

tempname1234 · 12/04/2025 09:39

As long as you don’t expect people who have paid for their seats to move for you, then go ahead. But accept what you’re given if more people actually pay for their seats. Otherwise you’re just acting entitled. Your £80 saved does not mean more than the money others spend to ensure seat selection.

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