That should say above I've done DLP lots, ive eaten at the DLH but not stayed there
i dont think its just the distance, I think the DLH is truly magical in a more than the sum of its parts very Disney kind of way. If I was only ever going to DLP once and I could afford it i would do DLH.
And If it's "your hotel" you love it club level or not.
But having eaten there... I've got to say it wasn't my hotel. Given the benefits of club level in the other hotels and the relative cost of regular DLH compared to NY, NPB and sequioa, I really don't think I'd bother with regular DLH rooms either.
I would stay club level at one of the others. Mostly for the significantly quieter, untimed breakfast in gorgeous surroundings (although my club level experience in its current incarnation is sequioa) and hotel fast pass which really is very useful (unless you are going at a really quiet time). We only got round the the afternoon tea once so, whilst really lovely, for us it wasnt be a key factor in the decision but I know it is for others. That said there are other factors for us that make the breakfast room more important, like it being so small and limited in people that DS with SN was more able to move around and get his own food, not everyone will have that to factor in.
I wouldn't stay off site. The shuttles give me hives., my experience off site was that the hotel was really fantastic but I'd never voluntarily set foot in a shuttle again. The easy walk to the parks is for us invaluable. I don't do driving at Disney. I'd pick any of the disney hotels, sequioa up, in any of the rooms over offsite purely for the really easy walk to the park.
So in summary no to the DLH, yes to compass club cos the benefits are better than they sound, but I don't think it's a bad thing if you decided against.