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Do these holidays sound excessive to you?

68 replies

plimplom · 22/07/2024 19:59

For a couple in their 20s who don’t own a house yet.

Holiday 1: 7 nights greece (free accom)
Holiday 2: 10 nights barbados
Holiday 3: 7 nights cornwall (free accom)
Holiday 4: 7 nights mexico
Holiday 5: 3 nights new york

Take home pay of £6,500 a month

OP posts:
SmileLady · 23/07/2024 12:54

I would love to have this amount of holidays per year. Lucky them.

Gelasring · 23/07/2024 12:55

Environmentally excessive yes.

That's the only bit that's anyone else's concern though. Nobody else's business whether you spend on holidays or save for a house.

ohpoowhatnow · 23/07/2024 12:56

Can't spend jt when you're dead !!

circular2478 · 23/07/2024 13:02

Doesn't sound excessive to me, but I do enjoy holidays. They're young and can afford it.

mrsnjw · 23/07/2024 14:54

Sounds fab. Enjoy it while you can!

ManchesterLu · 23/07/2024 14:55

The only reason it's any of you business is if they're living in your house and not paying their way. Otherwise, leave them alone (or, if it's you, enjoy!)

Nw22 · 23/07/2024 15:02

I feel like this has been posted about 3 times always with the same question. It’s not too many holidays but it is too much carbon emissions.

JamSandle · 23/07/2024 15:03

Theyre living the life if you ask me. Good on them.

Ponderingwindow · 23/07/2024 15:07

People can set their own priorities.

as long as they have savings and are not using debt to finance their travel, they aren’t doing anything wrong

Bucees · 23/07/2024 15:08

Who has said it is excessive?

pinkspeakers · 23/07/2024 15:19

Personally I wouldn't be comfortable with 3 long haul return flights a year for climate reasons. I'd combine into a smaller number of longer holidays, where you get a chance to explore a country more slowly. Then a different country the following year.

Otherwise, if you have the holiday allowance and you have the money then there's no problem!

blacksax · 23/07/2024 15:21

Schoolchoicesucks · 23/07/2024 08:52

Most 20 somethings don't own houses. If they don't make the most of their leisure time and relative financial freedom now, when will they?

It's a lot of holidays for sure. But no-one knows for sure they will look back on their lives and thing - dang, wish I hadn't gone to the Caribbean for that amazing holiday when I was 22, I could have paid the mortgage off 3 months earlier if I'd stayed home.

They may spend their 30s and 40s in the grind with mortgage payments and parenting young kids, their 50s caring for elderly parents and their 60s juggling work, grandparent duties and potential ill health.

I'm all for financial planning and minimising environmental impact but I do think that young people should be able to enjoy themselves.

I know most 20 somethings don't own houses. What I meant was that they ought to be prioritising saving for that instead of gallivanting about on holiday several times a year.

Leisure time and financial freedom is one thing, but squandering money unnecessarily on expensive long hauls is another. If they get on the property ladder early, they are far more likely to have financial freedom in later years.

usernother · 23/07/2024 15:32

If they are moaning about never being able to get on the property ladder and it's so unfair, then yes that many holidays is excessive.

Schoolchoicesucks · 23/07/2024 15:48

blacksax · 23/07/2024 15:21

I know most 20 somethings don't own houses. What I meant was that they ought to be prioritising saving for that instead of gallivanting about on holiday several times a year.

Leisure time and financial freedom is one thing, but squandering money unnecessarily on expensive long hauls is another. If they get on the property ladder early, they are far more likely to have financial freedom in later years.

I think that deciding to get on the property ladder early hoping for financial freedom later is a valid choice.

I also think that deciding to "squander money unnecessarily on expensive long hauls" is a valid choice.

Horses for courses.

Schoolchoicesucks · 23/07/2024 15:51

OurDoorz · 23/07/2024 12:53

Travelling, sure. But that's different from holidays.

Do you mean you think it's OK to spend money "travelling" but not on "holidays"?

Both things are a choice (and a spectrum) surely? As is not spending it on either and using it as a house deposit.

OurDoorz · 23/07/2024 16:34

Schoolchoicesucks · 23/07/2024 15:51

Do you mean you think it's OK to spend money "travelling" but not on "holidays"?

Both things are a choice (and a spectrum) surely? As is not spending it on either and using it as a house deposit.

Yes agreed they're definitely a spectrum. But to simplify for argument's sake, travelling is about broadening your horizons, learning about other cultures, and expanding your mind beyond your day to day thoughts and worries. Holidays are more for rest and relaxation. I personally would value spending a bit of money on the former even if it meant slightly delaying a house purchase. On the latter, not so much - a staycation would work just as well. Travelling is an investment in yourself whereas expensive holidays are a luxury.

Lovethatforyouhun · 23/07/2024 19:14

Excessive! You should be eating gruel and being miserable.

KareebSEO · 14/11/2024 22:00

Kinda expensive.

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