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First holiday with a 3 month old - where would you go??

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Futter · 12/02/2015 21:16

Would love any ideas and suggestions for a first holiday for my husband and I and our little one who will be 3 months old in July when we are thinking of a weeks holiday somewhere. Open to short haul or uk ideas? We love travelling abroad and want to continue this with children but open to uk options with a small baby if this is a better option?? Ideas and advice please!!! Grin

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homebythesea · 13/02/2015 12:22

We didn't go abroad till the children were old enough to have their own seat in a plane! Honestly I would go for the best spa hotel with babysitting you can manage and have a few days break with your DH. Plenty of time to come for more involved holidays!!

homebythesea · 13/02/2015 12:23

I'm guessing that the baby isn't born yet given the dates? Another big vote for staying close to home- you have no idea now how you will be feeling, how the baby will be sleeping etc etc.

Onsera3 · 13/02/2015 12:41

Have travelled frequently with DS from 4 mo to current age of 27mo.

IMO 3-6 is actually the dream age for travelling. So if you wanted to do longhaul that's when I'd do it. They can fit comfortably in the bassinet and you don't have to worry about meals or food for them. They aren't very mobile so don't get too cross sitting on your lap.

Travel gets more of a hassle when you have to start packing food for them, they can't fit in the bassinet and they are out of the infant carrier car seat for airport transfers.

Short haul is not too much hassle at all once they're older but I didn't enjoy long haul with DS at 13mo, 15mo, 23 mo and 24 mo. Car seat hassles, worrying about meals on long flights (they're not usually given anything if they don't occupy a seat and they don't always like your meal). They want to walk around the cabin and it's hard to fit them on the change table. Even harder is taking someone who's just potty trained.

Wherever you do go in summer consider how hot it will be with regard to little one needing to be in car seat, baby carrier, mosquitos etc So personally I'd stick to the more northern parts of Europe in July.

Also there's nothing worse than getting the flight done and waiting for the luggage (plus buggy and car seat which are often damaged!) and then facing an hour long transfer with a baby who is getting fed up.

I always check the time to hotel. But if you think you'll be using bottles you might want an apartment. Boob is obviously easier for travel.

I'd suggest a city that you're already familiar with and possibly even somewhere you speak the language should you need medical advice in a pharmacy etc

SunnyBaudelaire · 13/02/2015 12:47

you know I would not even bother at that age, certainly not flying anyway.

noramum · 13/02/2015 13:19

We did self catering. DD was never a baby who would sleep on a pram next to us, she was wide awake and I was fed up with eating one handed or having my food getting cold or going outside with an unhappy baby while DH ate and then we swapped.

Baby in bed, mummy and daddy in a lounge with feet up.

I agree, travelling itself is great, not a lot to take with you and not mobile and still on milk. But a hotel - no. Also if you drive you need to break at least every 2 hours and take the baby out of the car seat and have it stretch the back.

Juno321 · 13/02/2015 20:00

I wouldn't bother, couldn't think of anything worse. There's no place like home with a young baby but if I had to go somewhere I'd choose Devon or Cornwall I guess. Couldn't be bothered to fly anywhere that's for sure.

popflos · 13/02/2015 20:30

cannot believe how many people wouldnt bother, are you mad? this is the best best easiest time ever in your whole life of parenting to take a holiday!! if you want to be safe secure and a little bit supported then go to somewhere mumsnet/babyfriendly bolthole recommended and you will be with likeminded parents and have your well earned little holiday with your little one. if your hub takes a aweek off work and you stay at home, he will be annoying, you will be bitter and exhausted and it all ends in tears, book a holiday.

sparrowcottage · 13/02/2015 20:35

www.caseriodelmirador.com no brainer. short haul flight, easy drive, baby gym and bouncy chairs provided as standard. couldnt be easier or more obvious choice. its a well trodden route, dont be put off by the people that seem to think you cant have a holiday with a baby, the sooner you do it the sooner you can look forward to your next holiday, couldnt be easier honestly.
actually i just saw that Caserio is mumnet top choice anyway, ha i thought it was my secret!! read the reviews, its how it is.

shinjuku09 · 15/02/2015 12:54

I agree that it's perfectly possible to go abroad with a little one but honestly, it all depends on what your baby is like whether you'd enjoy it. No way ours would have slept in bassinet on flight or cot in hotel while we enjoyed a quiet evening. Wouldn't sleep in car or buggy either. Would scream for hours and want to be on boob all day and eve or be held. Not trying to scare you, we have managed two lovely trips abroad with her and she's not two yet, but in the first few months no way. How about either waiting till last minute or booking a nice cottage not too far away in case they don't like the car very much? Even a city break might work but again would wait till you know what they're like. PS mine STILL won't sleep on a plane now!

MintChocAddict · 15/02/2015 13:02

Go as far as you want! Honestly, they're so transportable at that age. If you love abroad then go abroad. The easiest holiday we ever had with children in tow was when DC1 was 5 months old. He wasn't on solids, teeny tiny clothes to pack and very little in the way of toys/games required to keep him occupied. Was really easy. It gets much harder beyond six months!

