Hello! So, as above really.
Me and my oh are wanting to get married in Mexico either end of next year 2022 or the start of 2023. We’ve both been before and fell in love with the place. We will have 3 children by then (currently 9 weeks preg eeek). What we’re really struggling with is whether to basically elope with our parents present, 1 bridesmaid and 1 groomsmen, or invite everyone. We both have pretty big families and I’d imagine a lot would decline, but my family are also the type to get really offended if we just eloped and didn’t invite them at all. One of the main reasons we thought of elopement was to keep costs to a bare min. Is that selfish? I’m just so confused with it all! Any help much appreciated or even if you’ve been in the same situation before thank you!