Hi @Holidayseeker2026
My oldest adult DS is allergic to nuts/peanuts and has OAS with things like raw carrot, and we have been to Japan several times without incident.
The good news is that Japanese food isn’t heavily/at all reliant on nuts/peanuts. Avoiding sesame and other things, however, can be more problematic.
The problem is not that servers won’t want to help, it’s that life-threatening allergies to food are very rare in Japan. It can be hard for people to understand that avoiding certain things is not a preference, (e.g. I’m a vegetarian and I was given things containing bonito ALL the time whilst I was in Japan, which I just accepted to be polite), but a necessity.
Getting allergy cards translated into Japanese from places like Allergy UK will help:
https://www.allergyuk.org/our-services/translation-cards/
If taking epipens and anti-histamines into Japan, you will need a letter from your GP, the original packaging and a copy of prescriptions.
I wouldn’t confine myself to eating in hotels -particularly upmarket ones as they are far more likely to cater to ‘foreign’ tastes and to have nut products in the kitchen.
If you eat fish, then just stick to sushi - it’s often just bits of raw fish and any soy is usually on the side.
Rice is usually gluten free in my experience.
The local supermarkets are excellent- we bought a lot of food in those and also at the train stations. (Japanese train station food is so good, that it’s not uncommon for people to break a journey via a particular station to pick up a local bento box!)
Please ask if you have any questions.
Japan is wonderful, so if you can go, you really should!