Wonkyparsnip · 15/02/2015 13:05

What about the Scilly Isles? Would feel like going abroad but close to home. Definitely go self catering.

Futter · 15/02/2015 13:08

Thank you everyone for the positive and helpfuladvice (although not sure what the negative comments are adding to the discussion!) I think we may go somewhere in the U.K. on July and then head further afield when little one is about 5 months in sept for a longer holiday depending on how baby is! :-) lets hope they like travelling as much as mummy and daddy! Any good uk recommendations? Thank you @sparrowcottage for the Spain recommendation looks amazing and will def consider this for September!! X

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Blu · 15/02/2015 13:08

We took DS to a UK seaside place, on a hotel, when he was 2 weeks, Greece when he was 9 weeks and a long haul destination at 8 months.
It was all a doddle, but made easy by breast feeding. I would have been daunted by the need to sterilise and mix bottles, I think. We had a simple McClaren, with a Shade-a-Babe cover, One of us sat in a comfy chair in a beach bar, reading with DS on our lap in the shade, while the other swam and lazed, we strolled about on walks through pine woods with DS in the buggy or a sling, and whiled away evenings in harbour side tavernas with DS on our lap or in the buggy.

A resort hotel with bungalow accommodation would also work well, as you could retreat for a nap and read on the verandah at will, if that is within your price range. But we had a budget apartment in the village.

shinjuku09 · 15/02/2015 15:07

Oh hope my comments weren't too negative OP, I was just trying to be honest. Hopefully you will have, as my people do, a very easy going baby who is happy to snooze in their buggy for much of the day. I guess I just meant not all babies are like that. Anyway I think it's a great idea to go a UK one then consider going abroad a little later. We've recently booked to go to a cottage Northumberland which seems to be really good value considering how much there it to do there.

Futter · 15/02/2015 15:16

Not at all shinjuku you had some helpful advice - there were some very negative comments before this though Shock

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WishUponAStar88 · 15/02/2015 15:21

sparrow that place looks wonderful I've never heard of anywhere like that!

shinjuku09 · 15/02/2015 15:27

Oh good (but sorry about the negative comments)!! I do hope you find somewhere that suits you x

123Jump · 16/02/2015 08:14

Kellys!
Its a bit like an Irish Kellermans,Grin. Going 150 years in the same family.
All you need to bring is bottles if using them and nappies. They will provide everything else. Lovely playroom, friendly experienced staff. They will look after the baby for you if you want or need a few minutes alone.
Gorgeous spa, right on a beautiful beach, loads to do for everyone or just relax.
Food is fab! We have a local lady (arranged through the hotel) and she has been babysitting the kids for years, so we get a quiet dinner each evening. I really recommend it.

TwoLittleTerrors · 16/02/2015 08:25

I can't believe all the negative comments. Personally I would wait till after the newborn jabs. Only because the GP is rubbish at giving appointments and I want them asap whenever I can get a slot!

That said we went to a UK holiday when DD2 is 2mo. Self catering and less than 2 hour drive. Baby is very easy. It's the toddlers that are hard.

DD1 is 3yo and we have been to Spain and the Far East. It's really not that bad flying long haul. We are going again during Easter to australia and DD2 will be 6mo.

Go wherever you like. If you are an experienced traveller you won't have problems. As long as you adjust your expectations. And I would also pick countries with good medical facilities for peace of mind.

TwoLittleTerrors · 16/02/2015 08:25

You can buy nappies overseas easily. We usually take a pack and buy more at the destination.

flipchart · 16/02/2015 08:30

We went to Minorca when Ds1 was 3 and DS2 was 3 months old. We hired a car and had a great time although if I recall correctly I think we went in June. No problems with him on flights or anything.

homebythesea · 16/02/2015 08:35

I don't think people are meaning to be negative as such, just realistic based on their own experiences! It's trite but true to say that the baby really will change the way you go about things from here on in - everyone's experience is different because all babies are different!

Cric · 16/02/2015 08:36

We went to france and stayed in a little house. We drove and then we could take anything and everything! It was one of my favourite ever holidays! Our honeymoon wins best holiday though ;)

TwoLittleTerrors · 16/02/2015 08:53

homebythesea I'm referring to the one saying don't bother at all. I agree it's a good idea to wait after birth to book etc to see what baby is like. Some babies are definitely easier than others. Tbh with a reflux non sleeper I don't think UK cottage will be any better than a Spanish villa!

Chanmum71 · 16/02/2015 09:10

We chose France for our first holiday when our youngest was a baby because the drive is relatively short and you still feel that you are abroad (with better weather than the UK!). We struck gold with an English owned baby-friendly group of cottages called Mirabelle near La Rochelle. There were other families and the owners were really helpful and friendly. We've been 4 times since and it has always been really relaxing and now feels like home. Look at www.bestfrenchgites.co.uk and don't worry too much - it's an adventure.. Channy x

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